2007-02-21 16:26:22 · 15 answers · asked by Lisa R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're all here Lisa, but it seems all the women want bad boys who treat them like crap, or big bank accounts. What's a normal guy to do.....
2007-02-21 16:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's depressing, but try to be patient. I know a bunch of them, so I can definitely promise that guys like that exist, they're just quite rare sometimes. You also have to remember that they're not usually the flashy ones trying to get your attention, although a few have mastered the art of of true gentlemanly flirting and they're awesome at it! Sometimes they're loners, but there are other times when they kind of come in packs so watch out for groups of them too.
I think church is usually your best bet, but they're also quietly living their lives in the everyday world, so they could be just about anywhere.
I know one family who has six sons and every single one of those boys is capaple of stealing your heart after ten minutes with you because they're just that amazing. Well, the youngest two are still growing up, but I've never known a girl who hasn't developed an instant crush on at least one of the oldest four and loved the rest like brothers just as fast. These guys open doors, call every girl beatiful, pick them up and twirl them around, bring you flowers, be there to talk to when your stressed and treat every single girl even the ones they're attracted to like precious sisters. It's amazing. Anyway, they dont always come in sets of six, (my boyfriend didn't) but they're definitely out there.
Good luck!
2007-02-22 00:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by KatieBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guy here. I work full time. Spent 4 years in the army. College degree. Have custody of my kids and I can't find a decent women.
All they seem to want are guys who will treat them like crap, into drugs and are drunks. Guess you can say I'm a nice guy who finished last, but I can kick the crap out of any bad boy on my worst day.
2007-02-22 00:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by dirtmojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Lisa R.
There are still many decent men around .
The night in shining armour is a myth!
Along with the perfect woman.
Take care!
2007-02-22 00:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well they aren't in the bars thats for sure.
now, i'm not looking, i'm quite happily married and couldn't be bothered with it all if i weren't, but i can tell you i seem to find the nicest, most helpful men in the big box hardware store - home depot.
if i am there and having a hard time finding something, including a clerk, the male customers are always happy to help out. and i'm not even cute! so i have to think that if you were in home depot, or similar store, that you'd have the same luck. i have even had one or two fellas ask me if i wanted to go for coffee. these guys are hardworking fellas and still have time to answer my question or show me where to find whatever i am looking for.
they are always friendly and kind so..................try it!
good luck!
2007-02-22 00:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all had lousy experiences dating real people, and now most of them are dating each other...
Others, on the other hand, have just transformed into mysoginist sociopaths that hate life and despise the human race.
Human interaction can really screw you up...
2007-02-22 00:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by San La Muerte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say good guys finish last. If this is true look in different places than normal. Christian guys are usually decent.
2007-02-22 00:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by CGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong answer to this question.
To be honest there everywhere you just haven't seen much of the world yet.
2007-02-22 00:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alaska.
2007-02-22 00:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living lifes of quiet desperation.
2007-02-22 00:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋