I am a Male, 31 years old and am having wierd feelings about where I should be in life.
I was in a 4 year relationship that ended 6 months ago and I am kinda in a lost place right now.
With her I knew what I wanted in the future, marriage, kids, etc....
Now I am not so sure what I want. I keep meeting women but none of them actually stick. I have not felt the same connection with anyone as I had with my ex, so I am not going to settle.
But I spend every day trying to meet "the one", feeling as if I am wasting my life, getting old and will never find what I once had.
Am I crazy to be thinking this way at 31. Feeling as if I should be settling down. Should I just enjoy my time being single, enjoy life for now until "the one" comes along?
I am a good looking guy, make a six figure income, have no problem meeting women, but just can't find the right one. Why do I feel I need a women to be happy? It really sucks!!!
2007-02-21 13:37:09 · 2 answers · asked by Mike D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen body I think you are a very interesting man you are having a hard time right now and it is understandable when you gt hurt bad you have a hard to let go at times to me it seem like you wherre very confortable with your ex I'm not sure of the reason but that ok we all one but at one time when things go wrong there is no turning back that is when you need to let go. Do yu do any sport any leisure you enjoy youi even might have to change yur lifestyle do something different you enjoy you know I am sure there is a lucky lady waiting just for you at the right time and the right moment take your time you are still young enjoy life. You know I had my first child at thirty one. From what i've read from you you just have to many good things going on take your time and just have fun life is too short good luck and take care
2007-02-21 13:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by Johanne L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well good looking, tear up that list of must haves in a woman and let nature take its course. you wont find the one of your dreams in your dreams. get over your last relationship first and completely before you start a relationship. we all know when we are ready to settle down. at what age is up to the individual person. you sound like your almost ready. good luck
2007-02-21 21:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋