Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

I hate when they leave the dam toilet sits up and us girls have to use are pretty little hands to put it down its like they have a penis why can't they use it to push the sit back down right?

2007-02-21 16:21:14 · 6 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

a family friend seems to have got her self into trouble. the lady is mentally retarded and lives in a Semi-independent living apartment complex. She called a chat line advertised on television. She met a guy that is bad news. He claims to be a 40 year college graduate from a good college. He speaks very proper and seems (somewhat) intellegent He has only talked to her on the phone for a couple of weeks but calls 10+ times a day. He masturbates on the phone when talking to her.He claims to be in love with her and only whats to help her. I have heard some of the messages he has left her. He says I love you, I love you with all my heart sweetie, but if she doesn't call back he leaves messages calling her a dirty c*nt and b**ch. She told him to leave her alone and not to call again. I told him to leave her alone and not to call again. Her mother told him the same thing. The guy calls back still. Since he has not broken any laws the police will not do anything. Any advice

2007-02-21 16:21:09 · 2 answers · asked by Sarah G 1 in Singles & Dating

apparently it is something in the bathroom maybe... i was asked by another class mate to research it. so i am. is there anyone out there to help me.

2007-02-21 16:20:46 · 4 answers · asked by icanbeyoursmile 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we ended the relationship back in November, 3 months ago, and my ex and i haven't spoken a word ever since. This past sunday morning she sent me an email saying "hi---how have you been" i replied following day saying "Hello---i am doing well---thank you for asking---how have you been?" she replies back in few hours and says that she is doing good, working hard and she is glad she didn't had to work today (because of Presidents day) ends it with a smiley face...and concludes it, have a good day. I didn't replied to that yet. Should i reply back to her? this is the first time i heard from her in 3 months, i don't know what she is thinking or what her deal is, and don't want to ask her right away and at the same time i don't want to look like i miss her or something by replying to the message too quickly. i don't know, does it make any sense? thank you for your input ahead of time

2007-02-21 16:18:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for about 6 months now. We are really sweet and really into each other. He asked me to be his gf and I haven't said yes, because i want to give in gradually, but so far, we are exclusive and not seeing others.

I have had my share of relationships and I am confident he is the loyal type, and would never cheat on me like my ex's. The only thing that is holding me back is, i feel he might be too young for me. What if he starts liking others later because I get older and won't be as pretty as younger girls?

Is 3 yrs apart too much for a girl to be older than a guy? What do you think guys? and girls?

2007-02-21 16:17:52 · 27 answers · asked by Miss Yahoo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do i need to do or say?

2007-02-21 16:16:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my father in law and my mother in law were both suffering from T.B and B.P .

2007-02-21 16:15:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

When people divorce, the woman or the man gets half of the assets right?

So say I had $1,000,000 dollars in the bank and I met some chick and got married. In this scenario, we both have full time jobs and no kids.

Say a year later we get pissed at each other and divorce. Does this mean that she gets $500,000 for being with me for a year?

So basically she performed certain services for money. Now how does that make her any different from a "professional"gal? (you know what I'm talking about! don't make me say it.)

2007-02-21 16:15:19 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a 30 year old women i am also the mother of 3 beautiful childeren. my husband works in the trucking industry and is only home for about 3 days every 11 days. when he comes home obviously he wants to spend time with me. he comes home with the hopes that we will make love. i do like to have sex with him but i would rather spend time just cuddling or watching tv. sometimes i do it just to please him. its not the i dont love him its just that i dont have the sexual appetite that he does. i do enjoy the sex when we have it but its not with my *whole body*. it dont have the desire that i did when we first got together. this has been happening to me since i gave birth to my son and he is 3 yrs old. has this happened to anyone else what do you think i could do to change this and make me more into it.

2007-02-21 16:14:41 · 17 answers · asked by fazugosgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 16:13:55 · 14 answers · asked by Josie 2 in Friends

heres some things he does when im around:
1)he looks alot but when i look at him he looks away
2)his friends nudge him when im around
3)sometimes when i catch him looking i kind of hold the stare and he looks right back at me
4)sometimes he completly ignores me
oh and did i mention he has had a gf before and has yet to ask me out
does it even sound like he likes me???what should i do i need all the advice i can get....HELP!!!

2007-02-21 16:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by prettyinpearls922 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 16:13:51 · 11 answers · asked by snehesh 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a nice looking professional & spiritual man. I wanted to wait until marriage but not sure if I can. What does it mean you? Should I wait? I have not found 'the one' yet.

2007-02-21 16:13:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf stopped at my apt and listened to my conversation with roommates from outside the front door. she told me the next day about this and let me think about it for a few hours, then she told me she really didn't. She says she told me that just to see what my reaction was to make sure my conversation with my roommates was not inappropriate. You see, previous to this, I did indeed meet a girl for coffee- a girl that I met on myspace.com. When I first met her on myspace, my gf and I were in a fight. After my gf and I made up, I did continue to email the girl and then met her for coffee as friends without my gf knowing, my gf was out of town at the time. She found out about that anyways, and this has caused some lack of trust in our relationship, and that’s my fault, I admit. To get to the point, what I am wondering is, do you think it is wrong for her to listen in on my conversation without me knowing, or even if she didn't, to say she did to see how I react to that?

2007-02-21 16:13:24 · 9 answers · asked by monkeyness 2 in Singles & Dating

I have recently met a man 11 years my junior, he is 27 and I am 38. He is very sweet and we have so much in common. He claims he is tired of dating girls his age and really wants to settle down with someone and have a life. My problem is he's never been married, I was married for 14 years and I have two children, ages 7 and 9. About five years ago I faced a very life threatening situation, I had an operable tumor that left me unable to have any more children. While I adore this man, I feel so inadequate next to him. I feel like I need to let him go and let him find a woman his age who can give him what he wants. He may not want it now but eventually he may want to have chlidren and I don't want to be selfish and steal those years away from him where he could be having children of his own. Am I wrong to feel this way? Should I let him go? He says he likes our age difference and the fact that I'm very calm and sure of myself, but will he always love it esp when we can't have kids

2007-02-21 16:13:11 · 12 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

I found my husband of 10yrs cheating on me and my anniversary is around the corner, he wants out and no regard for my daughter 8 yrs old. I have all the details on the person instigating him since he always never had brains to plan something on this large scale. He wanted to leave me in the lurch and leave country w/o informing me and also I need to sign the papers. I am an avid reader and a person of intelligence. I need to share my story without revealing my identity. I want to tell all the story of 10years of sufferings I have undergone. The extent I loved him and in the end he never had the guts to admit his affair and the main reason is he is protecting his GF as she is working in a very reputable company and at a very responsible position.All the time he wanted to portray the impression that it is only because of my fault he want out. I want to share my struggles I am going through and also plans of bringing him down.I want to start my own blog space I want info.

2007-02-21 16:12:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 16:12:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You see, I had lost my dad when I was only 2 years old, and I sometimes can`t even go a minute without thinking of him, then crying, what do I do?

2007-02-21 16:11:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend & his sister are very close, i am very close to her. The 3 of us are best of friends. The problem is her boyfriend. She has rose colored glasses on w/ him & can't see the controling jerk that he is. OK fine, she's not stupid & will eventually figure it out.
The problem is until she does we feel it is neccesary to be somewhat nice to him - out of respect for her. But each day it gets harder - because now not only does he try to control her - he tries to control us. When we try to explain to her how we feel she gets very defensive. We don't want to hurt her but how much are we supposed to take? My boyfriend just avoids him & since they are in a different town that is easy to do. But i live in the same town. And i am really begining to HATE her boyfriend. He seems to think since i am in the same town that we should be best buddies as well. When in fact i've got to the point that i detest him. Any suggestions no how to deal w/ this peacefully so no one is hurt.

2007-02-21 16:11:17 · 2 answers · asked by purple dove 5 in Singles & Dating

I really don't want to. It is out of town and i need some good reason for her beside i don't want to and it is isolated and i will lose contact with my friends please help???

2007-02-21 16:10:42 · 3 answers · asked by Jazmin 2 in Family

I am talking to this guy that I have known since high school. We met over my break and did a lot of catching up that turn into a mutual attraction. He mentioned that he had done some things in his past that he is not proud of but not the whole story. It was not until last night that he told me the full story. He was put in jail twice and both times it was due to pyschotic ex girlfriend. I've never been the type to date this kind of guy but he is really sweet to me. Neither time was it his fault but I am just not sure how my parents would view him and if he has shaken old habits like he says. I am only 21 but I am looking long term and he can't really be who he wants to because of this incident on his record. Should I give him the benefit of the doubt or should I tell him that his criminal record has made me second guess?

2007-02-21 16:10:25 · 7 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl and I have known her my whole life. but we havent talked for a couple years cause we were in different schools for a lil bit. But i REALLY like her and cause of that i wont go out with another girl who wants me. So she recently broke up with her BF in January and when she walks home she goes the same way i do most of the way so i figured thats when i would get to talk to her more and maybe ask her out then eventualy in the spring. But i dont know what to do when she says yes...Like do i hug her or what?? And when were going out when should i kiss her like after how long?? I really like her she is really beautiful, smart and nice and all that and i really want this to work out. So if you have any advice PLEASE HELP! thank you.

2007-02-21 16:10:16 · 2 answers · asked by yankeefan706 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever since my ex cheated on me and moved in with the old battleaxe that I am having a hard time getting over it. Especially since the whole time he was telling me he loved me and wanted to be with me and missed me. I was being mislead and it hurt. We have a son and that's onlt reason we have any contact so that he can talk to him and get this child support together. He can't visit b/c he is in another state (thank God) and is on probation and I'll be dmaned if I take him there to visit. He knows it snot good for me to be there b/c his beoitch And I would not be civil and I would do harm.
But it really seems like he got over me quick but still says "I will always have a special place in my heart" shyt and I am special. But it still hurts and maybe b/c I have never been betrayed and dumped so nasty like that before. I am trying to move on but it's not easy having to deal with him. Help!

2007-02-21 16:09:50 · 3 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright... I am really confuzed here. So I gave this one girl some stuff for V-Day.. but did not think that she liked me... so I tried to not get into her much, and it worked out pritty well. Then, last week, I went to a dance and met this other girl girl. I really wanted to get to know her better (and still do...). Some of my friends know her, so we were going to all get together and just have some fun, and then maby i'd be able to talk with her and all. So then, this week, the girl I gave V-Day stuff to gave me a thank you card, and suggested that we should go to the movies...
~~~Some of my friends said I should still talk to the first girl, and then get to know the other one a little later... then maby see what happens from there. Is this a good idea? Any other suggestions on what else I should do...? =|

2007-02-21 16:09:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this a direct quote "you are nice and kind and you can make me laugh and you always listen to me when i have a bad day and you are easy to talk to. "


i really didnt think i was any of those. . . . i try to be nice, but i never thought that i was that nice.

another quote is "i love you"

wouldnt that make your whole day---it did for me!

2007-02-21 16:08:46 · 8 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

I personally think that men are always looking for the next big thing. They are always lusting after other women......no matter how good of a woman they have. What do you think?

2007-02-21 16:08:17 · 16 answers · asked by Calebs Mom 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf have been together about 7or8 mths. the past 2 mths he found out i made out with another guy the first month we were together things started going downhill very fast we stopped seeing eachother as much he was rude 2 me all the time said that i broke his heart and never let me live it down. this past month we have broken up and gotten back2gether over 7 times&appearantly imbetween those times he has had sex with his ex gf that came into town again this month and he told me he still has feelings for her but that i could trust him talking to her and hanging out with her. I heard he was trying to hook up w/her again from his friend and just recently the past few wks he did.He told me he was confused & that he needed to be single for a while and that i should wait for him and that he still loves me mre than any girl we werent supposed to hook up with other ppl but he did and i found out. I told him 2 make up his mind within the next few dys & 2 call me,whats he thinking Wht2do?

2007-02-21 16:08:08 · 7 answers · asked by myheart2btornapart 1 in Singles & Dating

So I really like this one girl and today she told my friend something about me staring at her, but then she asked if I stare at other girls like that. We talk sometimes but not all the time, also she tends to just look over at me whenever i'm near her. so i just want peoples opinion on it.

2007-02-21 16:07:20 · 4 answers · asked by Pirate84 1 in Singles & Dating

I am half Greek half English and she is a quarter Lebanese and 3 quarters Italian.
I do not want to be a traitor

2007-02-21 16:06:21 · 7 answers · asked by whitepwr 1 in Singles & Dating

Can anybody give me advice on how to help him get better at it.

2007-02-21 16:05:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating