What is he doing?

Question

There's a guy at work who told me I was too weird for him to be friends with since I was sending him mixed signals about getting with him. The reason I was wavering was because he has a fiancee. I know this because last year I helped him get the engagement ring for her. The thing is she is in another country. Anyway to make the long story short, he asked me to stop texting or emailing him. He even told me he changed his cell phone number, I haven't tried calling him or emailing him and I asked him why can't just say hi at work. He told me I was too weird to be his friend and that are no hard feelings between us and I should get therapy. I don't think I'm crazy or weird, but it seems he still wants to look, or be near my work area. Yesterday, I was gone from my desk to go downstairs and he was by my desk, but was kind of hiding since he was packing a box of books really fast. Then I went to fridge to get my lunch and walked back to my desk, and later he walks past my desk really fast

Answer 1

I would definitly put some space between the two of you. Just be casual towards him and dont go out of your way to be around him or talk to him. Don't text,email or call him. He is more than likely feeling guilty for cheating and he is proubly mad at the same time cause you blew him off. With very good reasons I might add.

Do yourself a favor and just move on. You deserve alot better then what he can offer you. If he can cheat on his fiancee then you see what kind of man he really is and how much he puts into commitments. I feel bad for his fiancee really and hope she realizes how he truely is before its to late. good luck.

Answer 2

I think that he likes you, but doesn't want to feel guilty about cheating on his fiancee. I think others might disagree, but in this situation, you should do as he says and leave him alone.

Answer 3

He's trying to avoid you. STOP STALIKING HIM!!! He doesn't want to be bothered with you!!!!