There's this guy right and he keeps getting together with girls and then when he finds "someone better" he brakes her heart and goes out with the new girl. The thing is no body gets that he will eventually break up with them. I was one of those girls. Oh sure he makes you feel special and like your gonna get married but then when you least expect it he breaks your heart into a thousand pieces. Its a good thing I found a real good guy or else I would be depressed out of my mind right now!
2007-02-15 12:01:33 · 26 answers · asked by Horse_lover5:-) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does he actively mislead you about the future of the relationship? Or were you being hopeful?
If he is lying to you, then he's a jerk...otherwise you just need to learn to invest less in relationships that haven't proven themselves.
I wouldnt advise revenge, it will just make you look catty. Hold your head high, take the time to get over him, and move on.
2007-02-15 12:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by polk2525 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has been the victime of that sort of ******. I don't know if this will help but my ex BF was a real jerk and wanted to be some sort of player (in his stupid dreams) So I pretended to be into him again and put a piece of candy in my mouth and told him he had until the candy was gone to do what he wanted. I let him undress me and thats as far as I let him go. Everytime he wanted to kiss I turned away. Every time he tried to feel I slapped his hand. ALl he got was the worst case of blue balls in history!!! I laughed whne the candy was gone got dressed and left him hurting. (his balls and his pride)
2007-02-15 20:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Crash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find other girls that have been dumped and go to where he hangs out at, then when his date goes to the bathroom follow but don't say anything directly to her. Talk about him with the other girls while she is the fly on the wall. She might not leave him that night but she'll have the ideas planted into her head to start asking questions.
2007-02-15 20:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by Karen H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what I did: this guy kept trying to take me out even after going with lots of other girls behind my back, including my dormmate. He lied about it alot, even though he made it obvious that no one girl was good enough. so, after much plotting, I let him come over. We talked, and sure enough, he made more lame excuses about why he had to leave after a girl called. I told him I had to go outside for a second, and didn't want to leave my house empty. So while he stayed inside, I got into his car and cut along the seams of the top of his car seats, and put some of my puppy's poop under the top where I had seperated it, then closed them back up. Later, my dormmate called saying that she had gone out with her date and came back smelling like dog crap. He spent quite a bit of money trying to clean that smell out of his car, but he never figured out that it was coming from the seats.
2007-02-15 20:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by hell hath no fury 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You be the bigger person and forget about him and what he did to you. It works surprisingly better than anything horrible concoction/scheme of revenge that you can come up with trust me. It makes people feel guilty, even if you think he's someone who there is no way would feel guilty, people do, it is something everyone does, even murderers.
2007-02-15 20:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Talk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need go to that person when he is with other girl you go direct and then say why you are with her and why you play with the woman dint you love me or what is come on only can tell like that and the same time you need to know what are the girls he is playing and then you make the plan to know his real mask and the same time he will understand your lesson with the feelings you cannot play and you don't need to worry all will be fine and the same time you know is he your correct dession
2007-02-15 20:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by ERIK H DUNCAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Sooner or later, he's gonna get his a** kicked by a thousand girls. Join in the fun.
2007-02-15 20:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by try_and_get_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him/her what u think about him/her, but not rudely, and ask him/her to stop what their doing and if that doesnt work try to get him in trouble that might teach him a thing or two also u can try to be his/her friend u never know what going on in his/her life like abusive parents or a death in hisor her family so a friend might help them out
2007-02-15 20:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by jim s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not be depressed but your defenetly not over him or else you wouldnt care what he was doing. Have your new boyfriend beat him up or better yet have your boyfriend sleep with his current girlfriend. That will teach him. J/k
2007-02-15 20:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by jr321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have moved on let it go eventually it will come back on him what goes around comes around Take care
2007-02-15 20:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋