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Whats a good way to get to talkin' with a woman you like without sounding like some cheesy nerd? Or being like every other guy? If you have specific examples (guys or girls) I'd appreciate hearing them.

2007-02-15 11:58:17 · 9 answers · asked by Rdude 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

I'm a girl... figured I'd get that out first.

Uh... really, just talking, and not stuttering does the trick. And smiling a lot. Smiles feel... well, they make a girl flip on the inside, and feel warm and fuzzy. Talking about a girl's interest works the best, along with miles of smiles.

2007-02-15 12:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Hoofle 2 · 0 0

The best approach is to ask questions about herself and remember her responses! Don't do the lame pretending to listen and forget what she just said! Find out her hobbies, likes, and about her family. Talk about things that you have in common and don't forget to smile and act interested! Be sincere and take things slow. If you are shy..try using email to get to know someone. That way you can think about things and have a chance to put your thoughts on screen. However, I prefer in person or talking on the phone...make sure you make her laugh and show her a good time. A lot of it has to do with chemistry. Good luck!

2007-02-15 20:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0 0

just talk to her about every day Sh_t there is no special formula. Just know a woman know with in 5 min what kind of relationship she want with you. I usually get them to talk about them self, you wouldn't believe how far that will get you if you can relate to what they are telling you. this method been working for centuries

2007-02-15 20:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0 0

Find common ground, like a class or something. Just keep talking to her about random common things, then you just start talking to her about anything at all.

2007-02-15 20:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Spearfish 5 · 0 0

Just be yourself...don't try to look or act or talk like anyone else. Just do what feels natural. When you try to do something that is not truly you...you look phony and women don't care for fake men.

2007-02-15 20:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

start talking about music or movies she likes, that ALWAYS works.

ex. Hey (blank) did you ever see the movie... ...it was so funny you should see it!

by the way sometimes girls like it when your cheezy then they know you like them, and they know your trying REALLY hard to flirt with them. Believe me I know I am a girl.
Good luck!
xoxo

2007-02-15 20:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by <JM> 2 · 0 0

Just talk to them

2007-02-15 20:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0 0

be a friend first... talk to her just like you would any girl that is a friend.. dont come on strong...

2007-02-15 20:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ask about her, listen, and your conversation will flow naturally

2007-02-15 20:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by steph k 2 · 0 0

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