we ended the relationship back in November, 3 months ago, and my ex and i haven't spoken a word ever since. This past sunday morning she sent me an email saying "hi---how have you been" i replied following day saying "Hello---i am doing well---thank you for asking---how have you been?" she replies back in few hours and says that she is doing good, working hard and she is glad she didn't had to work today (because of Presidents day) ends it with a smiley face...and concludes it, have a good day. I didn't replied to that yet. Should i reply back to her? this is the first time i heard from her in 3 months, i don't know what she is thinking or what her deal is, and don't want to ask her right away and at the same time i don't want to look like i miss her or something by replying to the message too quickly. i don't know, does it make any sense? thank you for your input ahead of time
2007-02-21 16:18:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't play games and don't let her either!
Yes, ask her straight out now..."What do you want?"
She did contact you first, so she has to tell you what she means by contacting you after 3 months of no contact. It's odd.
Don't get fooled and don't let yourself be played. You broke up for a reason, something didn't work between the two of you and it's not going to work afterwards...so start getting busy with asking other girls out and moving on.
2007-02-21 16:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful. You didn't mention how this breakup effected you. Three months is a long time not to call, and then to suddenly call now just to ask how you are. She needs to grow up and show respect, and honesty. She's playing a little game because she's a little girl. Something is going on. Now once again you are thinking what is she doing. No!!! do not call because you don't have the time to waste. Believe me if she is really interested again I guarantee you she will call again. She's thinking you will call her don't. And if you never hear from her again be grateful. Remember this honesty, respect, and appreciation are the most valuable gifts a person can give to another and to themselves. If everyone received this gift and experienced the gratitude it brings, We all would be happier people.
2007-02-21 16:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd write her back one more time and say something like, "I'm glad you're doing well, hope you have a great life". That way you aren't being mean and just ignoring her but you are letting her know where you stand. You won't appear too anxious, since you've waited a while to respond. So no mixed messages will be given to her.
2007-02-21 16:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Polly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is totally acting like nothing ever happened? I don't know the history, like how long you had been knowing her and dating and most of all how did it end..... was it bitter? I don't know what angle she is coming from, but as a woman, if I did that, it would be me missing you! Maybe she is realizing what she is missing or maybe she is just bored and wanting to see if you have moved on!?! Either way, you need to just ask her outright what does she want.......in a nice way!
2007-02-21 16:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by Calebs Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she started emailing you again because she misses you and she is waiting for you to ask her if she has a bf. Im not sure why the relationship ended but if it wasnt anything bad she prob wants to go back out with you
2007-02-21 16:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by TLC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was in another relantionship and it did not work out so she is trying to see where your head is at (because the grass is not always greener on the other side.) Sorry to say, this is a game that us women play sometimes.Because she might not want you back she just does not want any one to have you. And is hoping that you are just as miserable as she is.
2007-02-21 16:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by Working girl 07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and ask her to return your property. If she doesn't and you can prove it's your property, then get a lawyer to notify her in writing that you want the property returned. Ultimately, you can sue her and/or have her arrested for possession of stolen property in the 5th degree if she refuses to return it or attempts to impede your recovery of the item. NOTE: if the item was an engagement ring and you broke off the engagement, you won't legally be able to get it back.
2016-05-23 22:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it makes perfect sense----it is obvious that you BOTH are missing each other-------what you need to do is re-examine the true reason why she is your "X".....there are times when people grow and change and mature and only then is the time right for a hook-up. We here do not have enough info to make judgment----you must rely on your own instincts--------Good Luck
2007-02-21 16:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would like to keep a friendship with her, then answer. If she makes a play at you then tell her nicely that you want to be friends only, that is what you are comfortable with.
If you do not want the friendship and just want a clean break, tell her that too.
Otherwise be honest with her and yourself.
2007-02-21 16:24:49 · answer #9 · answered by Talena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait a few days before replying because you never know what her intentions are.
2007-02-21 16:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋