My Husband will not talk to me, I said that our sex life is old and boring. He said a few words to me at the time and has not said anything to me since.
Was I wrong? How can I talk to him about it?
2007-02-16 21:18:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DUH? you cut him to the quick and you wonder what is wrong with him? that is the worst case scenario and the worst fear any real man could have. me? i have been told that before by an ex wife and i consider it somewhat differently..as both of us were married before she and I should have know better..but people drop their standard and lower their value system the second time around...goes for men and women...duh?
Go to a marriage counselor ..maybe your church has a marriage counseling service..but even if you don/t go to church get an outside referee to intervene and have him hear both of your sides of the problem...it would open up your husband and air your concerns as well..but this is only if you are serious about wanting to have a happy healthy marriage..if not..then nag him until he about it..it won't help but heck you are the one who opened this can of worms in the first place.. he was misguided and he probably thought you enjoyed having sex with him and you loved him too..but i guess you got him wondering if he is a man and if you are the women he thought he married..
2007-02-16 21:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Your Sorry and Try To Figure Out What To Do So Its Not Boring Anymore. Try New Things New Places Try To Add Some Fun To Your Sex Life
2007-02-17 05:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Lin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your sex life is old and boring it's certainly not all his fault. Go buy something sexy, get out the flavored oils and go to town on him, show him that YOU are willing to spice things up and then you can apologize for dumping it in his lap. Hopefully he'll take the initiative and start coming up with some ideas too.
2007-02-17 05:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by marti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darn why do woman say that to a guy if they love them ? You heart his ego now he thinks he stinks in bed and is wondering if he should test it and will try it out on another woman to see if its him or you . I don't know what to tell you . Maybe if you ask him to watch you pleasure yourself or get some x movies and do allot of sucking up you may be able to patch it . Good luck
2007-02-17 05:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got serious problems ...better fix them. The sad part is you r married & that should come very easily{ passion is important ]
2007-02-17 05:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We really need more information to be able to help you------just from the 1st glance of this it appears he may be taking you for granted---------tey to talk to him again------pay good attention to your hygene and the way you dress----look nice and smell clean and then give him the full court press
2007-02-17 05:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to therapy, find out if it's something physical.
Best Wishes
2007-02-17 05:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
divorse him
2007-02-17 05:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by click 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋