My gf and I have been dating for over a year now. She broke up with me and then later came back. Well, I asked her what she thinks of our relationship and she said she doesn't know. I asked her how much she loves me and she a little. I asked her if she likes someone else beside me and she said not now but don't know about the future.
I care for her a lot. Any advice for her not be confused ?
2007-02-16 20:24:17 · 10 answers · asked by Lomus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first thing that popped to mind is that she is with you until someone better comes along. Now i don't know if this is exactly what is happening but surely if you are going with someone, you should love them or see them somewhere in your life.
I was with a guy once who never gave me a straight out answer for how our relationship was going and the direction. it went around in circles until i finally broke it off.
I'd talk to her first and foremost about your relationship together. If you're happy with her being confused then good luck but maybe a step down from the relationship would be good for you - not a break up, but a real good think about whether you're happy, what you want in your partner and whether you want to keep going the way you are..
Good luck!
2007-02-16 20:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like shes waiting for something better to come along and she is just keeping you in her back pocket to have on hand for her amusement. Why would you accept this? Why don't you turn the tables and get rid of her? I think she knows shes got control of the relationship and you need to stop this. Unless you really like being treated like crap.
2007-02-17 04:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by jlily680 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, but I've got some advice for you: the relationship can grow or it can wither, much like a plant. If you try to make it grow too fast, you can kill it, just like too much fertilizer on a plant. Let it grow at its own pace. Be good to her and be good to yourself. Have fun just being together.
2007-02-17 04:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt state the reason why you broke up, I think if it was your fault she is still cross with u but she loves u , its just that she wants u to feel insecure. u just need to show her how much u love her.
2007-02-17 04:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by NUNU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone for awhile, she was hurt by somebody else... if you persist and wants an answer she will leave you so give her abit freedom to think and decide... if you be wise and not pushy she will make her mind... don't tell her that you love her, be abit strong, and don't talk about love or relationship...again, be smart...
2007-02-17 04:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by Tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I know you don't want to hear this, but you really need to move on.
Girls that really like you make it known and there's never any doubt (just as us guys do).
The way she's acting just doesn't sound right.
2007-02-17 04:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use ur dickkkk head, ur the man. drive ur relationship
2007-02-17 04:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly doesnt sound like shes very into you
2007-02-17 04:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she loves you enough to die for you?
2007-02-17 04:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that she dont love you anymore
2007-02-17 04:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋