Ever since my ex cheated on me and moved in with the old battleaxe that I am having a hard time getting over it. Especially since the whole time he was telling me he loved me and wanted to be with me and missed me. I was being mislead and it hurt. We have a son and that's onlt reason we have any contact so that he can talk to him and get this child support together. He can't visit b/c he is in another state (thank God) and is on probation and I'll be dmaned if I take him there to visit. He knows it snot good for me to be there b/c his beoitch And I would not be civil and I would do harm.
But it really seems like he got over me quick but still says "I will always have a special place in my heart" shyt and I am special. But it still hurts and maybe b/c I have never been betrayed and dumped so nasty like that before. I am trying to move on but it's not easy having to deal with him. Help!
2007-02-21 16:09:50 · 3 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kick the dust off your shoes, girlfriend. Create a new life with you and your child. Join single parent groups, take up a new interest you can do with your child, create some new routines that keep you busy. And ignore what he says since it will just keep you emotionally trapped. Time has a way of helping make the pain go away. Try these sites too.
2007-02-21 18:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Fiona M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad about this! You want what is best for you and your child, and that is being in a loving and supportive environment. You can't help who you love, don't stay away or be with someone else just because it's "right" if it's obviously not going to work out. Your friend sounds like a great guy who really cares for you. If you're too nervous about starting this relationship, it's perfectly fine to be single as well. However, I think you would welcome the support in the exciting and rough time to come.
2016-05-23 22:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a very similar situation and although it sounds very cliche I promise you it does get better. The best (but hardest) thing to do is have as little contact with him as possible. Get out there, having a baby isn't a burden, and move on.
2007-02-21 17:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋