I've had sex but I barely felt anything and it didn't hurt and i didn't bleed. Does that mean I'm still a virgin and will it hurt if i have sex with a 'bigger' guy?
2007-02-18 12:50:07 · 38 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you are not a virgin anymore and yes it may or may not hurt with someone who is bigger
2007-02-18 12:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by irish eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you mean physically and physically if you've had sex you're not a virgin. My first time I didn't hurt or bleed either- the pain factor just depends on what you've done before. As to the question of will it hurt, maybe, maybe not. It depends on how much bigger he is than your first time and the intensity, etc.
2007-02-18 12:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by kaitlyn.roberts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you can still be a virgin. the first guy i had sex with wasn't big enough to break my hymin, so when i had sex with my second partner i thought i was no longer a virgin until we went to go have sex. i soon realized i was still a virgin, (for a few minutes longer). so, yes if your first partner wasn't big enough to do any damage there is a good possibility you are. (it is rare for guys to actually be that small though)
and yes if the next time is with a "bigger" guy it will hurt
2007-02-18 12:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by Brandi N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Aryia, Sounds like you got a hold of a young guy who isn't fully developed in the private area. No you are no longer a virgin. Yes if you get with a guy who is a lot bigger it will hurt.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-02-18 12:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a virgin, and it might hurt next time. I didn't "bleed" until 3 years after my first time.
2007-02-18 12:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by mystery_me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could have lost your hymen in many different ways. Especially if you are an active woman. It really depends on your definition of the word virgin. If you mean someone who has never had traditional intercourse, then I am sorry, you are no longer a virgin.
2007-02-18 12:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Fyre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope sex is sex, you are not a virgin anymore.
If the guy you had sex with this time wasn't so well endowed, and you have sex with someone who is bigger yes it will hurt more.
2007-02-18 12:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by jenimiper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That probably means you had a rupture of your hymen from another activity such as horseback riding. A bigger guy may hurt. You may bleed. But you are not a virgin. Welcome to the club. It's all downhill from here.
2007-02-18 12:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way! You aren't supposed to hurt or bleed while or after having sex! Unless something like a knife is shoved down there!
2007-02-18 12:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a virgin. The guy you were with may have been super small or you might have a wider set vagina but if you have had intercourse than you are NOT a virgin.
2007-02-18 12:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋