My girl friend is out cheating on me with a guy from live links, how long will the pain last????
2007-02-16 20:08:19 · 20 answers · asked by jack l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't have any friends, they disapated since I've been with her, It's nice to know there's nice people out here to reply to my question so fast, thanks
2007-02-16 20:15:02 · update #1
A very long time. 5 years, probably.
But much less if you go out and find a real girl that would never do that to you. Doesn't matter how much you like your girlfriend...never put up with anyone who cheats on you.
There are so many other cute, sweet, nice, intelligent gilrs out there that would never do that to you. Move on right away and don't waste any more time.
2007-02-16 20:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you let it technically. Forgive her but don't forget what she has done and allow yourself to move on. There is no magic number of days, weeks,months, years or etc to when emotional pains stops but each day if you enjoy and learn to appreciate all that you have that is good and positive in your life and concentrate on all that you have that is good and positive to give to others you can and will make it through this pain in your heart.
Bottom line: It hurts it hurts like hell but there is a blessing in all of this it's called the next day and the day after that. What power that holds is the power of the new and unknown and the clean slate to make of it all that we can.
2007-02-16 20:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will last as long as you let it bother you. Most men will replace their cheating mate with another women ASAP. This will make the pain abate..if you fall off a horse....get back on another ASAP or you will only make it worse on yourself
2007-02-16 20:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will last until you find the hottest girl in town and go out with her and cheat on your girlfriend. Let her know through your actions that if she wants to see other people while seeing you, its a two way street.
2007-02-16 20:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Herbal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she was your first love then it'll last for about a month. Just dont give in to her. She's a loser for doing that to you. I know it's hard to believe but you're better off without her. Chances are she'll be a cheater all her life.
2007-02-16 20:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT will hurt as long as you allow it to hurt and keep stressing over it. Yes its normal for it to hurt for a short period. But if you keep thinking about it ( and I know its hard not to trust me) the hurt wont go away.
Try to surround yourself with friends and family.
Good Luck
2007-02-16 20:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by Tbrat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her.... its gonna hurt, but you have to do it. Then hang out with your friends and begin looking for a new gf. The faster she's out of your life, the faster you can get over her and be happy again.
2007-02-16 20:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The pain won't last too long..it will change into another emotion called anger.
2007-02-16 20:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will last a long time unless you find another woman and fall in love.
2007-02-16 20:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by jacksfullhouse 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ditto what Mike T. said.
2007-02-16 20:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by You have 22 characters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋