Actually, I met the guy I live with online, and we are getting married, so that can happen. Also, some of my best friends (female) I met online. The net opens up a whole new world to you and you can meet more people that have similar interests and/or thoughts to you.
That aside, I really do think she is just trying to find out how you feel. Due to the fact that you met online she probably isn't sure if you are playing with her!
If she has low confidence she will find it hard to believe you can like her, especially if you haven't met in person yet. She is probably worried that you will see her and change your mind, but if you love her personality she shouldn't have any reason to worry.
Obviously there needs to be a physical attraction there. I don't mean that she has to be 5 foot 8, slim with curves in all the right places, blue eyes etc (or whatever the ideal is, that's my insecurities coming out there!), but you need to like the look of her, and she needs to like the look of you too!
Now, I don't know your ages. Love is different at 15/16/17 than it is at 25/26/27 etc. I am now nearly 30 (*chokes on her tea*) and how I feel now is totally different to what I felt way back when. I got married at 19, so I do know what it's like...
I think that a part of her is *trying* to play, because she is unsure of her own feelings. She is worried to trust you too much in case you let her down, and that's hard.
Have you met yet? If not then I would suggest you do, to get the worst out of the way. However, that again depends on your ages. If you are young and want to meet then ask her if she is interested and ask her to come with her Mum. This will not only gain her trust, but it will help to gain her parents trust in you too! Even if her Mum goes for a coffee in the cafe next door to yours, stays in the same place as you, or you and your Mum go to your girls house, it is a big show of trust.
Try it, you never know.
What I would suggest though, is if you haven't met yet, try to be careful that you don't get each others hopes up before hand, just in case one of you just doesn't feel that chemistry :)
CG.
2007-02-18 12:27:03
·
answer #1
·
answered by cymraesgwyllt 4
·
1⤊
0⤋
her questions are kind of flirty, kind of hopeful that your answers are compassionate. she is trying to imagine real life situations with you...and she is also probably in love with you and there's something youre not saying or doing that relieves her insecurities about whether you are serious about a life with her. when you love someone, you want to love everything about that person, you wnat to know how they will react to you and you to them in all situations. because its is online ..you can be near, to know their body language, to feel secure near them. tell your girl you love how you want to be near her. what you are doing to try to be together. tell her you thot about her when.....and tell her you wondered what she thinks about this or that. be involved with her. she's trying to 'see' you two together in common physical situations. try to think like her. her questions are easy to answer.
If you really love her..indulge in them...they are loving questions. she needs you and wants you.. if you love her you would know the words that would comfort her.
2007-02-18 12:29:19
·
answer #2
·
answered by Anonymous
·
1⤊
0⤋
sounds like shes insecure
2007-02-18 12:48:10
·
answer #3
·
answered by AnyaNledo 3
·
1⤊
0⤋
she just wants to know how you really feel and if you really love her so just answer those questions truthfully and seriously
girls do that all the time trust me, i know i do
2007-02-18 12:10:43
·
answer #4
·
answered by Rachael 1
·
2⤊
1⤋
shes a girl, we're not supposed to understand them
2007-02-18 12:10:21
·
answer #5
·
answered by j-rod 2
·
2⤊
1⤋
maybe it is not a good idea to date people on line
2007-02-18 12:12:02
·
answer #6
·
answered by ♥Shannon♥ 1
·
0⤊
2⤋
learn how to speak english then you might go better
2007-02-18 12:15:08
·
answer #7
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
2⤋
she`s a nut case.drop her and run the other way.
2007-02-18 12:11:34
·
answer #8
·
answered by horseknickers 3
·
0⤊
2⤋
do you drink, while you are online ?? its a small observation, probably I am wrong :-)
2007-02-18 12:11:24
·
answer #9
·
answered by ~Mustaffa~Laff~ 4
·
1⤊
2⤋
DON'T TRUST ANY GILRL NEVER EVER
2007-02-18 18:48:06
·
answer #10
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
1⤋