Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

My boyfriend is real good to me and my kids but we still have our problems like all couples. He gets upset sometimes because the house is a little messy or the laundry isn't done. He doesn't yell or anything he just nags about it. I work and go to school during the day and will admit that I have trouble managing my time. How can I manage my time better or talk him into helping me more?

2007-02-14 06:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My young friend in grade seven, is giving her boyfriend a bunch of expensive stuff, and he is giving her jewlery but expensive stuff! Is that too much and why do they have to go out at such a young age.?

2007-02-14 06:18:28 · 3 answers · asked by coolblues 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 06:18:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Theres this guy I really like. And this guy is always flirting with me like he holds me hand, tells me I'm pretty, and hugs me. So is this guy just flirly or does he like me back? And if he does like me back should I go along with the holding of hands and stuff? Or should I start flirting like he does with me? Thanks for the help!!

2007-02-14 06:17:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 06:16:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am turning 31 this month.... I have been married for 10 years, and have 9 year old twins. I just starting going back to college to earn a degree, and am in my second semester. I just found out that I am pregnant, and everyone acts as though I am making a huge mistake....I don't understand...

2007-02-14 06:15:55 · 43 answers · asked by erin_foss8191@sbcglobal.net 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 06:15:36 · 10 answers · asked by Coco Bunny 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a colleague who is sending me mixed signals. We do not see often .
I am having trouble understanding what the person thinks.That person's birthday is coming this week . I am wondering should I even bother to wish the person..leave alone sending cards and giving presents. I am not attracted to the person but would like to be friends . I just want to understand where do our relationship stand?
Any suggestions are welcome.

2007-02-14 06:14:55 · 7 answers · asked by oh my! 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a guy likes a girl with a "tight" body?
Simple answers please =)

2007-02-14 06:14:54 · 19 answers · asked by S. 4 in Singles & Dating

Someone I know has been fraudulently claiming child benefit and tax credits as a single person for the past ten years ( I have only just found out). The children are nearly grown up now, so benefits will only be payable for the next couple of years. I don't know if I can shoulder the guilt of reporting this situation to the benefit fraud people. I know it's the right thing to do but I can't help feeling guilty if I were to tell. Any advice ?

2007-02-14 06:13:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am planning a wedding where I do not want tons of children. Is it OK to limit the children invited to first cousins only? I am close with my first cousins but, do not want to extend invites to the children of everyone I know.

2007-02-14 06:12:22 · 13 answers · asked by emce 3 in Weddings

Were i will get job

2007-02-14 06:12:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex and i broke up about 2 weeks ago..he has OCD, ADHD, and is a compulsive liar..he was in great depression for about 1 and 1/2 years and our relationship was for 2 years.recently to our romantic relationship we were good friends so i always saw it necissary to stick by his side and be there4him.anyways about a month ago he started taking antidepressants&i supported his decision..however his personality did a 180(many people think hes bipolar&his meds made him manic)&he broke up w.me impulsively about 2 weeks ago..he did it with no remorse&now hes going around having sex w. random girls(even tho he and i never had sex)&he's taking a different girl out2dinner valentines day..however, yesterday he signed on IM&clicked on my webshots link in my info twice within5mins. of signing on.i realize he has some problems that i shouldnt have2deal with but i still care about him so much..has he moved on, or do you think he's just trying2be strong and make me think he's happier than he really is

2007-02-14 06:11:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my name is casey i am 11 years old and i need help with my 2 best friends well my friend amanda and bailey never really hung out togeather but they were friends sort of and yesterday i put them on three way and now they are hanging out togather and and are not really hanging out with me but they keep calling me and it got me in trouble but when i was eating i told them that i would call them back when they called me back i told them to not call i would call them back and they called back and they were being mean so i hung up on them so now there mad at me but yesturday i keep getting prank calls and it wasnt showing on my caller id but they would onley call when i was on the phone with her and i didnt think that they were doing it but they called today and whoever was calling me called again today and it said it was my friends so when they called thats when i said not to call me now there mad at me and i dont no what to do please someone HELP ME!!!!!

2007-02-14 06:11:20 · 7 answers · asked by casey s 1 in Friends

I went for coffee with him once for about an hour and there really was no real attraction for me. He is an incerdably nice guy and I am sure he has the best of intentions. We have talked off and on for a few months. Am I just leading him on knowing that I didnt feel any initial spark? Should I at least give him achance and see where this goes because he is so interested in me and has been so persistant? Or should I just let him down in a nice way and end it?

2007-02-14 06:11:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 06:11:03 · 13 answers · asked by Zack & Daela 4-Eva 1 in Singles & Dating

when i was 13 i met this boy niek and he was my first love. when i moved to the bay area i was 14 and fourced to leave him and we ended up losing contact. my feelings for him never went away. finally when i was 16 we got back in touch and for both of us all the feelings just came rushing back. he has had a bad child hood with a bad drugie mom and no person who has ever shown him real love. he cant believe that i still love him and want to be with him still. he has done things like drugs and drinking a hole lot these last few years. he is in juvi right now and claims he wants to come to the bay to be with me when he gets out so that he can change his life around. but in november i met this guy brian he has great plans. he is amazing and so sweet and treats me like no guy ever has. hes in college somethin most guys ive been interested in the past wld never do. im falling 4 him but i lov niek n dnt want 2 let him down like everyone but i dont want to be hurt what do u think i shld do?

2007-02-14 06:10:58 · 8 answers · asked by incubusgirl09 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 06:10:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It has to be a family member.. no best friend or friends or anything along that line..

2007-02-14 06:10:32 · 8 answers · asked by Breaker 3 in Family

DId you buy him anything? If so, what?

ps Keep it clean!!

2007-02-14 06:09:59 · 6 answers · asked by Chimera's Song 6 in Singles & Dating

Other woman in my area most of whom are married dont like me?I am 24 yrs old am a divorced woman and a single mom to my 3 yr old daughter.I graduated from college and have a job but currently moved back in with my parents(for my daughter ) and so i could save money to live in a nice area with a good school system since NJ is expensive tax wise.I get dirty looks from other moms when i drop of my daughter at pre-school in the morning and a lot of rude comments about everything including the way i dress? I do however get along with some of their husbands. I ran into three of their husbands at work while in the gym since they work for the same company as i do only higher up.The coversations are fairly light just friendly talk there are not many women in department.So why am i getting harassed for it by their wives?

2007-02-14 06:09:56 · 9 answers · asked by Mercedes C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked this question a couple of months ago but I had to erase it because my brother seen what I was doing. One day he walked in the house real late and didn't say a word. Then his girlfriend the next day turned up missing. I've asked him if he knew anything because he's the last person that was with her but he said he doesn't know anything. She still hasn't turned up and it's been three months. Everybody is looking for answers. He's been acting weird and doesn't let anybody go in his room. Should I trust my brother and leave the investigation to the police or should I snoop around in his room? I know this sounds weird but what would you do in this situation?

2007-02-14 06:09:08 · 5 answers · asked by nichelle b 2 in Family

Why don't you show the people you love that you love them every day? Is the only way we know how to show love by giving gifts nowadays...ONCE a year?

Apart from the people who are still dating or people in the honeymoon period, who makes big guestures to show their love frequently...other than buying gifts?

Was it always like this or has it become like this over the years?

Why do you think this is though?

Or, do you disagree, if so why?

2007-02-14 06:08:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well basically i made a question the other day about what i should do about the girl i like, well ive tried to progress but when ever i say does she want to meet up she keeps throwing in the "whos comin along"? and i think thats a sign i should give up... it must mean she's not interested right?
I mean today we were discussin how valentines is pointless, although she wished me a happy valentines day etc, we didnt buy each other presents or cards so that i also presume is a bad sign lol :( I presume i should give up right? I also asked her why she was avoidin me it seemed, and it only seemed she wanted to talk when she needed help with something, she replied with i was the only guy who could do it for her which again i was told is a bad thing. so please advise sorry for similar thread again :S but reaaaaly confused and need your help :(

2007-02-14 06:07:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 06:07:01 · 16 answers · asked by susan 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in 1 State he lives in another,he doesnt visit or come home we talk on the phone a little I work 53 miles from my home2 support our 2 children and myself,I feel my marriage slipping away I often wonder about moving the children and myself where he is.

2007-02-14 06:06:32 · 10 answers · asked by Barbara B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 06:05:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-14 06:05:09 · 37 answers · asked by cldb730 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 15 and I have a girlfriend, and she is my first girlfriend and my mom is going to Wal-Mart later, so I'm going to go so then I can get a gift for my girlfriend for Valentine's Day (with my money), but what am I supposed to tell my mom? I feel sort of embarassed to tell my parents that I have a girlfriend. Should I tell them, or not?

2007-02-14 06:04:51 · 25 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Family

2007-02-14 06:03:45 · 15 answers · asked by coco1 1 in Marriage & Divorce