when you first have sex with someone should it be really adventurous or just keep it simple for now oh ye and forplay
2007-02-18 12:51:51 · 14 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people its not my first time im 21 blimey just nervous about this new relationship
2007-02-18 13:05:39 · update #1
for the first couple times usually just simple. then your can start gettin freaky
2007-02-18 12:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by Atllas 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You Should Just Keep It Simple For Now.
2007-02-18 12:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the first time... lets hope it is of legal age. and it is your wedding night.
But if you didn't go that direction, let's hope it is with someone that you are planning to spend a very long time together with.
If it is "casual sex" keep it simple, no sense in being adventurous with someone for one night or two.
and remember..... P R A C T I C E..... S A F E..... S E X
2007-02-18 13:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by kevferg64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it really depends on the personality of who you're going to sleep with.
I know my first time with my current boyfriend was pretty simple, but he's a pretty shy/quiet guy...a feisty first-time might have been too overwhelming for him, hahaha.
I DO recommend a LOT of foreplay, you know..neck kissing, licking every inch of their body EXCEPT for the most erogenous zones, driving them crazy, etc.. to make the sex more passionate.
Good luck! (:
2007-02-18 12:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by MarieYoungLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that the first time would be simple with lots of foreplay. I think it should be with someone you really care for as you will find it will happen quite easily and a time you will never forget.
2007-02-18 12:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by genie81au 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first time with someone....I think it should be in between....not too simple and not too out there. You want to make an impact and keep them wanting to come back for more but yet you don't want to over do it and kill it lol
2007-02-18 12:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS WITH THE FOREPLAY! ALWAYS!! Foreplay tends to be important to women not only emotionally but physically it helps her to self-lubricate.
Don't get freaky the first time or two, unless you've both already discussed any freaky tendencies you have and have both made it clear that you're OK with them.
Less can be more with sex, believe it or not!
2007-02-18 12:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by usa_armywife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not married, you should WAIT! I know that this may not be a popular answer, but it is the RIGHT answer! When you do get married, seek advice from people that you actually know and trust. Good luck!
2007-02-18 12:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that adventurous would be perfect since it is the first time, but a good foreplay will make it way better!
2007-02-18 15:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what feels good.
if it hurts or feels bad stop change positions.
sounds like ur a first timer.
it won't be adventurous. it will be 2 minutes at most.
2007-02-18 12:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋