You see I told him not to be shy, he says he's not. But he never talks to me. He only sends me e-mails, but how do I even know it's him! It could be his mom or brother. Please answer.
2007-02-15 12:28:46 · 13 answers · asked by swimminshark02 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really like him, and I don't wanna break up with him. But I need some advice on how to get him to talk to me. He ahs called me before, but , unfortunently, I wasn't home.
2007-02-15 12:35:28 · update #1
See, I'm kinda shy too. But it's better, I think, if the boy speaks first.
2007-02-15 12:40:53 · update #2
he is really nice and cute and i don't want to break up with him. i just want him to talk to me. also he said he doesn't know where or when to talk to me. what should i tell him?
2007-02-15 12:53:56 · update #3
if your both shy it can be tricky, sweet tho! if you say you can talk to me that'll prob make things worse, he'll do the opposite if he's shy, you need to break the ice by doing something together were you'll have a laugh, bowling or something like that, dont be too full on.. or try having a conversation about something he likes so he's comfortable then build from there... good luck! ; )
laughter is the best solution! =D
Hey dont wait around too long tho!
2007-02-15 21:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Toby G* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. I can tell that you don't want to, but if you've already told him what seems like several times to not be shy, and he won't listen to you, then i believe he's not for you. Get a guy that would talk to you, it should be a healthier relationship.
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Ok i saw ur update on ur question, you really want him to talk to you. Strip for him, he'll talk. But really, u need to break up. Don't be scared.
2007-02-15 12:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Produh G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure his parents are so consumed with you that they're e-mailing you. Also, what's wrong with being shy. everyone is different. You sound young. If your younger than 16 you shouldn't be in a relationship.
2007-02-15 12:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it he is your boyfriend if he wont talk to you, sounds like a fellow i would not want in my life, look sweetie ,,if its not open honest and trustworthy, its nothing, find something better, worth your time, mind games no one needs,,,
2007-02-15 12:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He never talks to you? And you want to not break up with him so that he can continue not talking to you? You're going no where fast.
Lordy!
2007-02-15 12:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by I am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys are shy about things like that. Try to be patient.
2007-02-15 12:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he won't talk then you just keep talking and maybe soon he will learn to join in. Try to pick subjects that he is good in.
2007-02-15 12:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well talk to him more call him first then he wont be shy the more you talk to him.
2007-02-15 12:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by *Madison 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him
2007-02-15 12:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
break up with him. he's not worth for you to love
2007-02-15 12:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by Edmond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋