We are a happily married couple and love swinging.What do you think of such a relationship.
2007-02-17 04:32:14 · 17 answers · asked by wouter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband and I are also. My only advice is to not tell your friends and family because they will not understand, and your business will become everyone's business!
2007-02-17 04:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a swinger, okay? But I 'll answer your question anyways. I think such a relationship is fine even great if you're on the same page, who am I to judge? Some couples do role playing or s&m, swinging works for you, cool. It's really none of my business. If you're happy, what do I care?
On the other hand, it could just be innocent curiosity or your question could be driven by some sort of insecurity, maybe it's societal stigma or maybe it's something else...That's the realities of us strangers on yahoo answers.
2007-02-17 04:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the real key is honesty and firm ground rules. For me, the key would be to make everything a SHARED couple experience and not a whole bunch of separate individual experiences (I am not a swinger or considering it). Having said that, life throws everyone challenges that they don't see coming, and even happily married swinging couples are not exempt. Good luck to you.
2007-02-17 05:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fantastic! You must have a lot of trust in your relationship (and passion)!
As long as you have a firm set of ground rules and know to cut the relationship (with the others) before it goes beyond that.
Although swinging has crossed my mind before, I doubt my hubby would go for it. He's quite traditional, and I'm very open. We're a young married couple who have only been with each other. It's been awesome but sometimes you want to spice things up, you know? But, I do need to respect his wishes.
Anyway, all the power to you both!
2007-02-17 05:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by illumina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun and be careful, and I don't mean in just the STD sense.
There are more pitfalls than potential for pleasure, including jealousy, performance anxiety, self-image issues, etc. Surely, not something I would recommmend to all couples.
Most couples experiement with it for a while, and are either left with some great memories or a bad taste. Most don't make it permanent "life change."
Again, have fun, but take care of each other.
2007-02-17 05:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's how we met. we've been mutually now for 3 years. We play with others (very close friends) month-to-month or much less. that's an exciting area of our relationship, yet we don't stay our lives around it. If the two human beings desperate to renounce, we'd. we adore one yet another better than something. fidgeting with others is just one thing we do for exhilaration.
2016-10-15 12:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if it makes you and your husband happy and you're not breaking the law then keep on Swinging.
2007-02-17 04:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey whatever works! its not for everyone i wouldnt imagine.
if two grown people want to bring other ppl into there bedroom thats your own choice..BUT my personal feeling is..its most likely gonna mess things up somewhere down the road.
2007-02-17 04:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by lisa baby... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to swing too ---in a swing on the porch, that is--------what ever makes you happy, then go for it.
2007-02-17 05:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,how cool and you are still together.thats a stong relationship,so if you both are good with it then keep up the work ,lol
2007-02-17 04:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by chip d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋