Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

We like to go out, or just enjoy each others company, but we are pretty broke right now. We like to do stuff during the daytime on weekends. Usually we just go to church, take our dog for walks, or drive around and tour open houses (dreaming big for our future). We enjoy all types of activities and are open to any suggestions. We're getting bored.

2007-02-15 12:33:07 · 13 answers · asked by Lojo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The thought of meeting someone and going out on a date makes me feel a little uneasy. I guess its due to trust issues. I feel like I'm wasting my time when I date because I'll be thinking to myself...ok when will I see his true colors. My friend's fiance is trying to hook me up with his co-worker. I talked to him today on the phone but I'm thinking...how many other women are you talking to too. Am I going to be added to you harem of women? He seemed to be nice but I was like -- thats probably short lived. I guess it really doesnt matter at this point because we haven't went out on a date yet but even before I officially dated someone., I get a call from a girlfriend...so I'm at the point now that I'm like whatever. Although I'm 30 with no kids, never married, I do want to be married and have a family someday but I don't want to go through the unecessary drama of dating --- kissing frogs thinking that they will turn into princess but they don't.

2007-02-15 12:32:42 · 4 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend say i have pride cause i won't get on welfare as a single person he gets it cause he has a low paying job. We had a fight and he went to jail we reconcil. He got mad cause I did not go into a shelter he felt I had to much pride by not doing so.

while he was in jail I stayed in a hostel & I am still until an apartment comes thru. He has a problem with me spending money & say I'm living above my means & I should stay in a shelter until I get on my feet & save money. But when we were together he ue to say I would end up in a shelter. Cause of that I never went into one.

I work doing audience work which you clap your hands at tv shows I made one week $700 while he was in jail and he makes that in a month? Is he jealsous of me?

The work is about 3 times a week. i feel like he wants to feel good about him still living in his place & me living in a shelter. Like he wants me to feel or think I'm inferior.

I can work & don't want welfare. Why is he playing mind games?

2007-02-15 12:32:29 · 2 answers · asked by bbmodels2003 1 in Family

2007-02-15 12:32:27 · 4 answers · asked by nessa071885 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am talking cadburys creme eggs ......................of course...;0)

2007-02-15 12:31:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf and i have been together nearly 3 years having met at university. Last September she got an offer to study at a university in Chicago, starting in January - an offer she couldn't refuse. I was and still am delighted for her. I am now visiting her for the first time in the USA. Both of us were so looking forward to it, but after my first day here she has become more and more distant from me. She says it is because she has had to develop a thick skin as a survival mechanism. I am trying so hard to just be there for her, but I'm scared of pushing her away at the same time. We have talked about it and try to understand each other's feelings but it doesn't seem to be doing much to alleviate my anxiety. I live in the UK and couldn't move for work and financial reasons. We speak and e-mail nearly every day via the net. I love her to bits, but I don't know how to be around her anymore. We're still committed to each other,but it is so hard. Does anyone have any tips for surviving LDR's?

2007-02-15 12:31:53 · 2 answers · asked by arthur 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you out there ?

2007-02-15 12:31:47 · 7 answers · asked by Salman Hashmi 3 in Friends

I really like this guy, and I think he likes me but I don't know. He looks at me a lot. For Valentine's Day I gave him a big Hershey's kiss, he said thanx like it was no big deal. When I gave a Hershey's kiss to my friend John, John gave me a hug, and the guy I like and think he likes me got a strange look on his face that I have never see before. My friends says that he shows off a lot, but I don't really see it as showing off. When I am hyper, he threatened me with a fork one time, but he want serious. One time someone said something funny, and I saw him looking at me like he was trying to see if I was laughing or something. Does it seem like he likes me.

Could U tell me a few things to look for to see if he does like me (he is really shy) I need to know what I should look for to tell if he likes me.

2007-02-15 12:31:24 · 10 answers · asked by Andrea luvs u...maybe...lol 3 in Singles & Dating

Here's the story.

Me and my ex-boyfriend Adrian "friends with benefits". We've been friends for about 3 years. We were just friends for about 5 months. Then we started dating. That lasted for a month. Then we were just friends again for a while. About a year later, we started dating again. It lasted 3 months this time. We broke up again. Now, we're "friends with benefits". We hung out tonight and the obvious happend... we had sex. But, it seemed exactly the same as it was when we were dating. We cuddled, we kissed (and not just making out, just cute little kisses), we held hands. And he was the one that started doing all of that first. It just seems like he still wants to be more than friends... but I'm confused about it all, since he was the one that broke off the past relationships before.

What do you guys think... Does it seem like he still likes me as a girlfriend or does he just want to be f.w.b?

2007-02-15 12:31:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this girl who i like and love and she feels the same for me what is a good love poem to exchange.

2007-02-15 12:30:40 · 3 answers · asked by musiclover1990 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like my friend, she's fun and I'm always happy when I'm around her even when I'm down. I really want it to be more but I'm scared I'll lose her forever. I know she has fun when we're together but I don't want to say anything. I've been giving hints but nothin's comin out of it. What should I do? I can't stop thinking about her.

2007-02-15 12:30:17 · 22 answers · asked by holden68prem 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so i have never actually done the whole just go out on dates thing and have no official names for eachother (boyfriend and girlfriend). I have always been in relationships...where I was committed and could say "this is my boyfriend..."

well i just started dating this guy and we have been dating for about a month. we have so much fun together and we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend.. we are just dating. it seems really weird for me because like i said, i haven't actually just dated someone. he always tells me how much he lieks me and he asked me to go to his prom with him. he tells me he is crazy about me etc. but its really weird because i dont know really how to just be crazy about someone without being their girlfriend. has anyone ever like gotten married out of just dating someone and not having the official "boyfriend/girlfriend" status? Or are me and him just dating becuase he doesn't want a gf or something? Are people supposed to JUST date and not be boyfriend/girlfriend?

2007-02-15 12:30:04 · 5 answers · asked by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 12:30:03 · 10 answers · asked by Wally Walker 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend just moved away...
i still like him.....
but im not sure if it will work out...
hes not that far away....
only about 30 or 40 minutes...
but he dont go to my school anymore...
an thats when i usually saw him.......
Should we break up or try to work things out???


Please HELP!!

2007-02-15 12:29:58 · 4 answers · asked by THAT GIRL 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been taking care of my mom since 1993 and she is constantly lashing out at me. She has has 1 bad stroke & 5 heart attacks. She just gets nastier & nastier and I am tired of it. My sister was supposred to step in and help but is busy being shacked up with her boyfriend and we have her kids. Not sure I want her to have mom. What can I do? Ususally it is ok but there are times when it's so bad, I just want her gone. I don't really, but I am at my wits end. Please only kind suggestions, been sick for 6 months so everything is hitting me wrong.

2007-02-15 12:29:40 · 1 answers · asked by Julia B 6 in Family

2007-02-15 12:29:05 · 10 answers · asked by peachyfuzz 2 in Singles & Dating

And he still hasn't kissed me. I like a man who can make the first move and such. He's made the first move on almost everything else except, well, you know, because we're definately not ready for that yet. We've also gotten REALLY close to it before, but no. Nothing. What should I do? I'm so confused...

2007-02-15 12:28:48 · 11 answers · asked by Kirou 1 in Singles & Dating

You see I told him not to be shy, he says he's not. But he never talks to me. He only sends me e-mails, but how do I even know it's him! It could be his mom or brother. Please answer.

2007-02-15 12:28:46 · 13 answers · asked by swimminshark02 2 in Singles & Dating

He took money my insurance company had given me(500$) when i had totaled my car, the insurance company gave me this money beacause i payed to much for my car, now i come to find out that my dad had used this 500$ for his own personal use. The check was in my name, but it had "held it" to "keep it safe." I am 17 and still trying to get another car but it is hard when you cant get someone to sign or co-sign with you, although i do have a job, that $500 plus my tax money was going to be a 1000$ down payment on a new car.

2007-02-15 12:28:41 · 10 answers · asked by dickslap_judy 1 in Family

2007-02-15 12:28:36 · 10 answers · asked by rumanahaqueurmi 1 in Friends

Has anyone ever felt this way

2007-02-15 12:28:32 · 6 answers · asked by The Interviewer 1 in Friends

if a girl asks a guy out...does that make them desprate???

2007-02-15 12:27:58 · 41 answers · asked by Taylor 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a chick that likes me and there is other chick i like.I am a senior in high school.So i dont feel like asking 1 out.Just 3 more months left.If you were a sophmore or junior whcih chick will you chose.

2007-02-15 12:27:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i am 13 years old a teen i know but anyway i asked a guy out and he hasnt answered yet it has been a week and we have not talked but we have shared many awkward stares like there is somthing he wants to say but idk if it is bad or good we use to be really good friends but now we barely tlk also should i confront him about not answering

2007-02-15 12:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by ckr 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy I work with, he and I had an affair about 6 months ago. I called it off and started working somewhere else about 2 months after ending it due to being transferred by my company. I've thought of him every minute of every day since but kept it secret and ignored his calls. In fact, I hung up on him 3 times that he called just trying to call it quits since we are both married. I'm very unhappily married to a man who has gotten incredibly FAT and doesn't care to go to a doctor or do ANYTHING about his weight. He hasn't always been this grossly obese. I'm not fat at all.. in fact, pretty good figured if I do say so myself. The guy I had the affair with is thin lean, looks like Tim McGraw and is so sweet. He's about 10 years older than me, and he is not happily married either. I now have been transferred back to the facility that he works at. It was so hard to not smile and just walk by the first time I saw him and just say hello how are you. He called the very next day.

2007-02-15 12:27:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I tryed shaving,putting my hair up,getting competitive,putting on lipgloss & make-up.All for a boy.Am I trying too hard?

2007-02-15 12:27:36 · 3 answers · asked by Bagon luva 1 in Singles & Dating

yesterday he didnt talk to me, and it was valentines day. i told him that he hurt me and i wanted to break up but then he told me that he really loved me and didnt want me to leave him. according to him, he slept all day because he worked all night. i want to be with him but what if he just keeps hurting me? he tells me he loves me all the time but im having serious problems trusting him. i want to work it out and i want to trust him. we've only been dating for 2 weeks. will it be worth it if i try working it out with him?

2007-02-15 12:26:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in college for like 4 years now and I am really burnt out.

2007-02-15 12:26:04 · 5 answers · asked by The Interviewer 1 in Friends

theres this guy. and well, things didnt work out between us. but every time i try too get over him i look in his eyes and think there could have been something there for me. it hurts when we look at eachother. give me some ways to get over him. ive tried liking some one else, avoiding him, and even pretending to dislike him a lot. How do i get him out of my mind?

2007-02-15 12:25:15 · 7 answers · asked by Trouble 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay i am 24 yrs old and have been married year and half.Before my husband i had severe relationship phobia. I have intimacy issues and emotional that i cant seem to fix them or control? I dont know how to or relate or understand my husband on many occasions.Sometimes i emotionally shut down or completley emotionally withdraw.For 5 yrs before i met my husband i dumped every bf before i became emotionally attached.I thought that by getting married these issues would go away?I am also afraid that he will think i am crazy and it will cause more fights between us.

2007-02-15 12:25:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce