My Mum wants our family (mum, me brother and sister) to move into her parents house with them?

Question

I really don't want to. It is out of town and i need some good reason for her beside i don't want to and it is isolated and i will lose contact with my friends please help???

i need reasons not to or something that might change her mind!!

i've told her many times i really don't want to go... if she moves i'll have no where else to go

Answer 1

You might pray and be honest and loving with your mom. There might be circumstances beyond her control and she has no choice, do you know? Offer your assistance and maybe you and God can change things. Try it, you'll like it!

Answer 2

The only way is to find someone, a relative or close friend who your mother trust, in which you can stay with them. Also assure your mother you'll stay in contact with her. Also explain to her that if things don't work out with the person(s) you're staying with, you'll agree to move into your grandmother's home and write a contract that clearly states that you will obey her if she request for you to move with her, but only if you are having trouble at where you're staying!

Remember keep your promise with your mom. An example contract is at the bottom.

I AGREE TO RESIDE HERE AT _______________WITH THE PERMISSION AND BLESSING FROM MY MOTHER. I UNDERSTAND THAT IF MY LIVING SITUATION CAUSES ANY PROBLEM IN WHICH MY MOTHER FEELS THAT I SHOULD MOVE WITH MY FAMILY (W.O.P) WITH OUT PROTEST I WILL OBEY HER. I ALSO UNDERSTAND I WILL KEEP IN CONTACT WITH MY MOM AT ALL TIMES. I AGREE TO VISIT MY FAMILY UPON MY MOTHER'S OR/AND GRANDMOTHER'S REQUEST (W.O.P) WHEN I AM ASK AND TO SPEND SOME NIGHTS, I WILL DO IT WITH OUT PROTEST.

YOU SIGN YOUR NAME______________

MOM SIGN HER NAME_______________

Once you have found the perfect place to reside type out this contact and explain it to her of your promise. I believe your mother wants the guarantee that you'll be ok. Please, young man, keep in mind that your mother loves and cares about you! Even if she agrees with this idea, she will always worry about you. It would be best to present this contact in the presence of the person you'll like to live with!

Let your mother know you will keep God in your heart! Good luck.

God Bless

P.S.

Keep your promise to your mother

Answer 3

just be honest with her and tell that you dont want to live with
her, you are of age to make your own decision. it not her
choice it yours.