It can't hurt right?
2007-02-21 16:32:46 · 42 answers · asked by Jennifer S 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS. my boyfriend is hot
2007-02-21 16:35:54 · update #1
NO NO NO, boys with a hot reputation are usually duds in bed and duds as husbands, duds as men . Easy ask his old girl friends I bet he has acquired and discarded a good few !!Best of luck for future and enjoy your youth until you are ready to settle down. Cheers Pete
Oh dear oh dear ! arn`t we all suckers ? I have just been reading your previous questions, they range from questions about a deadbeat husband to boyfriends and I love the one about your powerfull brain and you wanting your room ate girlfriend to walk around nude !!!. Gee you had me feeling sorry for the innocent little girl who was being pressured into sex for fear of losing her boyfriend. I do hope he dumps you as I now feel sorry for him. Cheers Pete.
Note to other answerer's ! have a look at her previous questions , there is 101 of them !!
2007-02-23 10:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by Realist 2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not that is a dumb reason to dump you. I think if your boyfriend says that he is dumb it is whats inside that counts not if your good in the bed. I think you shouldnt sleep with someone unless your engaged or have been dating for a really long time. Yes it could hurt you because if he doesn't know what hes doing he could get you pregnant. Even if you do use protection it still doesnt prevent a sexual transmited disease. So if i were you i would never sleep with him and i would dump him first because if guys just want that in a relation ship its not worth it you can find somebody way better. And someone that likes you for you and not for your body.
2007-02-21 16:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by TLC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE....because he will leave and several other boyfriends will follow after him....
And all you'll have is your own personal virtue...
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PS....telling him you're pregnant just pisses them off and makes them ABANDON YOU (and your new kid)....Oh sure, they'll blow sunshine up your ****** for a while, just to get some (and that's sweet, not worrying about being the father of the child)
And when you have a kid.....don't expect ANY men to get serious, they don't want to pay for somebody else's kid....and they know they will have to.....
CAN'T HURT??
HEY, I wonder if that's why those crazy terrorists get suckered into killing themselves for Allah....those 72 virgins they get when they die. You hear the joke about Osama Bin Laden dying and getting his *** kicked by 72 VIRGINIANS??
2007-02-21 16:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by reggieman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep with him it will be for all the wrong reasons. If all he wants is sex then leave him. He's probably not even worth keeping around. Don't sleep with him cuz then if he does leave you then you will regret it. Find someone that is way better and that will treat you right. Good Luck!!
2007-02-21 16:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by SweetPie09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That isn't going to guarantee that he still wont leave you. That is never a good reason to sleep with someone. You should because you care about that person and you feel like you are ready for that type of relationship not because you are being pressured into it.
2007-02-21 16:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by gasnshngrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with your boyfriend just to try to keep him! That would be totally wrong!! If he is an understanding boyfriend, he will wait until you are ready. If he wants to leave, let him go because you are too good for him!!!
2007-02-21 16:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never sleep with someone just to try to keep them, it sounds like you have not had sex before, and yes it can hurt, every way possible. If your a virgin, the sex will hurt, if that doesn't stop him from leaving, then that will hurt, and we don't have to say baby or std's do we. don't ever let anyone pressure you in to something you don't want.
2007-02-21 16:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell No!!!!!!!!!!!!! If he can't love you for you and not for the sex, then you don't need him. My fiancee loved me and respected me enough to wait a whole year. And he's 36 and I'm 28. Men have needs but women do to. How would you feel if you did sleep with him and he left you? You need to demand your respect and tell him that if he wants a hoe he can go find one but you are going to give it to him when you get good and ready to. Stay strong.
2007-02-21 16:37:59 · answer #8 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. You shouldn't have to sleep with your boyfriend just to keep him. It doesnt matter if he was hot or the hottest guy on the planet, you should not have to lower yourself just b/c of his looks. There are plenty other guys who you can be with and wont pressure you into sleeping with them just to BE with 'em.
2007-02-21 16:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by tylerjamesdc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not. He's probably just telling you he's going to leave you to get you in bed & then he's going to dump you. Any guy trying to pressure you into sleeping with him is not someone you need to be with if you're not ready for that.
2007-02-21 16:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋