please understand I am not working on vengance it is not my cup of tea. If my husband was cheating and wants back into my life I would have readily forgiven him. Flesh is weak and always been telling him that I will forgive him for any affair he has. But this is a totally different scenario.This woman has wrecked homes before and with her new position she will continuously keep doing it as long as she can. My only intention is not of revenge or anger it is that what pain and helplessness I am undergoing I dont want any other woman or kid to undergo.Each night he comes late and leaves early before my daughter wakes up, i need to answer his absence. What a husband is capable of a wife knows better, I never meant to insult my husband when i said he couldnot plan..when you answer please think carefully.
2007-02-21 16:32:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only thing that I can see is that you keep forgiving him and telling him its OK because flesh is week . To me that's like giving him and her the OK to cheat on you ,How would he ever possibly learn from his mistakes if he is free to do so .
In a way your just as guilty as his girlfriend because the two of you are giving him the go ahead to cheat .No reproductions no nothing for him whats he got to worry about .
I'm not sure what your husband is capable of but I'm sure if you went to the police and told them that you fear for you child's safety and you cant go home because you fear for your life they will help you and they do have a place for battered woman .
Maybe if you ask in hear others can direct you to the proper place
Sometimes you have to take a step
2007-02-21 17:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little lost, but I can tell you that if I was doing anything that I wasn't suppose to do behind my significant others back; I would expect them to leave me. A child should not have to grow up around situations like that, because as they get older they will figure everything out. And one of two things will happen. They will do it theirselves later in life, or they will have some hatred or anger for one or both of the parents.
2007-02-22 00:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by mighty1981mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a special Lady and I do hope he will figure that out before he destroys what love you have for him.---Good Luck!
2007-02-22 00:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move forward in your life and tell her to go to hell and never bother you again!
Then never give her a second thought!
2007-02-22 00:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your husband cheating or not?? if you allow it or don't care about him having affairs..deal with his absence because that's what you're allowing
2007-02-22 00:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋