Hello all. I recently turned thirty and have begun to realise what a mess I have made of my life. I spent way too much time working. I have nver had a proper girlfriend. I would love to find someone to share things with, to give myself too but think i have probably missed the boat. Who would want an inexperienced 30 year old. Life is hard.
2007-02-16 21:30:52 · 11 answers · asked by Pa J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awwww----inexperience is not a problem at all---you gotta trust me on this one------you have to be bold get out there and -TALK TO THEM
2007-02-16 21:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you feel so discouraged! Why do you feel as if you've "missed the boat" just cause you're 30? Who put you on a time schedule to begin with? A lotta wonderful stuff happens at 30, even past 30.. CHEER UP! YOU'RE NOT EVEN MIDDLE AGED YET!!! Haven't you heard 30's are the new 20's? It's never too late to find a good companion.. life is not hard, you just need to start living it!
2007-02-16 21:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are thirty doesn't mean your life is over. There still are alot of girls out there who would like to met a thirty year old who is just getting started. I am 36 and just started living my life to the fullest last year. You will make mistakes and learn from them but you have to start somewhere. Believe me I no what it is like to work all the time and be lonely. You have just got to jump out there and stick both feet in first. Take a chance if you don't you will never no. Life is to short for maybe's!
2007-02-16 22:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by LadyBug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow 30 and ready to pack it up already huh, well Howie has the cure for you, Today (if you don't have to work) get up, shave, sh*t , and shower (in that order unless you really have to sh*t bad) get dressed put on some good cologne(just a dab) get out there and meet some women. They are everywhere, its more of them than us, and you should definitely be getting your share.l am definitely getting my share and a few others share too. lots of lonely women out here, believe me you have know idea, lots of unhappy women who are in relationships just to say they have someone too. Just going out tonight to a club if you ask at least 8 women to dance you can at least have 5 of them as prospects and with bi-sexuality being at an all time high with women these days you might be able to take home 2 maybe 3 of them tonight. Just don't get out there and be to clingy, you have to show some confidence, it is still survival of the fittest. Also try big girls, longing for attention because they rarely get any and they are freaks. No one will take care of you better than a big girl.
2007-02-16 21:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you put it that way...NOBODY. Insecurity is just not very attractive to a woman. You sound like Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh..."Doesn't matter anyway..." Who doesn't love a little deep rooted depression, right? You say you've spent too much time working...anything to show for it? Accomplishments and success breed a certain confidence that women find very appealing in older men. Could be something to think about.
2007-02-16 21:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by woobinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you worked so much you should have some money so you should get involved with a hobby or interest that you have and go to events of that particular interest and meet people that have the same interests and you will eventually find the right person.
2007-02-16 21:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by jacksfullhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwww, I met my better half at the ripe old age of 29. Now, 19years and 2 kids later, we're still together. There's plenty of time for you. Get out there and meet some chicks, there's no time like the present.
2007-02-16 21:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry there might b somebody in the world especially for u
when the time comes u;ll surely meet miss perfect but it is not good to just sit back meet girls start dating u might find someone who is especially made for u
2007-02-16 21:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by confused girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and buy a book and learn how to talk to others. You'll find if you character is good someone will want you. Also try.
2007-02-16 21:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by Geo Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can take your change on the internent and try 2 meet someone on a online dating site that lives near you.but there's that little change of the cops, or if you have kids go after their friends mom
2007-02-16 21:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by brentons9mm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋