so my gf of 4mthns tells me yesterday that she needs time to sort some stuff out (not abt me). We happen to meet 3hrs after school starts. She had tests so I ask her how they went and she says good and we leave with a kiss. Try to find my english teacher (1 hr later) and do and she happens to be in the same room, I talk to other but try and give her "her space" Then I go up to her and ask how history class was and we talk for a short time, she then pulls me close (like she doesnt need her space anymore). The rest of the day is like nothing ever happend!! (but sit down on the bench near my classroom, giving her some space, and she comes over!!) But tonite I send her a text to say I love you gd night, and she responds with "c u tommorow" Is this (the txt) a sign that she needs her space again? Or is the fact that she clearly wanted me today a sign that she has solved her problem? Dont get me wrong I LOVE HER!! but I want to make sure i am giving her "her space"..
2007-02-21 16:36:59 · 6 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a girl and whatever you do...when a girl says "I need my space," she really needs people to be close to her and asking her "what's wrong." She's fine and although she thinks she needs her space, she doesn't. Girls are social creatures who need constant attention and support.
So unless she tells you to your face that she needs some space and you're not listening...then give it to her.
Otherwise, keep asking her about her life, what she's been up to. If she doesn't say "NEED SPACE" you keep talking and being friendly with her.
She's probably just going through her monthly thing...I know about this stuff, I'm a girl.
2007-02-21 16:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young love sucks, doesn't it?
You can never "make sure" of anything in a relationship. If you have been with this girl for four months and she always demonstrates this up and down behavior toward you, either get used to it, or break it off. If, on the other hand, this is a recent development, I think you have a right to ask for more details.
I suspect that if the latter is the case, she is uncertain how to break it off with you and can't decide exactly what or how to do it. I'll bet that what she is trying to work out has something to do with an old boyfriend that may have come back into her life.
Time for a talk.
2007-02-22 00:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(LOL) I bet she's an Aquarius.
Very affectionate but don't crowed them.
Of course she loves you Dude, she's just not the type to let you know it 24/7. As long as you're not over sensitive it will work out.
You probably enjoy time with the guys right?
2007-02-22 00:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are girls who could be confusing you know. is it customary for both of you to say i love in every text? if not, i guess u r giving her enough space. and you mentioned that its not about u right? maybe she has some probs and she only want to protect your relationship. some girls would rather keep their probs to their bfs so that both parties will not be affected.
2007-02-22 00:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by xyne_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude girls are confusing...go with your gut...just dont spend all the time together becuz then it will get boring...let her hang out with her friends...u want her to think that u have life other than her.i had a gf that called me like 24/7 and i hated that she never let me have my space. and guess what happened i broke up with her becuz she never let me do things with my friends.
2007-02-22 00:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by Gonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like she got the time she needed.take it slow just to see good luck
2007-02-22 00:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋