Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

has a girl friend but we hooked up one night for a one night stand and then it turned into more. The one nighter was just a drunken thing that wasn't planned. I had no idea he had a girl friend but we had such a wild time we were together for almost 24 hours. Then we exchanged numbers and he started calling me then he confessed he had a girl friend. He finally told the girl friend and she says she still wants him and so do I. Now he is seeing both of us. He was with this other woman for three years. I have to think that their relationship is troubled b/c he slept with me and pursued me and told her about it. Also, after three years they still only date. I want to hang in and hope he breaks up with her b/c I really love him. Do I stand a chance? I don't want to force the issue and have him regret breaking up with her and resent me. Their relationship must have had problems so don't he and I stand the better chance?

2007-02-18 12:13:45 · 2 answers · asked by time_ready_love 1 in Singles & Dating

im 22 and i dont think ive ever had an orgasm. i feel bad bc i fake everytime my husband and i have sex, but i dont want to hurt his feelings, its not him, its always been like this. are some woman just genetically wired to be passionate? Dont get me wrong, i enjoy sex, but no matter what he does im never able to have that soul shattering orgasm i hear of. is this a myth or are there woman out there who actually experienmce "the little death" and if it isnt a myth...what can i do to make it happen. like i said before my husband is excellent in bed, its just hard for me to get there. and im sick of faking...i want that high flying mindless feeling my friends say they experience. Please..this is a serious question, no obscenities please

2007-02-18 12:12:44 · 7 answers · asked by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I might like my best friend's cousin. How do I ask her if her cousin is single, with out making her feel bad for you if he isn't?

And I can't just not ask, because she'll never invite him anywhere if I don't tell her..

Also if he's single, I should tell her I like him, right? ...

2007-02-18 12:12:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So we go to the same school, and I like her a lot! So I think she likes me too. What should I do, I would really like to have a relationship with her.

2007-02-18 12:10:48 · 13 answers · asked by KK 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 years old, and moved to a city where i know nobody. I am financially indpendent, already bought my own house and my own car and im going to school. I live on my own but dont really know too many of the students since i live off campus. I meet some girls in class but i dont really have too many of them in my class... what should I do? I know im an eligible bachelor because i look decent and have a good personlity. So why am i still single? and how should i not be single?

2007-02-18 12:10:48 · 7 answers · asked by puathe180man 1 in Singles & Dating

i would really like to know

2007-02-18 12:10:24 · 5 answers · asked by rivrivriv123321 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't get it! I have big bo*bs, I don't have the best looks, but I do have some looks and all I get from guys is whispering or a weird face when I pass by them.

2007-02-18 12:09:15 · 25 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there's I like and he has gorgeousssss brown eyes. I had an away message up and it said, "You put those city lights to shame with those beautiful brown eyes of yours". When I came back from being away (on AIM) we were talking for a little while, then he was like "So, who's brown eyes were you talking about?" I never actually answered him... but I think because he asked that he knows Im talking about him. Do you think he knows?

2007-02-18 12:07:55 · 7 answers · asked by karategirl 1 in Singles & Dating

well there was this gutrl christina and she wanted 2 fight my bffl and the dean said that if we got into any more mess we got 10 days oss that is out of school suspension but my freinds sara said that she wated 2 fight tabby and was gonna but we would get 10 days oss and now a whole buch of ppl r mad cause i told was i right or not pl help?????????????????????????/?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????//////

2007-02-18 12:07:43 · 3 answers · asked by he thinks i like him 1 in Friends

i realy love a girli met online, she says she like me n love me in someways, while talking some time she says if i cry what will u do, my feets getting colder how u will warm them, some she says that she need me and want me..some trime she says that she dont believe that i love her....i never understand her..pls suggest me something

2007-02-18 12:07:11 · 12 answers · asked by bds 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 12:07:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year, before my boyfriend, a friend of mine & I fooled around once, & I realised that I actually do like this person. But I spoke to someone about it, & they told me that this person was all for someone I knew, who now is a friend to me.

I guess I have been trying to deny that I do like this person, as I found out that they were "crazy" for someone else. So I kept my feelings neutral, & treated the person as like if they were my brother.

I met my boyfriend, but this person has always been at the back of mine. When I came back to uni, this person is now living next door. While I love & adore my boyfriend, I am really attracted to this person. There have always been rumours that we were in a relationship, but we debunked them.

Regardless or not of my boyfriend, I'm still attracted to this person. My boyfriend & I have been going through a very bad patch, I want it to work but I feel at times to give up, What should I do?

2007-02-18 12:06:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do I get guys if im ugly?

2007-02-18 12:05:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married since 5/15/06, and our relationship started changing after a month or two of marriage. She stopped communicating with me and our relationship went downhill from there. She moved out on January 18th, 2007, and her reason was that I had to deal with problems in my past ie. my father, and i was to go to counseling to fix my problems. Now, that she has moved out she doen't want to talk or see me. She says that I am holding her back, and she wants to be a better individual before we can be good together. I also have a child from another relationship and she says that she doesn't think she can love him the way she should, and that she may not want to have kids of our own because she has goals that she wants to acheive that she won't be able to do with children. She is an only child and the daughter of father who is a baptist pastor, school teacher, and football coach. Her mother is very reserved and not outgoing at all. My family is very large and loud! Help

2007-02-18 12:04:21 · 41 answers · asked by JBCIV 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 12:04:17 · 10 answers · asked by jasmine a 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to ask a girl to go out with me...i want to tell her how much i love her etc......give me good answers plz

2007-02-18 12:03:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im sorta a tom boyish gurl and my friend said she gon give me a make over and she said that imma like it and i dont think so. but i think im ugly and other people say that im not and i think i am because only ugly boys wanna go with me. wat should i do.

2007-02-18 12:03:18 · 9 answers · asked by GHETTO GURL 2 in Singles & Dating

im 15 and all i want is to meet a guy that is nice and likes the same stuff i do! not like im gunna d8 them or anything but i work better with guys than girls.girls are just plane bitchy. i have also been raised around guys so im just more comfy with them!

if anyone wants to talk to me i like:
punk rock/any rock at all
to be a freak
black
hate pink
hate preps,cheerleaders,and anyone like them...they are so stuck up!
to write and read
go to concerts
and just hang out

if u like the sound of me...talk to me! horseloverlol101@yahoo.com
and if your an ***...dont bother.ill block u.

2007-02-18 12:02:07 · 20 answers · asked by Jesi 1 in Singles & Dating

My freinds call me Chucky & I do mean it with lots of love ...Just thought I'd ask for an opinion & the name fits her in every way What nick name do you have for your child ?

2007-02-18 12:02:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-18 12:00:13 · 6 answers · asked by jiggamaboo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay so I like this guy and I have told him and he says that he doesn't like me....we are just friends.
He tells me that he loves me-but just as a friend.
The other day he said we should hang out more but I have offered twice to hang out and both times he said no or "I'm busy". What should I do? Should I keep liking him? Should I just give up on him?

2007-02-18 11:59:41 · 3 answers · asked by M 1 in Singles & Dating

ok there is a girl at my school that i like alot but i cant ever seem to talk to her in person much at school because her "girly" friends are always around and i dont know them very well.Even outside of school at a youth group we go to she hangs out with the same friends,she is very outgoing and i am really shy. She already knows i like her but she doesnt want a relationship right now and wants to stay friends.We talk to eachother for about 3 hours a day over AIM but i cant talk to her in real life .Any ideas on how to talk to her?

2007-02-18 11:59:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That usually there is a generalization that blonde-blue eyed individuals prefer dark-eyed and dark colored hair people of the opposite sex, and vice versa?

Thank you!

2007-02-18 11:59:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad went away to Florida and I guess my mom and him were talking on the phone and decided to brake up. When my mom told me it sort of felt like I was dreaming but I wasn't. NOw my mom is going out with my neighbor and it is really starting to get me going. And since my dad is gone I have to do a lot around the house my brother too but he hasn't helped much. Now I get mad and scream at him and what ever else makes me mad. Sometimes I get so mad I feel like I'm gonna cry. I'm 13 and I think it is really starting to make myself feel more like a man but I really just want a nice happy life but I feel when my dad returns everything is going to get worse can you help me please!

2007-02-18 11:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why is it that people who have been molested, and never healed from it, seem really happy and like they have no problems? Are they just pretending?

2007-02-18 11:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by *What Goes Around Comes Around 1 in Family

This is a long one and yes it really happened. I am now 21 and live in a dorm at New York University, but when I was 17 something happened that I can't forget. First let me fill you in on the details. When my parents got married they lived in my dad's condo here in NYC, but my mom was a country girl and when her parent's died she wanted to move into their house in the country in upstate New York. It is a beautiful Victorian house in the woods about 5 miles from anyone, and it's gothic. My grandparents loved this house and mom wanted to keep it. So they moved into the house and had 3 kids, one is me of course. Nothing real strange about the house started happening until I was about 17, and only that one time...so far. I was in my bedroom and my parent's had gone out for their anniversary. My little brother wasn't home because he was staying with his best friend, Todd. They had a test to study for and thought they would go to school together the next day. It was just me and my sister, Julianna, at home. It was about 9p.m. Not late, but it was dark. To beat it all it started raining and lightning and the lights started blinking. So Julianna ran to my room and said that she wanted to stay with me. She was pretty young then. I told her it would be okay so I lit some candles and turned the blinking lights off. She calmed down and she helped me study for a music test that I was going to have the next day at school. Then after she had calmed down completely I took her to bed-around 9:45. It was still raining hard. So I kept studying and after I got finished with the music book I decided to try some pieces that my music teacher told us to study. It was very boring, so I started improvising and I made the piano vibrate cause I sometimes get roused up in the music. Then I heard my glass of apple cider fall. I thought that it fell because of the piano's vibrating, but it was on my nightstand on the other side of the room. I brushed it off. But I had to take the broken glass downstairs to the kitchen garbage. On my way upstairs I saw my sister had gotten out of bed and was in the family room coped by the fire. She knew not to light the fire by herself, but she told me that she didn't light it, but I knew that we were the only ones in the house. I thought that she was lying, but I said nothing and went back upstairs. Then on my piano stand that holds music I seen the Turkish March by Mozart, I knew it wasn't mine. So I went downstairs and asked Julianna and she said it wasn't hers-I thought she was lying. So I put the fire out and told her to go to bed. She said okay and as she went up the stairs, I went in the kitchen to get some water. Then as I went upstairs again I saw that the music had been taken. When my parents got home I told them about it and mom said that the Turkish March was her dad's, my grandfather's, favorite piece. She thought I was playing a trick on her of course. Then as I was going to my bedroom I looked at our family picture. My grandfather was in it holding a piece of music, I never noticed it before because it was so small. I looked real close and seen the music he was holding was by Mozart. I thought "Oh Brother!" I was kindly scared, but not hysterical. I didn't sleep that much that night. The next day in school I sat near an open window in music class because I was hot- I get hot easily. Before the test the teacher said we could take a few minutes to look over the text. The wind blew and turned my books pages to the chapter about Mozart. Then a few seconds later it turned it to the one about Haydn(a classical composer). The thing about Haydn is that his first name was Joseph, and Joseph was my grandfather's first name. It made me wonder. I kept it to myself, who would have believed it?! So was it a coincidence? Was it just the wind? Was it my sister playing a trick on me? Was the spirit of a dead musician? Was it the spirit of my grandfather? Then, a few days later or so, I remembered that Julianna told me that she didn't turn the fire on the other night when it happened. I asked her who did it, and she said that that never happened that she never went to the family room and that she never left her bedroom after I tucked her in. To this day, I don't like to listen to Mozart that much!

2007-02-18 11:57:10 · 24 answers · asked by Kreutzer 4 in Family

I'm my favorite person right now...is that narcissistic ? Arrogant ?

2007-02-18 11:57:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went to this v dance on friday and when they said to do this slow song I saw the guy I like dancing with this other girl and grabbing her butt I dont know if I should likke him anymore or not? Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-18 11:56:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this boy and hes 17 and im 14,and He's not like sexual with me or anything and i really like him,my parents like him too.what will happen when he turns 18? could we still date if my parents signed a paper? cause i knows it against the law to date a girl if your like over 18 thats a minor..

2007-02-18 11:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by BabyGirl Emily. 3 in Singles & Dating

I feel really guilty. On Saturday night i went out drinking with all my mates, who are all guys. We ended finishing the night at one of our houses and one of my mates invited a girl over to join us. We played a game were we where all in circle and we took it in turn to roll a pair of dice and choose the person we wanted to play with. One of di tells the body area, with nothing really personal, and the other di the action. Throughout the game i was cautious not to choose the girl because I didnt want to do anything against my gf (2mnth). Anyway the girl that was there chose me a couple of times and she ended up kissing me on the lips quik once, both had our mouths closed. Also I had to nibble her thigh at another point. At the time these incidents occurd i was very drunk and know that that was no excuse but also know if i hadnt been drunk i wudn't have kissed her. I now dont know what to do, i want to tell my gf but jst dont really no how or when, also is what iv done really bad or not?

2007-02-18 11:55:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating