I've been seeing this guy for about two weeks now ... today we barely even talked!!! I called him earlier today and he's like "Call me back in an hour I'm doing something" ... I called him back but he didn't answer... I sent him a text over an hour ago and he said "I'm busy call u later" and he hasn't!!!
What should I do?
2007-02-16 20:16:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should give him a call and if he doesn't answer then leave him a voicemail explaining yourself and how you're feeling about it. I've been through the same thing and the guy usually told me "I've been busy" or "I fell asleep"
To me it sounds like it could be over, but it's such a jerkish way to break it off with someone by doing that!!! I don't see how a guy could do stuff like that... that'd be like a guy who really liked this girl and she told him she was busy, you know?
Some guys have a temper and would take that the wrong way and would get really mad... and some girls like you, actually I think it's most girls, get confused and wonder what's going on between you guys.
♥ Christina
2007-02-16 20:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it. If he doesnt want to talk, he doesnt!
It may not be anything personal. perhaps he is unwell, perhaps he has something going on within his family or is simply hanging with mates. if he's at all decent he'd give you an answer in the next day or two but otherwise my simple advice would be to let him be . if he hasnt called in a couple of days, try ringing again but don't keep calling as it'll look like you're stalking or being paranoid over nothing.
2007-02-17 04:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to him. Just ask him "Why were you so busy?" If he's being honest with you and tells you what he was doing, you have nothing to worry about. On the other hand, if he is hiding something, maybe you should confront him about it nicely, and go from there.
Good luck!
2007-02-17 04:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by flashingsigns♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to reverse the situation. Your being the needy one in this situation. Just remember. Guys dont like needy girls. We want girls who are secure about themselves. We want what we can't have. Be the diamond in the ruff.....
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2007-02-17 04:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by Herbal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He is making up excuses to avoid you. Take the hint and leave him alone. He is being a jerk.
2007-02-17 04:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by ce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You chased him enough. Let him come after you now. If you do all the chasing you'll just chase him away.
2007-02-17 04:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it sounds to me like it's over.
2007-02-17 04:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's sad .Try to call him tomorrow. All of us have bad days !
2007-02-17 04:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by Florin A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what u r going to do next make excuses for him
. just forget about him.
2007-02-17 07:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should chill out. Leave him alone and don't worry about it.
2007-02-17 04:20:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋