I've been dating this guy for about 6 months now. We are really sweet and really into each other. He asked me to be his gf and I haven't said yes, because i want to give in gradually, but so far, we are exclusive and not seeing others.
I have had my share of relationships and I am confident he is the loyal type, and would never cheat on me like my ex's. The only thing that is holding me back is, i feel he might be too young for me. What if he starts liking others later because I get older and won't be as pretty as younger girls?
Is 3 yrs apart too much for a girl to be older than a guy? What do you think guys? and girls?
2007-02-21 16:17:52 · 27 answers · asked by Miss Yahoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When your out of high school age really doesnt matter anymore.
Keep in mind however, that the long term comitment center of the human brain does not fully develop until around the age of 25, so you may be more commiting that he may be at this time.
If you guys really care about each other, don't let numbers get in the way.
2007-02-21 16:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. I am 21, nearly 22 and I always go for guys at least 2 years younger than me, so at the moment it is 19-20 year olds who I am attracted to. Because you are 27 and 24 you are both not young so you would both be mature and it sounds like your relationship is obviously going somewhere good.
Good luck
2007-02-21 16:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think 3 years is all that much to worry about as long as you both are happy. My fiancee is almost 3 years older than me and I am marrying her in 3 weeks time! So if you are happy with the guy, just go for it!!! Good Luck!!!
2007-02-21 16:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT too much older. I know people who had successful marriages and were 10 years apart (older woman). Age had nothing to do with it after a certain point.
2007-02-21 16:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by CGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't see how three years makes any difference. The only problem I would see is if he is really immature. There isn't enough difference in your ages to make a difference in how you look as you age. You are really, basically, the same age and if you look older, so will he.
2007-02-21 16:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tabitha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL you are funny, 3 years is nothing and if he really cares for you he will never like another girl no matter how old you get, i am 10 years older than my boyfriend and he loves me to death, i know he won't cheat on me.
2007-02-21 16:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your ages, I do not think that age matter much. I say go with how you feel and do not allow age to be the issue.
As long as both are over 21, I am not sure that age is truly an issue to be concerned with.
2007-02-21 16:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by Talena 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 08:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. As long as his thinking is mature enough, i find it is perfectly fine for a girl to be older than a guy. Moreover since you guys are so into each other, why hesitate? Go for it girl. good luck
2007-02-21 16:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by Ivy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all AGE IS JUST A NUMBER
Second, it will be what you make it. If he is mature enough go ahead and date him. You've already been "together" for six months now anyway. Don't let his age discourage you three years is nothing.
2007-02-21 16:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by bm8211520 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋