Family & Relationships - 16 February 2007

I've met a guy 3 years ago and definitely fell for him but at the time I had to leave the country and he had to go back to his, so we stayed friends, so nobody gets hurt and we can follow our own dreams. Then i've met my current boyfriend overseas and we 're now in a relationship for 1 and a half year, it's a good relationship so far . The trouble is that i have a chance again to meet that same guy i met in my home country and i'm still feelling intensely for him...but we still never have a chance to start a relationship and now i'm also with someone else. I also feel bad to myself and my boyfreind, even though he doesn't know anything about it. What should I do? Should i stick with my guy, or should i try follow my feeling?

2007-02-16 20:26:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My gf and I have been dating for over a year now. She broke up with me and then later came back. Well, I asked her what she thinks of our relationship and she said she doesn't know. I asked her how much she loves me and she a little. I asked her if she likes someone else beside me and she said not now but don't know about the future.
I care for her a lot. Any advice for her not be confused ?

2007-02-16 20:24:17 · 10 answers · asked by Lomus 2 in Singles & Dating

Curious if a person lived in London and wanted to play away from home where would be the best place to find someone discreet and fun?

2007-02-16 20:24:15 · 29 answers · asked by nathan l 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 20:23:33 · 8 answers · asked by cournelious c 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to have a girlfriend and to wait for someone to come along and take you away from her? My girlfriend says that she loves me and I tell her that too. But lately I have been playing around saying “no I don’t.” Sometimes I think that I am not playing around that deep down inside I am serious. What should I do to spice this relationship?

2007-02-16 20:22:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my mom but i have issues with her seeing me naked so when we go to the doctors i get really uncomfortable, i once cried. is there any way i can tell the doctor i dont want her there and then she would have to stay out. i have told my mom i dont want her there but she wont respect my wishes. what do i do?

2007-02-16 20:20:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I,m thinking of asking my boyfriend to move in with me, but have not got a clue how much is reasonable for him to pay. I don,t want him to pay any bills just bed &board

2007-02-16 20:19:59 · 29 answers · asked by Janet C 2 in Family

2007-02-16 20:19:24 · 6 answers · asked by strangerthanyou 2 in Singles & Dating

well im in year 10 (15 years old) and theres this girl in year 11 and i got ot this youth club that she goes to ive been going for a year we jst did a musical and over tht time ive grown to be friends with her but i fancy her but dont know what shed say if i asked her out, we have quite a lot in common, what should i do the thing is i have just been speaking to her on msn and we were talking about something different on msn and she said she didnt want a bf at the moment, If you think i should how do u think i should go about it thankyou? EMPHASIS ON HOW TO ASK HER

2007-02-16 20:17:25 · 14 answers · asked by Mike B 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I were together for 8 months and broke up 6 months ago. He is now living in a different country. We did not break up on bad terms so there were no hard feelings.

We are still friends and have stayed in touch ever since the break-up. We email each other regularly. He sometimes tells me he was thinking about me and that he would like to meet up sometime. He recently complimented me by telling me my future husband would be a very lucky man. We talk via emails more often now and we even flirt a little every now and then. Last week I told him one of my friends was going to his country and he asked if I wanted him to show them around. He even offered to give them his number in case they got stuck. He said a friend of mine is also a friend of his. He later admitted he doesn't really want someone he doesn't know to call him but he was trying to be nice because they were my friend.

Does he still have some feelings for me?

2007-02-16 20:17:03 · 6 answers · asked by ce 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 20:16:54 · 4 answers · asked by jack_lemon2 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy for about two weeks now ... today we barely even talked!!! I called him earlier today and he's like "Call me back in an hour I'm doing something" ... I called him back but he didn't answer... I sent him a text over an hour ago and he said "I'm busy call u later" and he hasn't!!!

What should I do?

2007-02-16 20:16:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 20, and have been on one date EVER with this girl two days after christmas. Then all of the sudden she just stopped calling me, and for a couple weeks it was really awkward being at work with her (we work together once or twice a week). We're past that, and on good terms as coworkers now. But come to find out, the reason she stopped talking to me and stuff is that she got pregnant (again, she already has a son from highschool) and I think she's gonna marry the father of the baby. How's that for a great experience to have when you start dating?

2007-02-16 20:15:55 · 3 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

Okay,here is the thing..I really dont know whats wrong..I saw this person..That person saw me too...And that person kept on looking at me,even i looked at that person..Now i cant find that person anywhere...What should i do???Please help..

2007-02-16 20:15:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When We date its so much fun guys. we are fine out of school but when were back in school things change. im not sure if its the people shes with or thres somehting goin on in her life. but i do know what love is, and she is my world. im not joking, i just dont understand Y shes my best friend out of skool and in school shes not nice to me, thats all, but thanks 4 the advice,, but i dont think moving on will be something i can do over night but i will giv it my best shot. and its only recently thats shes been real immiture towards me.
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Jono

2007-02-16 20:15:29 · 2 answers · asked by love_lies_bleed_lp4 1 in Friends

my brother is haveing problems MAJOR problems and he is thinking about suicide and i dont know what to tell him he said that his girl friend is cheating on him with his best friend and he hasent confronted her about it yet but he is going to do it on tuesday in school and he asked me what to say to her well i have never been in this kind of situation before so i dont know what to tell to him i really dont want him to hurt him self but yeah this is so complicated especially since we dont really have parents to tell about this and so yeah im not too sure what to say and i cant tell a grown up because me and him are not that close with any adult please help me

2007-02-16 20:13:11 · 18 answers · asked by live life to the fullest 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-16 20:12:30 · 7 answers · asked by stephanie m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im in love with a guy frm 7 years. we r planning to marry soon. his family is very selfish and he knowsthis. he is also considerate for his family. he knows that we should live separately after marriage so that we can live in peace. he agrees to it also. but sometimes while discussing the thing s he says we will see this after marriage where to live. If i say i cannot live with ur family and i dont want to marry u then he says we will live separtae . im confused what to do . plz help me .

2007-02-16 20:12:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in my 3 yr of marriage and just this New Years, at a family dinner, I was accused of being a manlipulative, disgusting liar who is out to tear apart the family. Since then, I have been visited three times by the sister-in-laws and they have continued the allegations. The last time this happened was this evening, my she rang to speak with my husband and told yet another lie, about my husband. They are both very good as they are very controlling of their whole family, including their husbands. They say jump and the husbands say "yes dear, how high?" Each allegation involves a remark I have allegidly said to them regarding my husband. My husband and I have been fighting over the lies and allegations made by the sisters, and he says he believes me, but never backs me up when they say words against me. I just don't know where I stand or what to do. I know that if I give up on our marriage, that they have won, but the person who is hurting the most is my husband. Please Help me.

2007-02-16 20:11:34 · 7 answers · asked by clancy _overflow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me when he knows I'm at a certain place, does that necessarily mean he likes me? He already has a girlfriend, but we've been communicating to each other like friends. Can he just mean he wants to see me as a friend?

2007-02-16 20:10:44 · 11 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

My girl friend is out cheating on me with a guy from live links, how long will the pain last????

2007-02-16 20:08:19 · 20 answers · asked by jack l 1 in Singles & Dating

there was a boy who i thought 2 b my best friend but now i com 2 kno dat he loves me. he is always caught staring at me ... i have no feelings 4 him but dont wanna lose him as a frnd

2007-02-16 20:07:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together for almost 10 years and he has always been faithful, caring...but soooo boring ! We never do fun things together, never really talk, never have been on a trip, I care about him but should I want more ? If I start a discussion, it always end badly for me ( he makes me look like the villain ). We have a beautiful daughter, but I'm the only one who takes care of her. Recently, I met someone and ....well, after all, I'm human. I'm in trouble, aren't I ?

2007-02-16 20:03:58 · 21 answers · asked by jasmine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i been datein my bf now for 6 months but i feel like am not attarcted to him as i used to be. i guess the sparks gone ... i wanna move on and be single ...how do i let him down softly

2007-02-16 20:03:39 · 26 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating

lolol

2007-02-16 19:58:40 · 14 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

My gf and I have been dating over a year now. She now tells me she's confused of whether she loves me or not. Before she broke up with me and later she came back. I asked her what she thinks of our relationship and she said doesn't know. I love her so much. What is a best thing that i can do for her not to be confused ?

2007-02-16 19:58:24 · 11 answers · asked by Lomus 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm meeting her about 8pm and it's our first date and I don't know much about her so should I just take her back to my place watch movies and get her drunk ? Any other ideas?

2007-02-16 19:57:45 · 11 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering......

giggles

btw....I'm not a silly little kid....I'm 40! lolol

2007-02-16 19:56:55 · 4 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

i have started to dress in all black and well my parents and my friends are all like wow i never knew that you were goth so i was kinda saying that im not even though i am seriously thinking about changing my life and heading toward the whole goth direction and well now my friends are all trying to be like me and its kind of starting to get on my nerves and well i just dont know what to say and if its ok to dress like this even if i dont want my friends to because i want to be different i dont want to be like them but if they start to dress like me then i feel like i am JUST like them and i dont know how to tell them that i dont want them to dress like me and what it means to be goth and they would have to give up their god to be like me and i dont think that they would still like me if i told them thst i dont believe in god so is it ok to be goth or what???

2007-02-16 19:54:05 · 11 answers · asked by live life to the fullest 1 in Friends

I am a 14 year old male and my mother has recenty been going out a lot and neglecting me. I have my own life too. Its just important that I have a good relationship with my mother. I dont want to endup hating her one day.

2007-02-16 19:49:29 · 22 answers · asked by Jaye 2 in Other - Family & Relationships