The thought of meeting someone and going out on a date makes me feel a little uneasy. I guess its due to trust issues. I feel like I'm wasting my time when I date because I'll be thinking to myself...ok when will I see his true colors. My friend's fiance is trying to hook me up with his co-worker. I talked to him today on the phone but I'm thinking...how many other women are you talking to too. Am I going to be added to you harem of women? He seemed to be nice but I was like -- thats probably short lived. I guess it really doesnt matter at this point because we haven't went out on a date yet but even before I officially dated someone., I get a call from a girlfriend...so I'm at the point now that I'm like whatever. Although I'm 30 with no kids, never married, I do want to be married and have a family someday but I don't want to go through the unecessary drama of dating --- kissing frogs thinking that they will turn into princess but they don't.
2007-02-15 12:32:42 · 4 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
- I don't believe in dating multiple people at one time. I tried it before but its not for me.
- When I think about it, I have trust issues with everyone but moreso with men.
- It funny thought because he has seen me before but I don't remember him at all. -- As for the depression, I do suffer with it but it stems from other medical complications. -- I do believe in self -fulfilling prophecies. Thats why I'm scared.
2007-02-15 12:33:35 · update #1
trust is a very important issue in a relationship since you have an issue with trust perhaps it is best to start off with something small and slowly work your way towards giving out more trust.
go out with someone and only give out a small amount of trust to the person whom you are on a date with or with someone you have started to date.
do not let desperation cloud your judgment with trust.
Hopefully my comment is clear, because I too have slightly same situation though for me it is more of a problem of not having experience in the area of dating let alone being in a relationship.
but best of luck to you
2007-02-15 12:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go on a date just to have fun and be social. It doesn't mean you have to plan a wedding or commit but get to know a person first then deicdeif that person is worthy of your trust. Good luck.
2007-02-15 20:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really cause I want to find someone to be with me other than friends and family someone really close.
If you know the person very well than maybe you won't feel uncomfortable..
2007-02-15 20:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy's Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should date if ur ready
2007-02-15 20:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋