i asked the girl i like while she was going out with another guy if she wernt datting that guy and i asked her out wht her answer would be she told me she thought of me as just a freind yet befor this guy she seemed to like me so whts the deal have i messed up and should i move on or is there anyadvise that i could have
2007-02-21 13:02:08 · 25 answers · asked by novicane_punk350 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, she shot you down,, but you never, know,,, maybe in the future you will have another shot,,, just be whitty and don't crowd her...
2007-02-21 13:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen young lady first of all be careful with the other person that ask you how good you are in bed. this is nobodies business how good you are. NOBODIES
Second you have to be really sure of your friends feelings. What made you think that she would go out with a girl if she likes guys. You do not change your feeling towards genders in and open-close of eyes. Do not risk loosing a good friend, friends are very hard to come by. KEEP HER AS A FRIEND AND BE CAREFUL WITH YOUR WORDS.
Go on living and relax you will find the right one when you least expect it, trust me.
good Luck
2007-02-21 21:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by ana d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is with this other guy now, so it doesn't matter how she may have felt about you then, she is with him now and she is being devoted to him. If she was with him, but told you that she would want to date you, wouldn't that tell you that she is kindof not being very respectful to the guy shes with? And if so, would you really want to be with a girl who would tell this to another guy while shes with you? Well, maybe I am just reaching a little too far, but, my point is that I think you should move on. Period. You will find someone when the time is right that will make you forget you ever had a crush on this girl.... good luck!
2007-02-21 21:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say move on and find someone who isn't dating to be with . She told you the truth as a friend that she likes you as a friend . If she liked you in any other way she would have said yes I would date you . Keep your friendship and you never know you two might end up together until then move on a find a lady . GOOD LUCK !!!
2007-02-21 21:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...You got your answer. I don't think you did anything wrong at all. Honesty is always best...People know where they stand and you know where others stand as well.
Thing is... If she told you that she thought of you only as a friend, she wasn't interested in you at all on any other level than platonic anyway. I doubt that her mind would change wether or not she was with this guy.
So, you didn't mess anything up at all... You simply got your answer.
Twice said..... Move on..
2007-02-21 21:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her when she needs you (e.g., if he boyfriend breaks up with her?). Be the person she can turn to when she has something that she needs to talk about, but don't ask her out right after the break-up. You didn't f*** up, you just think you did. Don't worry, I did the same thing and I was there for him when his trampy gf was cheating. He and I are so happy together, he actually sent her flowers with a thank you card for helping bring us together. (actually it said "Thank You" on the outside, and on the inside, he wrote "for being a slutty tramp.")
2007-02-21 21:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Traveler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say you messed up. You wanted an answer to your question & you got it. She may have liked you before, but she has a boyfriend now. Just hang in there & wait for her to break up with him & then be there for her.
2007-02-21 21:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry, but you havee to move on. Also, us girls always act too friendly to the guys. But at least you told her your feelsings. Isnt it better to regret something you have done than you havent done?
2007-02-21 21:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Orange? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is in a happy/ healthy relationship w/ her man then you shouldn't interfere. its rude. but if she was sinlge i would ask to " go on a "friendly" date. but for now i would move on she is w/ sum one else and you should chill and find sum other SINGLE female. hope that helps
2007-02-21 21:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by clerks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it seems that if she did like you, she got over it and moved on. But thats ok. Rejection is hard. Just move on.
2007-02-21 21:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by Here I come I am cinnamon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls flirt even with friends..dont trip she likes u as a friend u will find the girl of your dreams
2007-02-21 21:05:13 · answer #11 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋