for the last past three week he hasn't been spending that much time with me because he has to do stuff with his kids I don't know if he is seeing some one else are the kids mom.
2007-02-21 13:04:18 · 24 answers · asked by ALLEYCAT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, whatever he is doing, it cannot be leading to any good if it doesn't include you. You should probably sit down and have a heart to heart. Ask him if his "break" means that you can see other people, or if he expects you to sit around and wait for him while he sows his royal oats persay. Either way, it is not fair to you to be held on with a string, unless you are pinocchio. When you do talk to him, though, make sure you know that after six years you should be included in anything he has do to with the kids, escpecially if he plans on marrying you one day. Good luck and be strong.
2007-02-21 13:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, his first priorities are his kids. No matter if he is your boyfriend, they come first in his life. So, this is something you might want to think about before even thinking of marrying him.
My opinion, don't marry someone who already has kids, because you will have the kid's mom involved in your life with him too.
Or, it could be that he is probably seeing someone else, or maybe thinking on getting back with his ex wife.
Do consider on reading the book called, "10 Stupid Things Women Do To Mess Up Their Lives" by Dr. Laura Schlessinger.
2007-02-21 13:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the break and see what happens I mean six years is a long time maybe he jsut needs to be sure everything is how he wants it. Plus if he is seeing someone else now is the time to find out not years from now and if he is to heck with him.
2007-02-21 13:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Muffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is let him take that brake. My and my boyfriend of 14 months just split 2 nights ago, we are in the same boat, but i know how emotionally unstable it can be. Its gonna take alot of will power to give him the break he wants, not talking to him or what not. Try to keep yourself occupied, mabie even spill your heart on a peice of paper. I'm hoping the best for you, If i can do it, You can do it.
2007-02-21 13:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember back when I was dating and guys would say this very thing. We would take a break and you would see them with someone else. You need to come right out and ask him if there is someone else. Don't be surprised if there is.
2007-02-21 13:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by Rotties World 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you CAN do.
In the end it doesn't matter how much you want him back. He's telling you that he needs a break. If he's been spending more time with his kids, he needs to spend time with them. If he's possibly spending time with someone else, you deserve better.
2007-02-21 13:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "break" means "our relationship it's over but I'm not man enough to say it".
You just wasted six years of your life, be more careful the next time.
Avoid losers and players.
2007-02-21 13:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is telling you that he needs a break then give him one you might fell hurt for awhile since yall been together for six years but you will get over him and if he is seeing somebody other than you drop him b/c you can do soooo much better than him O.K.A.Y
2007-02-21 13:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by m. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the break - and have some fun for yourself. He may come running back because your life is going on with out him. Either way, have fun in the process.
2007-02-21 13:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by MommaSchmitt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give it to him, because if you don't he would be prone to go out and do things that he would do, if he where single, Like cheat, and I'm sure that would hurt even more. Maybe a little time, will heal womb and you guys can work things out.
2007-02-21 13:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by Kourtney Hall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋