Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

My mom is always telling to me to not have sex!!!! me and my bf have been dating for over a year and we have had sex but i haven't told my mom that (we are 16)!!!!! she always tell me that i should tell her when we do but that that should be anytime soon!!!! i dont know how to tell her that i have!!!! i don't want her to be mad!!!! what should i do???

2007-02-18 12:52:22 · 22 answers · asked by Bolly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

when you first have sex with someone should it be really adventurous or just keep it simple for now oh ye and forplay

2007-02-18 12:51:51 · 14 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Singles & Dating

Just curious...I had this convo last night

2007-02-18 12:51:34 · 12 answers · asked by jstor18 1 in Singles & Dating

She is 2 months out of a 6 year relationship where her bf cheated on her for 5 years. We've been out a few times over the last couple of weeks, talk every couple days and as time has gone on she has given me alternative ways to contact her to go with her cell number. We saw each other this weekend and now my confusion is. She always returns my calls/emails but never initiates the email/call. This weekend when we were out she told me that she was going through her "selfish phase" and didn't want to lead me on. Great, I can understand/deal with that, then in the same breath asks me what I'm looking for in dating. I tell her and she askes "so you want someone in your life, but don't need someone"...correct. Then she starts kissing me, takes pictures of us cuddled up, lets me know she has memorized my number, wants me to meet her family, more kissing and tells me she wants to see me again. Is this her being selfish or just cautious from being hurt and is interested?

2007-02-18 12:50:57 · 11 answers · asked by scott k 1 in Singles & Dating

Anything that could save me money would help alot! I'm on a tight budget and I need some ideas. Maybe some do it yourself favors, centerpieces, pretty much anything!

2007-02-18 12:50:08 · 21 answers · asked by Pamela 2 in Weddings

I've had sex but I barely felt anything and it didn't hurt and i didn't bleed. Does that mean I'm still a virgin and will it hurt if i have sex with a 'bigger' guy?

2007-02-18 12:50:07 · 38 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

my wife went there as a tourist last june 2006. till now shes there. We dont have a argrument or anything else. And she love me so much. i try to contact my sister in law and wrote a letter. She did not responds. and did not gave any address of my wife. but she told me shes safe.

2007-02-18 12:50:01 · 5 answers · asked by danz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Any special things to be done even the girl doesn't love you?

2007-02-18 12:49:12 · 12 answers · asked by jj 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes, I am an adult. I just can't get over him. And the bad thing is that he is MARRIED with a couple of little kids! Don't go off calling me a whore...I cant help it! I'm nuts about the guy, and I don't know how to get over him!

2007-02-18 12:48:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy keeps telling me he loves me. I DON'T love him. I don't actually like Mr. Emotional all that much. But I still don't want to hurt his feelings. What do I do?

2007-02-18 12:48:35 · 13 answers · asked by LisaM 2 in Singles & Dating

He asked me to be his valentine twice.He is quite persistant and won't stop bugging me. He always follows me around and always makes eye contact with me.

2007-02-18 12:45:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how would i word it to ask her out

i love her and i think she likes me

i gave her flowers on valentines day

she sits by me in class when we do homework

she sits by me when we take movie notes

and i get 5 mintues between clases

but how, where, and when do i pop the question to ask her out?

2007-02-18 12:44:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife of 2 months is crack head who was in a serious accident 9 months ago new she was an addict & we split after accident life flight disability etc we got back together and she swore she was finished in that life you know it nov i caught her meeting with her ex lover crack dealer all hell broke loose and she swore a 2nd time it was done married dec find out this friday she has reconntacted ex lover crack dealer again she is sorry will never happen again etc
i am going crazy my fault i know can someone tell me how to handle this and protect me at the same time she is 45 and i am a dumb 60

2007-02-18 12:44:11 · 21 answers · asked by bill s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After my fiance proposed to me I was in a daze the first month & that is when I chose my bridal party. There is one person in particular I wish I had never asked. She is not really my friend, I hardly ever see her..she is my fiance's best friend's girlfriend...

Is there any way i can un-ask her? :S I feel horrible for doing this, but I don't feel right having her up on the alter with me. Is there anything I can do?

2007-02-18 12:44:08 · 18 answers · asked by Stilettos 2 in Weddings

About a year ago Me and my wife were involed in a Domestic vilence(it was my fault ) and after that we were separted for 3 months and move back in with each other during that i was hurt for what i have done and tryed to work things out then i ended up quiting my job and thinking i was getting a better job. well it did not work out as i planed because the job that i wanted would not hire me cuz what happen and i was jumping from job to job to make my marriage and family survie in turn i went in to a depression which i end up distanting my self and she was not around me any more she was always at her parents adn she did not sense i was depress which in turn i got upset with her and kick her out and we been separted for 10 months and at the beganing i just wanted to party and have time to my self and to think about every thing and at the 6 month i took classes for my anger and now i dont know if its going to work but she wants it to work so what do i do were are 21 and have 2 kids

2007-02-18 12:43:58 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 11 and I have never kissed a girl... is that normal? Most of my friends have, and they all have Girlfriends. I don't, but I want to. There is also this girl in my class that I like, what should I say to her, I am sure she likes me too.

2007-02-18 12:43:16 · 11 answers · asked by Ricky T. 1 in Singles & Dating

The only problem is I am not that attracted to him. He is alittle over weight and I am trying to get past it becasue I was once overweight myself, but I don't think I can. What should I do? We have fun together and laugh and joke and get along good and I am worried if I break it off I'll regret it. Any ideas on how to feel more attracted to him? Or any ideas on what I should do at all? Thanks for help serious answer only please and yes I am an adult not and kid on here asking adult questions. Thanks again!!!!!!!

2007-02-18 12:42:08 · 21 answers · asked by buster 2 in Singles & Dating

my step daughter announced to her dad that she wanted him and
her step dad to give her away at her upcoming wedding.
her dad has been a big part of her life regardless of the divorce,
and she never liked her step dad growing up? It was just recently she started liking him and her step-brother. Her dad is
devistated by this choice and does not want to share this priveledge. I could use some advice? Help?
Also
I offered a wedding shower to be given by my freinds now I don't want them to give it . I am very upset for him.
What is right since I already offered it?

Help Help?

2007-02-18 12:42:00 · 10 answers · asked by dkljscott 1 in Weddings

2007-02-18 12:41:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This guy I know is really creeping me out. He asked me (online) if I wore a bra, and he told me he wasn't leaving the city until I had sex with him. What does this mean?

2007-02-18 12:41:55 · 22 answers · asked by LisaM 2 in Singles & Dating

I didn't know what to put in the question box. I asked my teacher for help, and she came up behind me and put her boobs in my back and left them there the whole time she was helping me. Why would she do this? Hopefully it was just accidental.

2007-02-18 12:41:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

or going to school or doing any work what so ever

2007-02-18 12:40:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iv been on a couple of dates with this bloke he's really nice but its always me asking him out he always say's yes. we have a really good time when were out but i get the feeling he dont fancey me, but if he did'nt then why would he keep coming out with me.

2007-02-18 12:40:30 · 8 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy i know, and i like him alot but i'm not sure if he really likes me. Sometimes i think he does and other times i dont think so. He tells me all the time that i'm beautifull and hot. He's always grabbing my arm to walk with and little things like that. But the reason i dont think he likes me is because he's says things like there are these two girls that he thinks are hot and a couple weeks ago he said he needed to find something for his valentine. He is single and i know that for a fact. Alot of people keep telling me that he does like me. but im just not sure .What do u think?

and if u do think he likes me than what's with the whole valentines thing and the two hot girls he knows?

2007-02-18 12:40:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok last night me and my friend met this guy when we were at a ski lodge. we were in the cafe and i kept looking over at him cause he was rele cute. well every once in a while he looked bac and we caught eachothers eyes for a sec. then he ended up coming over and asking if i ski or snowboarded when i told him i skiied he said o ok and walked away. i went after him and asked him if he wanted to hang out so he waited for me and my friend and we hung the rest of the night. i rele liked him a lot, i asked him for his phone number b4 we left which was awsome and were meeting up again at the ski lodge this sat. im just wondering if he likes me too...even tho we just met i think he might. first of all he came up to me so it shows he had some interest. and all ngiht long he kept trying to sit or stand next to me. also he was showing off a lot which was rele cute hehe. and also he kept touching me like hitting me teasingly and stuff like that. can ne1 give me their input? thanx =D

2007-02-18 12:39:54 · 5 answers · asked by XOXO 1 in Singles & Dating

We will be getting married on April 28 and have not picked a place to honeymoon yet. Any suggestions?

2007-02-18 12:39:31 · 6 answers · asked by karen_faustino 1 in Weddings

what do I say when the guy I <3 is online?

2007-02-18 12:39:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you kiss, no tougne envolved. just a sweet young innocent first kiss, kind of kiss. i dont want to screw up my first kiss so can i get some kissing pointers??? PLZ much thanks!!

2007-02-18 12:38:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Of course like any race there are some who are out of shape or have a bad attitude, but all my black girlfriends are educated, responsible and so sweet. They're in great shape too. Why don't black men marry black women? Is it a problem with not wanting responsibility? Culture? Do a lot of black men just not value family?
What's going on?
I know part of it is that my girlfriends are educated and looking for someone who is the same, but they're not looking for millionaire's. Just someone who is responsible and has a good job.
(I'm not black, but just feel sad that my girlfriends have such a hard time)

2007-02-18 12:38:46 · 4 answers · asked by orange 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you get passion back in a relationship. I have been married for 15 years and would like to make my wife feel special again.

2007-02-18 12:37:54 · 13 answers · asked by ted j 2 in Marriage & Divorce