Family & Relationships - 17 February 2007

me and her has been broken up and gotten back together over and over and over again and its the same relationship. im just thinking of leaving her. and me and her probaly never will meet but there are times so close of meeting her it just doesnt happen.

2007-02-17 04:38:33 · 24 answers · asked by mamas_grandmasboy06 6 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy at work who told me I was too weird for him to be friends with since I was sending him mixed signals about getting with him. The reason I was wavering was because he has a fiancee. I know this because last year I helped him get the engagement ring for her. The thing is she is in another country. Anyway to make the long story short, he asked me to stop texting or emailing him. He even told me he changed his cell phone number, I haven't tried calling him or emailing him and I asked him why can't just say hi at work. He told me I was too weird to be his friend and that are no hard feelings between us and I should get therapy. I don't think I'm crazy or weird, but it seems he still wants to look, or be near my work area. Yesterday, I was gone from my desk to go downstairs and he was by my desk, but was kind of hiding since he was packing a box of books really fast. Then I went to fridge to get my lunch and walked back to my desk, and later he walks past my desk really fast

2007-02-17 04:38:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 04:37:39 · 11 answers · asked by triestobekind 1 in Singles & Dating

we broke up because one of his good frends liked me too, but i dont like his good frend. now i think he likes some one else , not me. and im not sure if i like him or not, cuz he did something meen to my frend. but i still like him from when we went out. should i move on?

2007-02-17 04:37:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 04:36:54 · 7 answers · asked by MS. SEXY!!!!!!!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a boy in my grade that I kind of like I little bit. He always says stupid things to me, joking around, like "So why didn't you let me copy off your test this morning?" The only problem is he's kind of popular and known to most girls as "annoying," so I can't tell if he's just talking to me to be friendly, or if he likes me, or what. We're in a couple of classes together, and in one he talks to me a lot, just says stupid stuff. Does he like me?

2007-02-17 04:36:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months on the 20th, and i love him but i'm afraid to tell him because he is younger than me. i'm afraid that if i tell him that i'll scare him away. how should i go about this?

2007-02-17 04:36:08 · 5 answers · asked by not2hot2bp_rican 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 04:35:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

boyfriend slit his wrist in front of me in a fight. --> took him to the hospital and he got stitches. he's bipolar, taking medications.
this occured about 5 months ago. (we are both 22 years old)

he's gotten counceling since then...


my question is.... can i trust him, can i plan a life with him, how do i get over this.

2007-02-17 04:34:56 · 13 answers · asked by ashley-girl 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and i called off the wedding a few months ago. we weren't ready and it was mutual. we tried staying together but it just didn't happen. i want to make sure i have that forever kind of love (not fantasy love--real love) before i walk down the aisle, and i wasn't sure i had that with him. i see marriage as something sacred.

my question is this: to anyone who has been through this, what did you do? i didn't lose money or anything like that, just curious as to other people's thoughts. thanks.

2007-02-17 04:34:34 · 4 answers · asked by lonestargirlie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just told my friend that is a girl that I liked her like two days before Valentines Day, I also asked her to be my Valentine. The bad part is that she hasn't called or sent mail or e-mailed me and I am starting to think she doesn't even want to know me anymore. What do you think? And what should I do?

What if she doesn't answer?

2007-02-17 04:33:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sister is getting married in Charleston, SC... want someone to sing a song before she comes out any ideas?

2007-02-17 04:33:37 · 12 answers · asked by can_do_complicated 3 in Weddings

We are a happily married couple and love swinging.What do you think of such a relationship.

2007-02-17 04:32:14 · 17 answers · asked by wouter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If my boyfreind tells me hes just staying at the pub for one more, why does that really mean that he will be another four hours. When he says, i wont fall asleep when i get home, does that turn into him going to sleep till the next day. Why does he wonder why i get so mad!!
Do you think he will actually come home, get ready, not fall asleep and take me out like he has promised all day???

2007-02-17 04:32:00 · 14 answers · asked by clare 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I came out to him and took him to a gay club he experiemented but said it wasn't for him etc.I met my darlin girlfriend and she tried to set him up with guy friends, who apparently said 'he isn't gay he is pretendin'.

He never liked my girlfriend or me being with her. After I came out we were both out in 23 years of us being friends we never kissed but we kissed. I felt nothing to be honest but he kept sayin he was hot and I was making his head spin and he was confused.

He has told me in the past when he claimed to be gay that he loved this women my gut feeling as he looked at me was that he was talking about me.

He now says he is gay but I can't set him up with any guys, when I point out a nice guy he almost pretends to go yeah hot. He says after he went with a couple of guys he felt nothing. We are not as close anymore because he gets to creepy nowadays as we get older. I wish he was gay so he would leave me alone, honestly he remembers things i've said in the past too.

2007-02-17 04:31:32 · 8 answers · asked by temple 1 in Friends

My male cousin, Mario, has not seen his mother due to his mother not being able to get to the hospital in time to see his wife deliver. He is also jealous of his brother's children and their daily visits to their mother. Mario's wife refuses to let Marioand the children visit his mother. Her mother & family live directly next door to his mother. Sadly to say, Mario's mother has now passed away. His wife and children were ordered not to show up at the funeral palor. Mario did not show up. What is happening with this family? Any help please?

2007-02-17 04:28:38 · 13 answers · asked by italianbronxgirl 2 in Family

There's a guy at work who told me I was too weird for him to be friends with since I was sending him mixed signals about getting with him. The reason I was wavering was because he has a fiancee. I know this because last year I helped him get the engagement ring for her. The thing is she is in another country. Anyway to make the long story short, he asked me to stop texting or emailing him. He even told me he changed his cell phone number, I haven't tried calling him or emailing him and I asked him why can't just say hi at work. He told me I was too weird to be his friend and that are no hard feelings between us and I should get therapy. I don't think I'm crazy or weird, but it seems he still wants to look, or be near my work area. Yesterday, I was gone from my desk to go downstairs and he was by my desk, but was kind of hiding since he was packing a box of books really fast. Then I went to fridge to get my lunch and walked back to my desk, and later he walks past my desk really fast

2007-02-17 04:28:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, I know there's the whole... spend your whole life with someone, move up to the next step in commitement, but is it really? I mean think about it. It's married people who don't have sex, who get bored, who cheat. Marraige is almost something that bring your relationship down a notch. Is it just a thing we do, a societal expentancy? I mean, no offense, but married life just seems so dull. Everything's so happy and free when the couple just get married, but after everything slows down and the love seems to fade. Maybe it's just experiences or couples I've witnessed, but I really just don't understand it anymore. Your opinions?

2007-02-17 04:28:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The relationship went downhill last X'mas. The last time we talked was Jan 31th when he sent me an email and said he would talk to me soon and he loves me and always will. But up till now I haven't heard anything from him. I called him on valentine's day. He did not answer so I left him a message. I sent him a few emails and told him I would like to talk things out with him, but got no replies. It has been 17 days. Should I move on or just hang in there and give it more time as he said he needed to work something out.

2007-02-17 04:27:32 · 5 answers · asked by hhfe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 04:27:10 · 5 answers · asked by hotchick_kelssie 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my friend shes just sometines gets really B!Tchy and like im a nice person and i treat everone nice but then yeaterday she call me fat and i know im not and she just puts me down so she called me and i just wanted to tell her aboput something and shes like i dont kare ! its like everthing is about her and u knoe im sick of it so and last summer some guy said that i looked like a elephant taking a bath (when i was in the pool) and she didnt even defend me. Aren't friend suppose to be nice to each other . I used to think im worthless and im a loser because she told me ...but i dont think that anymore becasue i help my mom and my friends and i go to work and im happy but she has to ruin it so should we evn be friends.
By the way shes one of those balck ppl who think they the Sexy and most pretty persosn in the school so i reather just know her than her hate me cuz she will spread rummers.help me settle this

2007-02-17 04:26:58 · 5 answers · asked by Hypercutie_2 4 in Friends

Does anyone have any suggestions for a father/daughter song for at a wedding?

2007-02-17 04:26:43 · 12 answers · asked by Kara T 1 in Weddings

Describe the scariest dates, worst ever, most stressful, strangest/oddest, people or date that you went out or went on....etc...you get the picture...

2007-02-17 04:26:28 · 3 answers · asked by ladyk 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 04:26:17 · 8 answers · asked by Dee W 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy online whom seem to be looking for the same things I am. He is mid 50's with 2 kids, I presumed they were grown but both are under 10. I reallly don't want a man with young children as my daughter is almost grown and I want to be able to go out and have a good time with another adult and not have to go to kid places all the time. we have only met once. He is also very involved in social work. He wife divorced him because he was too into God. I think she divorced him because he spent too much time doing social work and not enough time with her. I presumed he had his sons every other weekend but it turns out he has them 50% of the time or more like 4 days a week. we were emailing and chatting on the phone daily but in the past days that he has his kids, no emails or calls. He is just too busy. I think I am going to go back to deleting any many who answers my ad who was young children. Am I right or is this just an isolated event?

2007-02-17 04:25:49 · 12 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

OK i have been "with" this guy for a few months now and it always was in the back of my mind that he never asked me out. But last night when were were...umm... hanging out.. he called me him girlfriend and i was like... what... anyway i didnt say anything and i just wanted to no.... idn.... she i think of him as my boyfriend now... he still has not asked me out...
All my friends say that if he didnt ask me out that im not tied down to him and still can do what ever i want with who ever..(not that kind of person) but idn... should i say somthing to him or just start callin him my Boyfriend? HELP

2007-02-17 04:25:38 · 7 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm 27 and after splitting from my husband 18 months ago havent had sex with anyone else but i really did want to go back with this guy but i couldn't let myself not sure what this means HELP leanne p.s am already divorced

2007-02-17 04:24:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 04:24:30 · 3 answers · asked by margie 2 in Friends

well i have a good friend but she is always getting into drama and i don't know but she always looks like she is talking about me what do i do

2007-02-17 04:24:16 · 12 answers · asked by bronte d 2 in Singles & Dating

This man plans to marry this girl. I actually feel sorry for this girl. I think this man is taking advantage of her immaturity and the fact that she comes from a very dysfunctional family. I think this girl is looking for a daddy!

2007-02-17 04:23:17 · 17 answers · asked by chastity 3 in Weddings