I've met a guy 3 years ago and definitely fell for him but at the time I had to leave the country and he had to go back to his, so we stayed friends, so nobody gets hurt and we can follow our own dreams. Then i've met my current boyfriend overseas and we 're now in a relationship for 1 and a half year, it's a good relationship so far . The trouble is that i have a chance again to meet that same guy i met in my home country and i'm still feelling intensely for him...but we still never have a chance to start a relationship and now i'm also with someone else. I also feel bad to myself and my boyfreind, even though he doesn't know anything about it. What should I do? Should i stick with my guy, or should i try follow my feeling?
2007-02-16 20:26:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think about it this way you know what you have but you never know what you are getting...i know you are confused but you have think about what would truly make you happy...don't feel bad you haven't did anything wrong...many times things happen for a reason...if it is meant to be even if it takes another three years the opportunity will arise again...follow your heart your happiness is most important.
2007-02-16 20:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Klassy_03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing by not cheating on your boyfriend. I'm a guy and I would feel very bad if you cheated. You should definitely Break up with him. That is the best thing to do if you are thinking of wanting to pursue your old flame. Oh yeah DONT share your feelings with your boyfriend, just break up with him.
2007-02-16 20:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by fastfreedombailbonds 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already in a good relationship. The type of relationship most other girls would kill for. Don't throw it away on a pipeline dream with no future. Enjoy what you had with this other guy but stay where you are, you'll be happier in the long run.
2007-02-16 20:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur in a tough situation i say to follow ur heart. people change though so this guy may not be the same person u knew and u may not realise how u feel about im until u meet again
2007-02-16 20:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I think you should remain with your current boyfriend. As you did say you are having a good relationship. But its still up to you.
Good Luck!
2007-02-16 21:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this to your boyfriend, tell him that you have to meet with this guy, if you don't meet with him he will always be a ghost in any relationship you try to have.
Good Luck to You!!
2007-02-16 20:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow what ur heart and what ur mind says. Never follow only what ur heart tells u. to know Mr. right, is to give it a shot. then u'll know who is mr. right. It's different from true love.
2007-02-16 20:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by Enchanted Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll know in your heart when you meet the right one just one word of advice don't marry some one who drinks for they beat you and cheat i know i been threw it in my marrige make sure you both love each other a lot
2007-02-20 16:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD KEEP YOUR CURRENT BOY FRIEND
I MEAN IT SEEMS YOUR HAPPY WITH HIM IF NOT MAYBE DATE THIS OTHER GUY JUST TO SEE IF THERE ARE ANY FIRE WORKS AND GO FROM THERE
2007-02-16 20:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by DRAG MAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE IN A PICKLE suppose they would die suddenly...which one would you mourn the most? you know the answer then
2007-02-16 20:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋