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I'm shy...
I'm quiet and usually have nothing to say...
^ it makes it extra hard to make friends, especially since i'm going to attend a new school...where most people already have their little social groups already....have any tips?
also class has started already like 2 weeks ago,
and students already have their desks to sit in...
so where do i sit, people will usually be like...
"YOUR IN MY SEAT...move.."
what do i do? i don't want to get bullied...

2007-02-21 12:55:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

4 answers

When you go into your class, first wait until everyone has found their seat so that way you will know where to sit, if that helps.

You need to have confidence in yourself and just be yourself. Don't be someone who you're not. Making friends does take some time and it won't happen over night either. So, just say 'hi' to the people that you see that are friendly. Don't worry about the ones who don't respond to you. Stay away from groups that tend to get into trouble, you don't want to hang out with them just to make friends. Be polite, kind, and just be yourself.

Don't focus too much on how people look at you, focus on why you are really in school, education; friends come later.

2007-02-21 13:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm very quite too, so yeah. Starting in a new Hight School is like a whole new world of everything. Older kids, so many choices, different classes, gossips, parties, and so much more. Get involved in something at your school that interests you, and you'll find friends that have the same thing in common with u. So try that. When your walking in the hallways, stand tall, and keep yah head up. Show people who u really are. Don't be afriad to ask other students questions, or advice if you need it. I want u to build up your self- esteem and confidence. It takes alot of courage. When it comes to bullies, ignore them. There just an act to me. Just be yourself, and not pretend to be something your not. Well, I hope that helps.

2007-02-21 21:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby♥♥ 6 · 0 0

join a sort of club or group! it's a great way to get to know new people. also, you sometimes just need to get out of your bubble ...it can be very hard though, but it's completely worth it! might be a bit awkward also. if the whole "your in my seat" thing happens, don't take it too hard and just maybe laugh a bit and say "oh sorry!" and don't make a big deal out of it, because it isn't, it's not your fault. also, smile a lot! people are more approachable when they are smiling, and if you eat lunch at school maybe try picking out different "groups" to sit by each day or week and see which you like ...this is getting way too long! but anyways, good luck!

2007-02-21 21:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

smile as you walk around...say hi to people if they look at you...just don't look like your shy....and if people do bully you....become friends with them...because they most likely have problems at home....

2007-02-21 20:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by rat_leg danny 3 · 0 0

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