Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

Is it harder for men or women to be alone. I think women don't have a problem finding men because there's always someone that will find you attractive. You could have a lazy eye, buck teeth, with one breast. Someone will love you for you. With us men, we have to be charming, secure, masculine, sensitive, and funny all in one pot or women lose interest. I dont know. That's just my opinion. What do you think?

2007-02-21 13:38:17 · 5 answers · asked by hardworkur84 2 in Singles & Dating

I got married almost a year ago at 19, now I'm 20. My husband and I have a beautiful 6 month old baby boy. But ever since he was born, things haven't been the same. I feel like I can't be a mom and a good wife at the same time you know? Me and my husband just don't have that "spark" anymore, and we're still so young that I feel like it's too early to be feeling like this! i want it to be like when we were dating again! What do I do? I love being a mom, but it's just like I can't even pay attention to my hubbie anymore. and i feel bad leaving the baby to go anywhere so I don't know what to do. please help! thank you
love, laura

2007-02-21 13:37:31 · 10 answers · asked by lauraalexak 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a Male, 31 years old and am having wierd feelings about where I should be in life.
I was in a 4 year relationship that ended 6 months ago and I am kinda in a lost place right now.
With her I knew what I wanted in the future, marriage, kids, etc....
Now I am not so sure what I want. I keep meeting women but none of them actually stick. I have not felt the same connection with anyone as I had with my ex, so I am not going to settle.
But I spend every day trying to meet "the one", feeling as if I am wasting my life, getting old and will never find what I once had.
Am I crazy to be thinking this way at 31. Feeling as if I should be settling down. Should I just enjoy my time being single, enjoy life for now until "the one" comes along?
I am a good looking guy, make a six figure income, have no problem meeting women, but just can't find the right one. Why do I feel I need a women to be happy? It really sucks!!!

2007-02-21 13:37:09 · 2 answers · asked by Mike D 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm was very shy but have pushed myself out of it. I try to meet people and make friends but it seems like I am the only one trying. What I mean is I talk to people in class and such all the time, but no one ever starts a conversation with me. I don't mind doing it, but always having to be the one to do it gets tiring and is confusing me. Are most people uninterested in makeing more friends? Do they have all the friends they want? Are there many people who are looking for friends?

(I don't smell bad)


I'm not pushy, most of the time i ask people if they like this class.

2007-02-21 13:36:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am currently going out with this beautiful girl, she is my first love and I keep hearing how first love's dont last... I'm afraid it wont last... what do you think/...

2007-02-21 13:36:15 · 10 answers · asked by g_ramirezjr 1 in Singles & Dating

i think my husband as become a workaholic. he works 8 hours a day sometimes and hour more or so but, he is working six days a week sometimes seven if he has to. When he comes home the phone never stop ringing from his work too, that really pisses me off because we always getting interrupted and he only gets 2 sundays a month free and one day a week but a lots of time they told him to go to work that day and he does and thats hurts me bacause thats my time with him but he dosent cared and still goes my sons often calls him and i breaks my heart to say to him once and once again daddy is working he be home soon i know he starting to miss him and he is only 3 theres not much i can tell him how can i help him learn to make limits. why he dosent listen what i tell him? we need to spent time together in orde of our relationship to grow and to spent quality time as a family with pour kids. i need adviced what should i do?

2007-02-21 13:36:04 · 1 answers · asked by user 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just wanted to know how people think about it.some may call it fake , and some immature teens may be going thru puppy love,but at these ages i feel u know what love is and what it feels like.this girl i know "she" has been with this guy for a year and some!!! they are like unsepratable and this guy says he would give his life for her and she says the same.,,,,,just wantin to know how u feel about it

2007-02-21 13:35:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I sort of have this problem with my girlfriend, she likes my drawings and poems but she acts like she doesnt like me sometimes, well most of the time and she was acting strange today. I dont know what she is thinking and i really dont want to break up......... If you probably know what is wrong with her and i need a little advice PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-21 13:35:44 · 6 answers · asked by Poison Sharingan 1 in Singles & Dating

Will you marry your girl/boyfriend whom you are having now

2007-02-21 13:34:57 · 5 answers · asked by Zhao xu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i met my husband at a small bar back at home 4 yrs ago... and in 1 year total we met, got pregnant, and married also moved halfway around the world. what would you say about that?

we had so many fights that it turn out with nothing positive but a sweet kid. 3 yrs old now...

he cheated on me in 2 different ways... ( talking to his ex and telling her that he wants to be with her.; that was on the internet... also he made out with a chick in our own back yard)

(it doesn't have to be sex to be cheating does it?)

i forgave him for all. he told me at the beginning of the relationship that he does not give second chances. i gave him more than a second chances! thats why i always stay home. i have a reason to and its because i have a second chance to raise a son i have always wanted. but whats is wrong with this?
i became withdrawn and alone. no friends. he doesn't like it when i ask questions like this online... what would your respond be? pls if u can, just tell me. thanks.

2007-02-21 13:34:25 · 23 answers · asked by silltnwild 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like my boyfriend so much and want to kiss him for the first time how do I drop hints to get him to Kiss me???????

2007-02-21 13:34:01 · 6 answers · asked by Emma R 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 18. i gave the boy i like a note telling him that i like (i was to afraid to face him) since i gave him the note he has not been in school. is he avoiding me???? should i worry???

2007-02-21 13:32:48 · 21 answers · asked by misbehaveing 2 in Singles & Dating

This is bit of a funny situation, me and my ex have been split up for a bit over 2 years, and i have now got another partner, but there will always be a place in my heart for him, and about 6 months ago we sort of got back together for a while but then i got back with my current b/f and then only one month ago my ex told me that he misses me (his current g/f found this message and went off) and since then he hardly talks to me, and then just the other day he was really cold towards me, but i havent actually done anything to him it was all him. And he's being really nasty towards me and wont talk to me anymore, but i think of him as a good friend and i still want to remain good friends... do you think he still likes me and thats why he's being awful or does he just not like me at all?

2007-02-21 13:32:44 · 9 answers · asked by Danneedadvice 2 in Singles & Dating

theres a boy name michael at my school that i REALLY like. but i never talk to him cause i scared to. how do i get him to notice me?

2007-02-21 13:32:04 · 14 answers · asked by jalesa m 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my G/F has been trying to avoid me all day today then I saw her walking to the bus with one of my friends after she had told me she was going to walk with her friends what should I do?

2007-02-21 13:31:53 · 11 answers · asked by black.bullet32 1 in Friends

My parents have basically given up on my brother and I'm expected to be better and stay home all the time. I should be able to do more. They say they're trying to protect me but it's getting pretty ridiculous and I feel stuck.

2007-02-21 13:31:43 · 9 answers · asked by Char 0000 2 in Family

do guys find a gurl who cusses or has a somewat of a bad attitude. plz help me i like this guy and i think he likes me we always give eachother"juss friend hugs", but i think hes starting not to like me bcuz i cuss alot wat should i do plz help me

2007-02-21 13:31:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my so called fiance is the only one who doesnt know whats happened? We live together..he was upset with me yesterday but I got no good luck..no phone call asking me how it went...930pm hes not home nothing....so sad and I'm ready to leave.

2007-02-21 13:30:59 · 1 answers · asked by melissaw219 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 13:30:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and fastest way?

2007-02-21 13:30:21 · 9 answers · asked by princesa 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls, what moves do u use to make him feel u..?? tips?

thx!.

2007-02-21 13:30:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and hes been sending me all the signals that he likes me :holding hands, moving in for a kiss all of this flirty stuff then he told this kid that he doesnt like at all that he doesnt like me but he is still sending these signals and im not sure if he is telling the truth then he wont talk to me what would you call this

2007-02-21 13:30:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at my good friend's birthday party and I ended up staying out real late and doing many celebration shots so I don't remember what I talked to this girl about for 20 minutes. I am calling her tonight for the first time but am afraid I will ask a lot of the same questions I may have asked her Saturday night. Should I confess and tell her I got drunk and don't remember our conversation? I should probably tell her that but it might seriously turn her off. Any advice?

2007-02-21 13:29:54 · 5 answers · asked by chris p 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 7 months asked me to marry him at a concert last week. We were both drinking and I was almost drunk. I told him it wasnt an appropriate time because we were drinking. He thinks I was wrong for saying this. Was I?

2007-02-21 13:29:17 · 9 answers · asked by anngeez2005 1 in Singles & Dating

When you renew your vows do you surpose to do the some thing new, old, borrewed, and blue like you do when you first get married? Just wondering cause me and my husband are renewing our vows july 19, 2007

2007-02-21 13:28:31 · 3 answers · asked by bestwvgirl 1 in Weddings

My friend is pretty self-centered and he knows he is but he doesnt know what to do or why he thinks he needs attention. Any advice?

2007-02-21 13:28:26 · 5 answers · asked by OneRadTaco 2 in Friends

always ask if i am close to being in love with him? or when do i think ill fall in love with him? or do i think i ever will be?.. im talking about my ex who is now my friends with benefits who i am thinking about going out with.

no sex. just making out. im only 14. he is 16.

2007-02-21 13:27:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is girl in my english class, when Im going inside the class she always wathching me and smiling so sweet to me.... so you know whats my story. I want to make her as my girlfriend but I dont know what to say. she is not devil girl, you know. My engish not very good and because of I dont know what should I do. This session on English class I drew teachers face for her and she enjoyd it improve it better for me. that was good. but every session she leaving the class so fast, faster than the rabbit and I dont have a second to get her. so help me and tell me what should I do. What should I say toher. :-)

more details: I dont have a car and my life is mess because I came here last month. I know she like to talk to me, but I dont know how to pay attention to her.

2007-02-21 13:26:45 · 8 answers · asked by mr_michaelj 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband seprated i feel like the bad person becuz i told him to leave.. we have 3 kids together and one more on the way.. been together for 7 years and been married for 3. he is a drunk and it gettin worse he denys all of his kids there is aways an excuse why they are not his. and on the 3rd one he kneeied me in the stomach and i went into labor 2 hours later and had my son a month early. iam just compelty drained and exhausted from this. he is makin out that iam the ***** and iam the bad one. but how much can a person put up with before we crack. i dont want him back in this apt. until he attempts to change but he hasnt tried. no i feel like iam deprivin my children. but aim afraid that if i let him take them he will run with them or that he will drink with them in his care and something terrible will happen to them while in his care. am I wrong for havin him leave?? ma I the bad person for this iam gettin confused? i dont know what i should do.

2007-02-21 13:26:18 · 20 answers · asked by jessica H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it was 6month i didnt meet my boyfriend.but he is coming here tomorrow!! 3 days ago i went to trekking and i got all mosquito bites all over my face and my hand!! i've tried to used many kinds of creams but it doesn't works!! its like having pimples all over my face and my hand....what should i do? plz share some tips on doing this.....!!!!!

2007-02-21 13:25:21 · 13 answers · asked by hiro_quiro87 1 in Singles & Dating