my parents still think i'm a virgin, and say if i ever lost it b4 becoming 18 i'd get kicked out, i turn 18 in about 6 months so should i tell them i am not a virgin like they thought i was or just leave it??
they dont even kno of my miscarriage either...all they know is i wanted to stay at a friends house for a month or so, should i tell them that as well or leave that off??
2007-02-16 21:33:42 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think there's any need to tell them. Some things are just better left unsaid. Good luck..
2007-02-16 21:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are turning 18 in about half a year, so hopefully you will make it till then without them finding out cause you surely don't want to be out of a home! It may sound selfish but in a situation like this, think of your lifestyle after you turn 18. If you still plan on depending on your family for tuition, housing, or etc., you should prob leave the issue alone. If you really feel the need to come clean, give it a few mos (or perhaps even a few years depending on how your parents are). What they know won't hurt them but if honesty is that important to you, then keep in mind that the truth doesn't come for free! Good luck!
2007-02-17 05:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by TYRA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a parent my daughter older then you and i didn't spend my time and life keeping up with whether or not she was still a virgin. And if she had asked to go spend a month at a friends i would have said no, no, no. So why are you concerned about telling your parents if you are a virgin is that all your family think about is your sex status? think about this it sounds weired aren't you making life plans like college or graduating from high school, your prom what is the obsession with your sex life and the whole virgin thing.
2007-02-17 06:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think that somebody( ur bf ) can tell it to them ever in the future than its better that u tell them before some outsider will say. it will hurt them less. and if there are no chances for anyone else to tell it to them or there is not any other possibility by which they will come to know about it..just leave it no need of telling it to them but u should take care of it and try it not to happen again as u r just 18!!! and may be u will feel it idiotic but according to our Indian culture its a sin. ur husband will marry u without knowing about anything and will trust u and u r breaking it from now onwards only. just put ur self at ur parents place and think how will they feel if they will come to know about all that .... and the main thing....."Are u aware of SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES (STD)???" please try to avoid it ..... for a better and healthy, happy life.....
2007-02-17 05:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ishq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, discretion is the better part of valor..you just tell them you want them to invite you to their wedding when they decide to get married..you could be a maid of honor and wear white...your parents will make you just like the daughter they always dreamed about only this time it would be legit...and invite all your other siblings as they would be in the same boat..but keep your love life on the QT..why spoil the illusion they half in you?
2007-02-17 05:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a good place you could stay at before you tell your parents that you are non vergin a most likely every thing will turn out fin!
2007-02-17 08:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they are serious about kicking you out, don't say anything unless you have somewhere to go,and the miscarriage sorry to hear, but should keep that on the hush too. or you could try to talk to them on a responsible level. and hopefully they understand
2007-02-17 05:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let's put it this way... What they don't know won't hurt them.
But I think they have to know what really happened after all they are your parents & they will always be the same people who's going to help you ifever something bad will happen. Tim e will tell. (- -,)
2007-02-17 05:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should tell them...unless you have a reason to tell them. Some things just shouldn't be told..
2007-02-17 08:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by MB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you feel you are ready to tell them everything. Your parents will never kick you out, its their job to care for you.
2007-02-17 05:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by kittykins 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋