Is it harder for men or women to be alone. I think women don't have a problem finding men because there's always someone that will find you attractive. You could have a lazy eye, buck teeth, with one breast. Someone will love you for you. With us men, we have to be charming, secure, masculine, sensitive, and funny all in one pot or women lose interest. I dont know. That's just my opinion. What do you think?
2007-02-21 13:38:17 · 5 answers · asked by hardworkur84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
women have it easier because men are more open to show they are physical predators, women are as well but they can hide it better.
so yes, more men are hunters that will flock while women can sit back because men just walk up to them and save them the trouble...why go around and seek for men when they will just come?
it works both for men and women, men want women that are attractive and sexy, women want men who are confident and strong.
the reason you see is that women have it easy because men flock, and you dont see women flock....again, women dont need to flock when the choices just come to them.
you need to be different than the ones that flock in order to catch their interest. a woman can get any of those that flock at any time, something different is more rare and desired.
2007-02-21 13:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is definately someone (more than 1 someone) for everyone.
I also think that we are social beings who prefer the affection of another over being alone.
I think a lot of people are afraid to admit this for fear of appearing "needy and dependent".
A man, in my opinion should definately know how to "work" his manhood. Yes, masculine and kind, compassionate, sensitive. If a woman can be ALL THINGS, why do you think you cannot??
I doubt they lose interest in the type of man I just described. Unless of course you are choosing very shallow character females. OR... you may want to examine yourself. We can ALL improve on something...many times over and for the rest of our lives.
As a man, you hold a huge responsibility. Be THAT... Live up to that! THAT is attractive to females. You're needed... believe me...
:o) Good Luck to you!!
2007-02-21 21:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say men have it easier because most of us are more secure and don't wine about it they just move on and live life
2007-02-21 22:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by player_28147 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person whom you are referring to. me, i'm independent. my personality helps me deal with being alone. others might need someone to be with, cheer them up, a companion.
it is harder for someone who lacks self-confidence, depends on other people, and cannot be alone just on a bus/train ride.
2007-02-21 21:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by cognition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are wrong its the opposite man!
2007-02-21 21:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by bubblez963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋