Last year, before my boyfriend, a friend of mine & I fooled around once, & I realised that I actually do like this person. But I spoke to someone about it, & they told me that this person was all for someone I knew, who now is a friend to me.
I guess I have been trying to deny that I do like this person, as I found out that they were "crazy" for someone else. So I kept my feelings neutral, & treated the person as like if they were my brother.
I met my boyfriend, but this person has always been at the back of mine. When I came back to uni, this person is now living next door. While I love & adore my boyfriend, I am really attracted to this person. There have always been rumours that we were in a relationship, but we debunked them.
Regardless or not of my boyfriend, I'm still attracted to this person. My boyfriend & I have been going through a very bad patch, I want it to work but I feel at times to give up, What should I do?
2007-02-18 12:06:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you decided you like someone else better it time to break up with your boyfriend. It's the right thing to do. Let him get on with his life and you can get on with yours. No sense leading him on especially since you like someone new. Good luck to you.
2007-02-18 13:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bookworm4124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you should consider carefully in such situation. You must be fair to both guys and if you feel that the other guy is more suitable for you and not your bf, you got to make it known to your bf. If you let this sort of things dragged it will become very hard to explain.
The worst thng that may ocurred is if your bf may get angry and do some very irrationale sort of things. My point of view is that you need to settle this sort of problem asap and not let it keep on dragging.
2007-02-18 12:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is upto you does your boyfriend know how you feel? if not tell him he does have a right to know dont just throw him away like a peice of rag. if you do want to make up with your fella then work at it take things slowly and as for the other one you do like just accept it that he is with someone else and just be good mates but really the choice is yours you either have to make or break i am afraid
2007-02-18 13:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on u . if u r really in love with Ur bf then u will stay with him. but if Ur in love with this guy then u have 2 decide wether u want 2 break u relationship with Ur bf or still have it going. its really up to u 2 answer.
2007-02-18 12:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♥fab♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until the boyfriend becomes a husband (legal) it's okay to play your options. Most guys do that so why shouldn't the girls?
2007-02-18 12:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it with "this person" who you are lusting after. You're only young once.
(I know my pic. looks like Prince Harry but I'm a girl and I know where you are coming from.)
Oh gawd, you look like Harry too!
2007-02-18 12:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by Who Yah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste his time and yours....if you like him go for it. life is too short.
2007-02-18 12:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋