i'm 27 and after splitting from my husband 18 months ago havent had sex with anyone else but i really did want to go back with this guy but i couldn't let myself not sure what this means HELP leanne p.s am already divorced
2007-02-17 04:24:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is trying his luck and hoping that once he kisses you one thing will lead to another!
Sex with someone new after being in a long term relationship is always daunting but you'll find it really exciting - just don't rush into it with a new partner, make him wait!
2007-02-17 04:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Poppy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will only end in disappointment for you both. He, most likely, is only saying that to get you there and then will try to push it too the next level as much as possiable. If you are not ready for sex yet then you should respect what your instints are telling you.
If you rush in before you are ready you won't enjoy it and may feel worse for it. Insteed I would suggest you take a few hours to write down what worries you about engaging in sex with somebody other then your husband, take a deep breath and address them.
And remember to use a condom! You don;t know where he's been.
2007-02-17 04:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by Char Black 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
even with if or no longer we experience a connection with you. If she became inviting you accessible out, outdoors of the little talks to adult men have you ever then have no reason to be worried approximately her saying no. in all hazard you need to no longer call it a date, certainly set out a time the situation you and her can spend some on my own time on the comparable time, like a action image and dinner. without drawing close to stable or some thing such as you p.c.. to pass out. enable her see the exciting, romantic area of her and then if subject concerns pass extraordinary, you will understand the situation to pass from there. certainly be certain you ask her on the top of the evening "even with if she had an invaluable time." that'll be your first clue :] different then that certainly be posititve with your self and be your self.
2016-10-15 12:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to consider how the marriage worked the first time around. If you really want to go back to him, at least talk to him about taking some marital classes or consider counseling to make sure you both will be happy together this time if the two of you really want this. It is possible for people to change and work things out.
2007-02-17 04:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. They say they just will kiss you but it could escalate and you will be stuck in his apt. It's not a good idea. Invite him to your place or arrange for another date instead. Use your head.
2007-02-17 04:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OH hell, just kiss the lucious lips off him in the club or outside by your car. ya know he's a crafty bugger and will try his damndest to get you hot n bothered and....well?
2007-02-17 04:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by kalamazooqueen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, u dont know things might get too far i odnt think u shoudl put yourself in such a situation, why does he have to kiss you in dim lights, in his house , on his bed? he can do it anywhere, but going to his house might give him the wrong idea.
2007-02-17 04:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by ABANDONED 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guy thinks by kissng you he'll weaken your resolve and get you in the mood, don't go back to his and definatly don't let him kiss you till your ready!
2007-02-17 05:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's like me, (he's venezuelan, acts like a gorilla, and puts on a macho freak show every now and then) say no. i dare you.
apparently girls find it hard to do,( i have no idea why, happy bout it tho)
2007-02-17 10:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by venez4frigginlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unless you are prepared for it leading to sex, hes been nice to youy in the hope he can sway you
2007-02-17 04:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋