Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

I remember my sex education classes at school were laughable - and I learnt more about sex and relationships from the playground than I ever did in the classroom - I know I wasn't unique - so what would be the best way to help kids cope with the teenage years - when they're neither child or adult but a combination of both ?

For example when are we going to deal with the stigma surrounding masturbation and is it a good idea for a parent to take a child to a prostitute like I heard of one mother doing for her son on his 16th birthday - shouldn't we be dealing with all the denial by now in our stage of development of the human race in the 21st century ?

2007-02-21 16:42:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I met this guy a month ago. We really clicked in the beginning and we'd talk for hours on the phone. Then all of sudden out of nowhere, he stopped calling and we stopped hanging out. We didn't talk for a couple of weeks and I tried calling him but he wouldn't return my call. I couldn't hold my feelings and had to tell me. However, I told him thru a message (cuz he wouldn't call me back). Ever since I sent that message, I still haven't heard from him. I don't understand what I did wrong. I just don't understand it. Do I just let him go and not even bother trying? I just don't know what to do. I like this guy a lot... I'm just confused!

2007-02-21 16:42:16 · 8 answers · asked by Star 1 in Singles & Dating

Does marriage destroy love?

2007-02-21 16:41:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

have u ever wandered what u might see when you close your eyes or what u might miss if you do close your eyes

2007-02-21 16:41:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 16:40:20 · 16 answers · asked by Mr.DarkFire 2 in Singles & Dating

well...its been a year...since my mother died...and i have had some dreams with her...only when bad things happen...its her jus sittin and i'm staring at her crying...and thats about it...my family have been through some rough times...i think i should write a book about it...idk...maybe....but...thts all i get...then...

i dream that i'm lookin at that same spot...but she's not there...and all of a sudden this hand comes out of nowhere and hits my face...but i wake up...and from walking around the house...from my perifial*idk* vision i can see a shadow...just a dark shadow....

My brother slept in the living room where my mother did pass away in...and he said he woke up to having pressure on his chest and he coudnt breath...as if someone was suffocating him...

I hear things move time to time...and my bed is really creaky...and time to time it sounds like some one sits on it...an makes a noise sometimes.

Is this my mother being angry with us?...or something else?....PLZ HELP!

2007-02-21 16:39:54 · 3 answers · asked by ME 2 in Family

But Domestics keeps putting it off like it is no big deal. What can i do?

2007-02-21 16:39:45 · 5 answers · asked by mandy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

so my gf of 4mthns tells me yesterday that she needs time to sort some stuff out (not abt me). We happen to meet 3hrs after school starts. She had tests so I ask her how they went and she says good and we leave with a kiss. Try to find my english teacher (1 hr later) and do and she happens to be in the same room, I talk to other but try and give her "her space" Then I go up to her and ask how history class was and we talk for a short time, she then pulls me close (like she doesnt need her space anymore). The rest of the day is like nothing ever happend!! (but sit down on the bench near my classroom, giving her some space, and she comes over!!) But tonite I send her a text to say I love you gd night, and she responds with "c u tommorow" Is this (the txt) a sign that she needs her space again? Or is the fact that she clearly wanted me today a sign that she has solved her problem? Dont get me wrong I LOVE HER!! but I want to make sure i am giving her "her space"..

2007-02-21 16:36:59 · 6 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Singles & Dating

is it because they can't make it alone emotionally and/or financially?

2007-02-21 16:35:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am confused and hurt my husband is cheating on me and he even told me to my face he said "so what f*** y*** do something about it." it is my home we live in he is not on the lease it is my truck he drives it is in my name. I want to kick him out but cant because he is abusive and wont leave without a fight and the risk of him hurting me very bad sure i could call the police but he will be out the next night or so then come back and abuse me more sure i can get a restraining order but he said he will still hurt me cause it takes 5-10min on till the police would even show up i don't know what to do why should i leave my home my kids are already enrolled in school here and i don't want to move he should be the one to leave there has got to be a way to use reverse phycology or something so he can leave on his own right?

2007-02-21 16:35:14 · 15 answers · asked by dmf 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-21 16:35:07 · 7 answers · asked by ivallrod 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i always wondered how you can tell if your gf is a freak or shy, how do you tell an if she isnt how do you make her

2007-02-21 16:34:03 · 18 answers · asked by babyboil17 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you tell if a guy likes you? i mean like how do they flirt? i know girls like twist their hair, flutter their lashes, look into guys eyes, smile and talk raspier. but i have no idea how to tell on a guy! im sorry if you find this question dumb but i really am serious.

2007-02-21 16:33:45 · 2 answers · asked by Kritsi Nicole 3 in Singles & Dating

I guess its just a magical period of time in my life, because I have become increasingly horny (yes, my spouse LOVES it) and even if I don't reach an orgasm, I just frequently have a uncontrollable urge to have a penis inside me. . . . all the time. . has anyone else ever felt this way?

2007-02-21 16:33:42 · 9 answers · asked by mommi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 16:33:05 · 5 answers · asked by dyerow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It can't hurt right?

2007-02-21 16:32:46 · 42 answers · asked by Jennifer S 4 in Singles & Dating

my best friend jamie just got this really ugly, weird and gross bf. hes comes up to us (jamies best friends) and acts like hes all the ****, and hes the best and he "owns " us. i HATE him and dont see what she sees in him!!!
is there any nice way of telling jamie, without making her mad?
HELP!!!

2007-02-21 16:32:38 · 6 answers · asked by Katee C 1 in Friends

please understand I am not working on vengance it is not my cup of tea. If my husband was cheating and wants back into my life I would have readily forgiven him. Flesh is weak and always been telling him that I will forgive him for any affair he has. But this is a totally different scenario.This woman has wrecked homes before and with her new position she will continuously keep doing it as long as she can. My only intention is not of revenge or anger it is that what pain and helplessness I am undergoing I dont want any other woman or kid to undergo.Each night he comes late and leaves early before my daughter wakes up, i need to answer his absence. What a husband is capable of a wife knows better, I never meant to insult my husband when i said he couldnot plan..when you answer please think carefully.

2007-02-21 16:32:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Today in our sociaty people with integrity and being loyal needs to step up to the bat to save the ordained marriage & help couples to stay & to fight for their marriages instead of taking the quiter's & the coward's way out from their ordained marriage by getting a divorce.Our sociaty needs MORE people who cares for values , commitment , integrity , faithful and being loyal.People change marriages like they change their socks these days. Commitment means nothing anymore and it is great sadness.No one fells out from love , they fell out from commitment. So the sociaty needs people who will save the lifetime commitment with creative ways to help couples to stay in their marriages for LIFE. LIFETIME MEANS UNTIL DEATH ! MARRIAGE IS WHAT IT IS UNTIL DEATH ! Life has no limitations, except the ones you make. We need people who wants to be leaders to stay in their marriages to help others out in their marriages.A person needs to get their eyes of self less & get more on their ordained spouse

2007-02-21 16:32:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

can u help me wht i do

2007-02-21 16:31:58 · 11 answers · asked by pemimandya 1 in Singles & Dating

If you have commited someone to fulfill some dream & it is against moral values, it is unethical & unsocial , what you will decide ?
you will back out with the commitment or you will do wrong thing

2007-02-21 16:31:45 · 3 answers · asked by sk 3 in Friends

I've been paying Child suport for 10 years get my kids on the weekend and try i have other children my $ is not the best but i make i guess on the flip side she got married has a huge house and is living well she tell me if i dont give her extra cash she will take me back to court so they can review my $ well this year i made 50 grand and the will raise it i guess but i cant afford it what should i do.

2007-02-21 16:29:48 · 4 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Your boyfriend/partner/spouse decides he wants female friends who are about ten years younger then him, attractive, and intersting. He wants to keep these friendships hidden from you and continues to instigate the friendships (by asking these girls to meet him for coffee, or goes to their apartment to hang out) what do you do? Do you think its okay for him to behave this way because he is just making friends or do you get upset because its being hidden from you? Oppinions please.

2007-02-21 16:29:02 · 17 answers · asked by jennyve25 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been speaking to this woman older then him, he says his mothers age which is around late 40, they meet on the game site where u play games like backgammon, well after he started talking to her he stopped coming to bed, making an excuse that I am pregnant with our 2 child, I told him I don't like the fact they speak but he says that the are just friends and mainly they speak about each other family, life and ect. She is also married and has a son. Well yesterday I have found that THEY not only spoke on the game site but she text ed message him, like where r u? go on the site, I miss u and etc, I made a big fight where he admitted that they spoke on the phone twice, once because her friends husband got in jail and the 2 time about his fathers death, I didn't be live him, he admitted he had a some e-mail from her, which I read, she sends him greeting cards saying she misses him and stuff like that, on v-day she wished him a lot of love with me, I really don't know weather to be live him that THEY just friends visa Internet, to he is cheating I think he is cheating, guys help I don't know what to do, I packed his **** and I want him out, why would a woman older then him e-mail almost every day, asking to go on the site, that she misses him and needs to talk to him, he reply's simply nice and short but a couple of times he called her things he haven't called me in months like sweety, honey, mwuuah, miss u as well, I don't really have no idea what to do. HELP!!!
after SHE ARRIVED IN OUR LIFE HE BARELY SLEEPS WITH ME AND WHEN HE DOES he doesn't even kiss me, I don't remember when he kissed me last time, I've seen her pic she is indeed older then him, but it doesn't stop me from thinking they are together, she calls him hotty and stuff, when I say why u have such a close relationship, he says that all i do is scream he cant share things with me he talks to her she's a doctor she's like a physiologist. Ohhhh I don't know I've been crying all day I don't know what to do

2007-02-21 16:28:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been talking to a lady on match, we've emailed about 6-7 times or so, and I asked her how her search was going. She said I keep meeting all these hot available men ;) basically talking about me, because she had said before me, she hadn't met anyone interesting. So, she asked me how my search was going, and I said Well, I think Seinfeld was right and 90% of the people are UNdatable, and the only reason people get together is .....alcohol!!

She responded back with Hey, whatever works for you, dude.

Did she get turned off?

2007-02-21 16:26:34 · 6 answers · asked by julia k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 16:26:22 · 15 answers · asked by Lisa R 1 in Singles & Dating

When you turn a guy down, then reconsider, how do you bring this fact up with him?
Friday night, my crush indicated to me that I excited him "started a fire" in his pants. I told him "I want to drop this subject!" But I really don't want to drop it. I just didn't know how to respond. So we dropped it. Monday, I thought he was ignoring me. I knew he had been sick over the weekend. So I approached him from the point of view of "I hope you're feeling better now." He talked to me okay then. But because he said he didn't feel like himself yet, I didn't bring up Friday night. So when I see him Wednesday or Thursday, what should I say? I need to know if I have that effect on him all the time? And I want to see where he sees us heading. But I don't know speak my feelings very well. I get flustered. And I'm am a grown woman so I can't use the "I'm in the 9th grade" excuse! What would you do in my situation. I am definately interested in him. I'm just lousy with guys. But this one is terrific.

2007-02-21 16:26:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just hit a bit of a low period... thought I would turn to Yahoo for a bit of a pick me up.. that is all.

2007-02-21 16:26:13 · 10 answers · asked by 21 Year Old 1 in Singles & Dating

likely to attract sharks?

2007-02-21 16:24:51 · 7 answers · asked by Saddam 1 in Singles & Dating

While I am neither engaged nor thinking I will be soon, my sisters are. Both of them have asked me to be a bridesmaid at their weddings and this got me to thinking. I don't want either of them to be bridesmaids in my wedding as I already have my 4 bridesmaids selected. I chose my closest of friends, and while I love my sisters dearly I never really considered either of them to be a "friend."
How do I tell them (when I get engaged, that is) that I don't want them to be bridesmaids for me? Should I just suck it up and make them bridesmaids anyway?

2007-02-21 16:24:08 · 17 answers · asked by Viva 1 in Weddings