I met this guy a month ago. We really clicked in the beginning and we'd talk for hours on the phone. Then all of sudden out of nowhere, he stopped calling and we stopped hanging out. We didn't talk for a couple of weeks and I tried calling him but he wouldn't return my call. I couldn't hold my feelings and had to tell me. However, I told him thru a message (cuz he wouldn't call me back). Ever since I sent that message, I still haven't heard from him. I don't understand what I did wrong. I just don't understand it. Do I just let him go and not even bother trying? I just don't know what to do. I like this guy a lot... I'm just confused!
2007-02-21 16:42:16 · 8 answers · asked by Star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has his life too. he probably gets busy and stressed and sometimes just doesn't want to talk.
stop being so self-centerned and thinking its all revolved around you.
go to his house or at school or wherever you see him, and ask him whats wrong.
something bad probably happened in his life.. he might need someone if something happened.
2007-02-21 16:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you had to face this problem. I went thru this type of hurtful and irresponsible relationship. Do not call him nor sms him anymore. Let him get on with himself & trust me, you will felt better.
Go out with your frens & hang out with them. Let time heals everything. You only met him for one month only. So, you just need to relax yourself & accept the fact.
If he still comes back to you, act cool. Just pretend you didn't realise that he went missing. Do not act happy when he called. Just be yourself, b4 u knew him.
2007-02-21 17:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by stormymy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably has another woman. if you had sex with him, then there is your answer. he got what he wanted and now is gone. If he is not in the hospital or jail, I would let him go. quit calling him. It turns a guy off. but it really sounds like he has another woman. men can be such jerks, and hurtful. i think they don't know how to say, i don't like you anymore" so they just ignore you until you go away. give up i bet he broke up with someone, talked to you and now is back with her. another hint, don't EVER drink and dial.
2007-02-21 16:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by dune nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone....dont pressure him. If he wants to talk to you, then he will. Maybe he is just wanting some time to himself to think. You didn't do anything wrong I'm sure of. Just give the guy time to think and he will get back to you if he wants to talk or hang out.
2007-02-21 16:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by mcpark2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it alone..I had a guy like this a few months ago and it seemed he just lost interets..just leave it be and see what happens as hard as that is to do,..he is not worth your time and energy
2007-02-21 16:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Colie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player. Don't let yourself be played. If he does come around, don't be too quick to accept him back. If he doesn't come back, consider yourself lucky to be rid of him.
2007-02-21 16:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He met someone else. Move on. He's not interested in you.
2007-02-21 16:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh! Dignity where is it. forget him!
2007-02-21 16:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by jim_2170 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋