I am married for 2 yrs. mine was an arranged marriage, for those from india its not a big surprise but for the rest its a culture schok.i understand. but thats what happened in my case, we got wed by the wishes and blessings of our parents.but i dont know i am not really happy with it coz since we have married it always one sided. i am very excited abt everything birthdays,anniversary,valentines day all this means a lot. i love surprises,gifts,waiting for eachother,wanting to be with eachother.unfortunately my husband does not seem to understand it. for him birthday or valentines day means just another day. from the we have married he has never gifted me anything without me asking for it. i have tried giving him gifts,good special dinner for him, giving him small surprises, he takes them well but does not do anything in return. it kind of upsets me.even if i give him card or presents, he reads them n gives them for me to keep. i dont know how thins would work.plz help
2007-02-15
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