well im in year 10 (15 years old) and theres this girl in year 11 and i got ot this youth club that she goes to ive been going for a year we jst did a musical and over tht time ive grown to be friends with her but i fancy her but dont know what shed say if i asked her out, we have quite a lot in common, what should i do the thing is i have just been speaking to her on msn and we were talking about something different on msn and she said she didnt want a bf at the moment, If you think i should how do u think i should go about it thankyou? EMPHASIS ON HOW TO ASK HER
2007-02-16 20:17:25 · 14 answers · asked by Mike B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her...Have a plan first, like the movies or something...
2007-02-16 20:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She said she didn't want a bf at the moment. That's her throwing you a hint that she doesn't want you to screw up this friendship. So don't do it, and ask her questions about the next girl that you fancy. If she gets jealous, then you know she was full of it. Wait a little while longer and then ask her out. In the meantime, let it go and just enjoy her company.
2007-02-16 20:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by You have 22 characters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I dont want a bf at the moment" is just an excuse. It translates to I haven't found anyone I liked yet, are you that guy? So what you need to do now is to get out of the "friend zone". Ask her out. Be like "so what are you doing this friday?" "Lets go to blah blah blah and hang out". During the first date, hold her hand. Be like "I wanna show you something really cool!" Grab her hand and show her something cool (Your going to have to figure out what that 'cool' thing is. Make it up if you have to). After you show her, don't let go of her hand. Hold hands with her as if its a completely normal thing to do. At the end of the night, tell her you enjoyed spending time with her and kiss her (If your 10 yrs old, kiss her on the cheek). Let me know how it goes.....
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2007-02-16 20:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by Herbal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask her. Or atleast tell her you have feelings for her. That way she will know and if she isn't interested in a boyfriend, she'll at least know you have feelings for her and may in time start to realise she has feelings for you (if she hasnt already!).
Its better to take the risk in life than hold back and never know whether something beautiful could have happened :-)
2007-02-16 20:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay dont ask her out as a date say hey i got some tickets for the movies wanna go with me play it off as friends then see how it goes the rest of the date just try to see how she acts on the "date"
2007-02-16 20:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by oledaveyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, girl friend//boy friend is not important at this time. But going out to a movie and dinner is simply a mature way to show your adult feelings. Get up your energy, put away your fear of rejection. Go for it.
2007-02-16 20:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your unsure, why don't you be nonchalant and just ask if she wants to hang out. Maybe go to the movies or something like that. You can just be friendly and see how it goes from there.
2007-02-16 20:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by jlily680 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Definitely ask her out! Start with somthing really casual and easy...like coffee, tea, lunch, a walk in the park...whatever.
Just do it. Life is short.
2007-02-16 20:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should ask her out. Start with something simple like lunch or coffee.
2007-02-16 20:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on
2007-02-16 20:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋