Do you think that he is with me ffor the right reasons or do you think he is like the stereotypical 19 year old who ppl wud say only cares about sex and such...Obviously you do not know him so its hard to judge...but to me he is an amazing and loving person but I am just being thrown off by hearing all of the stories about how all of these older guys with younger girls have the wrong motives..what do u think? :)
2007-02-21 12:57:43 · 20 answers · asked by *Mariah* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey.... im 15 and i have this girl ive been with sence 13 and i love her more than anything..... i am not one of those sick perverts out there and i d think about sex all the time sure every guy thinks about it but it doesnt mean he wants u jus for sex there are guys out there who actauly want to be with there girl for the rest of their life....... i want to be with the girl im with right now for the rest of my life and she thinks the same about me soooo if u think he jus wants u for sex than get away from him if he doesnt and he acts like me then stay with him theres not one of these kinda guys every where we're one of a kind so be careful.
2007-02-21 13:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by devinlisk93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 15 when I met my current boyfriend. (He was 18) we are now in our 20s and buying our first house.
We had a lot of tough times with people spreading rumors. I had a guy friend once that told my boyfriend I slept with him (When I didn't) So you can't always rely on someones word.
Don't listen to gossip, I mean if you can see him flirting with other girls and such then at least you have proof. But if you are just going from word of mouth then I dunno, that's not always best. Some people aren't very reliable. If he was like that before you met him then fine, as long as he's not like that now it shouldn't matter.
If you are both happy then don't worry about anyone else :)
2007-02-21 21:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're 18, no one will care how much older he is. The only thing is right now you're underage and if he has sex with you, he can be arrested for statutory rape.
Also, what exactly does a 16 year old have in common with a 19 year old? Is he in college? At this point in your lives, you have VERY little in common.
I'm married to a man who is 8 years older than I am. However, we met in college.
2007-02-21 21:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you started seeing each other he was an 18 year old adult, possibly out of high school. You were a 15 year old hoigh school sophomore. He is a loser or he would date someone at the same place he is in life. Find yourself a younger boyfriend.
2007-02-21 21:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by blakereik 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should know that it is in the male nature to want all that and then sum. Your too young to go the places he is going, he's out of highschool, hopefully in college. His adult life has begun, you probably have a cerfew still, there are too many things that could possibly lead to problems. Don't make yourself miss out on the fun irresponsibility of teenage life cause you need to be all mature for this dude. Final opinion, he just wants the booty.
2007-02-21 21:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by ratfart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be a better judge then I but it if is for the wrong reasons then it would be obvious for example, wanting sex, pressuring you to do things you might not want to do...just keep an open eye out and you should be fine
2007-02-21 21:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me most 19 year olds all want the same thing and it's not an honest relationship. date someone no more than a year younger or a year older otherwise you are asking for trouble
2007-02-21 21:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be an honest person and love you for who you are but you can never be too sure. he could just want you for sex. only time will tell and if he does only want you for sex then you need to dump him and find someone who does care about you. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-21 21:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 17 and my bf is 19 and he isnt lyk everyother 19 year old he caring and tells me he loves me all the time and always wants to be with me it just depends how he acts
2007-02-21 21:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by tasha a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exacly what you mean but now he is my ex and i want him back so good luck for me anyways and he was 17 and i was 14 or still am enyways tell him how you feel dont be afraid to if he really loves you he will understand
2007-02-21 21:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋