Family & Relationships - 16 February 2007

When we know that the time that has passed off cannot come back..life wont be the same again for us..there is no point in thinking about our past...still we go back to the past in our thoughts..we are unable to come out of it. Funniest part is we try go behind the incident that has hurt us the most..wherein actually we must forget that incident first and move on with the life. Why is it very difficult to forget our past? Especially the worst from the past...

2007-02-16 21:41:24 · 21 answers · asked by Saheli 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I lost my father, I lost my friend
I loved you to the bitter end
I did not know you, I did not care
I would have met you, anywhere

I never knew him, he did not know
That in my heart, my love did grow
He did not know, that time would tell
That when he left, he left a spell

Some people ask me, who’s my dad
I have his looks, that makes me glad
Now his soul is far away
I love him each, and every day

For those who feel, the same as me
When we were young, we cried our plea
We want our parents, joined again
We know not now, just tell us when

Sometimes at night, I would cry
All thru my life, I wondered why
For my mom, I love you so
Because you never, let me go

2007-02-16 21:38:17 · 16 answers · asked by gary_b04901 1 in Family

my parents still think i'm a virgin, and say if i ever lost it b4 becoming 18 i'd get kicked out, i turn 18 in about 6 months so should i tell them i am not a virgin like they thought i was or just leave it??
they dont even kno of my miscarriage either...all they know is i wanted to stay at a friends house for a month or so, should i tell them that as well or leave that off??

2007-02-16 21:33:42 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

2007-02-16 21:33:07 · 14 answers · asked by smarty star 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering who is more popular with the crowd (I am just talking about white people--not blacks, not other Asians).
No, this is not racist.
The point of this question is to find out which group (K, Ch, V, J) is more integrated into MAINSTREAM (sorry, it is still mostly white) America.
I'll ask another question about Latins and African-Americans and other people later, ok?
Just give me a break on this one!
Ok?
Geez! (I have to put a disclaimer on everything nowadays!)
* "This is Joe (TM) and I have authorized this question"

2007-02-16 21:32:13 · 6 answers · asked by joe m 2 in Friends

one of the guys has been flirting with her (notice past tense, nothing ever came of it).

Anyway, she walks in and notices the guy she used to flirt with glance over at his friend, and then he proceeds to smile to himself.

She blushes, as she gets this "feeling" they've been talking about her.

What could they have been saying, good or bad?

2007-02-16 21:31:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello all. I recently turned thirty and have begun to realise what a mess I have made of my life. I spent way too much time working. I have nver had a proper girlfriend. I would love to find someone to share things with, to give myself too but think i have probably missed the boat. Who would want an inexperienced 30 year old. Life is hard.

2007-02-16 21:30:52 · 11 answers · asked by Pa J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 21:29:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i love a person, he also love, but when he scoled me i cry,but i know he loves me.but why its happen.he solves my every problem, he understand me.

2007-02-16 21:28:20 · 11 answers · asked by leestar_1 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 21:27:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 21:25:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you wait youre whole life to meet him,he,s great company wicked sense of humour ,same tastes in movies films ect .BUT....... you just dont fancy him one little bit !!ITS A NIGHTMARE...ahhhh.

2007-02-16 21:22:54 · 25 answers · asked by smiler 4 in Singles & Dating

Could it be that he's been hurt by them?

2007-02-16 21:22:42 · 14 answers · asked by joviyee76 1 in Singles & Dating

I am currently in a newer relationship of 4 months. My question has to do with my current girlfriends Ex. :

They have a 2 month old son together, and they separated during her pregnancy (went out for 2 years) because the guy is not going anywhere in life. When their son was born, he stayed in Vegas and did not return until a week or so after his birth. He was also arrested and put into jail during this time for a month due to probation violations.

Since he has gotten out of jail (January), he and my GF have been speaking to each other several times per day. He claims he wants to be in their son’s life, and has even watched him overnight a total of 3 nights.

He and I do not get along with each other at all, and it is beginning to wear down my GF. She told me we both trash each other and she is getting really stressed out over it. She told me he is going to be in her life regardless if we get along or not because she wants him to bond with her son and assume the responsibilities of being a parent.

This is where my major problem comes in. She has lied several times over the past month regarding the Ex. :

1.Said that she was not with him at all during the day a medical checkup with her son. She said he was not going, but I found out she went and picked him up prior to the appointment. I found this out because I found a yahoo map with his address and directions to the clinic left in the truck. I called her sister and she confirmed he was with her.

2.Said she needed a break from the baby and went over to her sisters house for a few hours. I found out that her sister was not home at the time, and that my GF went over to the Ex’s house instead. Again, I contacted her sister and asked a question and she was surprised when I told her that she was supposed to be over there a few hours earlier. My GF finally confessed and stated that she went over to the Ex’s so he could visit and watch him while she took a break/nap when I questioned her because said she drove over to her sisters and she was not home and went over there instead.

3.There have been a few other times she stopped over their without telling me. She was late a few times and I was aggravated and asked why she was late with my truck. She finally admitted she was visiting him briefly and did not tell me until she left there. This has happened a few times.

4.Lastly, I have known that she talks to him on the phone several times per day. I questioned her about this and told her I do not like her talking to him so much. She told me she would not contact him but rather talk to him when he calls her. The phone bill came and she lied again because it showed she called him an average of 3-5 times per day since she said she would mellow out.

This pushed me over the edge and I began to question her relationship with him and faithfulness to me. I demanded answers and she said she was lying to me because she knew how much we disliked each other and did not want to make things worse etc.

Now here is the real problem. She told me that she wants to go with her Ex and his brother with his new baby out of town so she could see her grandson’s for the first time. My GF wants to go and said she does not trust her son with him alone for 3 days and wanted to meet his mom anyway because she has been sending cash and other care packages since his birth.

Needless to say, this question did not go over well with me, and we have been fighting for a week straight. She said I have nothing to worry about because she is with me and they will never get back together. She said I need to trust her, but I am having a really hard time doing it. We were fighting so bad during this time I thought about breaking up with her. She said she would not go if it would bring an end to our relationship. I finally got so tired of fighting I said go ahead and go. She decided that morning she was going on the trip and again asked if it was OK with me. I gritted my teeth and told her she has free will and can do what she wants.

I regret telling her this because it is really tearing me up inside. I have a feeling deep down inside that she is trying to revive things with him and cheating on me or maybe it is just jealousy or paranoia.

I have been beating myself up all day and might break up with her when she comes back into town. When I found out she lied to me on several occasions, my trust diminished and now I seem to internally question her every move and motive.

I find this whole trip to be extremely insulting to me and well…..fishy. Am I am over-reacting and not really believing her intentions of trying to establish a schedule and routine with him to care for their son. Could she think I am so gullible that she can cheat on me under my nose???? She said the purpose of the trip was to meet his mom, and they would double team him regarding his lack of commitment to the baby.

I really need some input here because I do not want to destroy this without just cause. I have asked several people and most have sided with me saying she is cheating, while a few others think that her intentions true to establishing a positive relationship with their baby.

2007-02-16 21:21:35 · 7 answers · asked by mike e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he blushes, and nods immediately but he doesn't say yes. I get nervous and so I walk away, but as I open the door he yells out "Take it easy!"

Does that mean he's interested, attracted or not into me?

What's my next move?

2007-02-16 21:20:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Husband will not talk to me, I said that our sex life is old and boring. He said a few words to me at the time and has not said anything to me since.

Was I wrong? How can I talk to him about it?

2007-02-16 21:18:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to be bit stubon bcoz i pardon the who makes the same mistake regularly.especially my friend

2007-02-16 21:17:58 · 6 answers · asked by ushachandra 1 in Weddings

Mother or Father


Mine is father .......
What about you people

2007-02-16 21:13:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just got out of a horrible relationship, it was 3 1/2 years about, and it's been over 2 months. I have since met someone but keep getting a bad/weird feeling. Could this be because I really like him and am afraid to get hurt again, or something else? I'm kind of concerned because he loves going out and doing things and I'm more of a sit at home and relax kind of a person. I'm thinking I might be feeling uncomfortable and not necessarily "bad" about the relationship. He's really social and I'm honestly socially-inapt.

2007-02-16 21:09:59 · 7 answers · asked by Random 1 in Singles & Dating

a queen has alot of money and so can ur true love but ur true love knows u more than some queen

2007-02-16 21:09:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey guys,

I kind of have a crush on a girl who's also a dancer, just like me.
I was thinking about asking her out but the only thing is she's 21 and I turn 20 in 6 month. So that makes 1.5 years between us.

What do you think? Age matters that she's older? Or go for it.

2007-02-16 21:06:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 21:05:50 · 9 answers · asked by Arch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i agree with the fact that i deserve better, he could be leading me on, he is losing not me but i have allowed myself to fall in love. and it is so odd that everytime i am almost to the point that i can get on without him he starts calling, wanting to see me, its like we have this bond and when one is weak the other is there to reinforce it...i am confused is this because we are truly menat to be together or just he senses when im moving on, went out on a date first since i moved here...almost 6 months ago, i called him and when he asked what i was doing i was honest and told him my plans, i can tell he was upset, disappointed and hurt, but hge still says he is not ready and its almost the year to the day, is he afraid, he and the adimit ex were talking quite a bit (inside sources) but she has nothing on me i am smart, beautiful, wife material,eduacted and have goals, i told him that i love him but on the anniversary if there is not change i want no futher contact.. i quit cold turkey

2007-02-16 21:05:25 · 5 answers · asked by Klassy_03 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me n my bf r completely in love n cannot think of being apart. he s 5'4 n im 5'4 too but wen he s not standing along wid him he appears to be shorter than me n this embarrasses me! my friends make fun of us over this fact.allthough iv fancied guys who r taller but i never found any one as loving n caring than him. i want to b wid him n at the same time i dont want to feel embarrassed abt his height.hw can i do it? he s 20 n im 19. is there ny way to increase his height naturally to a few inches? i need only serious answers n no jokes plz!

2007-02-16 21:05:11 · 22 answers · asked by Shoeflower 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 21:04:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-16 21:04:20 · 8 answers · asked by padminiramesh@yahoo.com 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 21:03:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is indian and her name is also in Indian language, probably Hindi.

2007-02-16 21:03:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-16 21:02:47 · 5 answers · asked by P.M.D. LASANTHA P 1 in Friends

im from kuwait and bcoz of our traditions and riligin ican not go out just like that and have a boyfried...

2007-02-16 21:02:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating