my dad got divorced from my mom for being a alcholic and now he got divorced again for doind drugs. i have no idea how to handle it. :((
2007-02-21 13:03:07 · 4 answers · asked by Autumnkins 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not your problem it is his. You can't help a person who does not want help. Even if you love them. He has to first want to help himself. When he hits bottom and wants help then you can help him, but if you try while he is on this downward spiral he is only going to take you with him. I say love him from afar until he can commit to getting help and starts to love himself. You help him best by being the best person that you can be. Don't become an enabler by helping he continue his current lifestyle. Tough love but it has to start somewhere. Don't allow yourself to become another used up woman in his life - he has already done it twice.
2007-02-21 13:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by ARM 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thanks for YOUR advice on my question so dang.....no offense but both parents have big problems my best friends parents just divorced and married again and divorced so what she did was go to her aunts house for 2 months to heal up and when she got back her parents were all nice again and married to each other they said that there problems were solved and they were fine they misunderstood each other and that's why they were divorced so maybe your dad drinks and does drugs for a certain reason that your mom doesn't know about.....so try and talk to your dad about it and see if I'm right....
2007-02-23 15:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by holiday girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I even have experienced a million divorce. this is heartbreaking. while i became a new child, my mom took custody of me. yet that became a at an analogous time as in the past. attempt chatting with them a pair of million/2 the week. Like stay with mom monday- thursday and pa friday by using sunday.
2016-09-29 10:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for dad, he needs you now. Divorce is probaly bothering him to, your being there for him will help him realize he is not a failure, good luck to you
2007-02-21 13:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by dog hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋