Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

2007-02-14 05:51:54 · 12 answers · asked by bhuvnesh g 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so my ex broek up wiht me 2 1/2 weeks ago.
we dated for over 2 years
we decided to tke a break to focus on school (he has very hard classes, highest level of math and physics classes and works about 45 hours a week at a stressful job)
do i agred tot he break. he also said he felt liek he HAD to love me and HAD to be with me. but he says he does love me.
For the first few days after the break up it was "maybe we'll get back together" "its over for now" or i was being a biit harsh tellign him how i ddint want to be his friend and he said"well its not liek i would want to get back with you now cause of how you're acting"
-a few days go by... i saw him and his eyes told me he loved me when i gave him one last goodbye hug while i was crying. he didnt push me away. he said he had to go to work and that he was sorry as he was walking away i told him i loved him and he just put his head down and walked away looking sad.. the next day i emailed him. he emailed me back saying we'd never

2007-02-14 05:51:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

(she wants you to)and tickle her, how would you do it, what would you use and how would you use it?

2007-02-14 05:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Singles & Dating

1) 6 ft tall, 135 pounds

2) Ambitious , likely to succeed.

3) 55 years old, filthy rich

4) 24 years old, owns a ferrari

5) biceps measure 12 inches, can bench 95

6) has surfed 40 foot waves

7)writes you poems every day

8)is 6foot2 tall, but wears a size 9 shoe

2007-02-14 05:50:59 · 6 answers · asked by msupmod 1 in Singles & Dating

....that if he treats his wife like a thoroughbred he will never end up with an old nag? Anyone?

2007-02-14 05:50:53 · 5 answers · asked by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. We are both in school, I am about to graduate and he still has a few more years. We have talked about marriage quite a bit and he has told me that he wants to get married but he just can't afford a ring right now. I say that is fine, that until he can save up I will wait. However, he will spend money on himself with no problem. He has expensive hobbies and lately he has been rebuilding his bicycle and it is a little costly. I think it is sending a mixed signal when he tells me he has no money, yet spends hundreds of dollars on his toys. Should I be upset, or am I being too demanding?

2007-02-14 05:50:36 · 22 answers · asked by tricithedici05 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 05:50:19 · 15 answers · asked by raphael t 1 in Friends

I have 2 SILaws that talk badly about each other even when they are not mad at each other! One SIL seems to like me more than the other "M" since she sometimes takes the time to call and hang out with me .
I have asked M why doesn't "H" call me or show up to my gatherings which has hurts my feelings. She says it is bcuz "H" is so jealous of me and does not like me very much.
I thought that was kinda hurtful to say, but I thought I believed her since her sister does make strange comments about my clothes, but then goes out and buys something very similar! I have never disrespected H and always made sure I showed up to her gatherings. After 1 year of this triangle between two sisters and me feeling hurt about "H", I finally asked her why didn't she like me. She said she never said she didn't like me, she just gets annoyed w/ all my Name Brand stuff (she always asked where I get my clothes) and I never bragged to her. Now M hates me for telling her! Pls help me fix this!

2007-02-14 05:49:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I broke up with my girlfriend about two months ago... I told her during the breakup that I was pretty sure we would get back together. She cried uncontrolably and took it really hard. I was sure that we would get back together and our relationship would be stronger. Something went wrong, she started going out with one of her friends. I miss her so much... I just want to be with her, if we never even had sex again... just to be with her would make me happy. Thats how much I love this girl. We went out for a little over a year. I missed her so bad... over the last two days I've been telling her how much I miss and love her, asked her to break up with him and go back out with me.. she said this exactly... Josh I... I can't. You know that. Im with CJ now. I keep reminding her how much stuff I did for her, how happy we were. She also said she cant say we will get back together but she cant say we wont... how could I get her back? What are my chances?

2007-02-14 05:48:49 · 22 answers · asked by blitzer185 1 in Singles & Dating

sorry just wanted to say happy valentines day

2007-02-14 05:48:48 · 9 answers · asked by Brittany B 1 in Singles & Dating

I just tired dating with someone with wrong men, especially drama and cheater. What should I do then? Every single man, he just take me to their apartment and do nothing with waste of time. Do you think is wrong idea?, when a person feel alone, he just want you to sleep over over the weekend. When I'm coming home, he call me 3x to spend time more at his apartment. I just tired of being aggressive by a man since now.

2007-02-14 05:48:22 · 13 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

With the increase in DNA testing, a growing number of cases are coming forth where divorced fathers are learning that the children they have been supporting are nto theirs. Despite this, they continue to support the children and demand visitation rights. What is happening now is that mothers are asking to the courts to cut those rights, because the man is not the father, but still require child support, as the children deserve the support.

Colorado is attempting to pass a law to correct this, giving men who are support children the right to be a father to the children.

What is your opinion, should a man who is not the biological father of children, born during a marriage be allowed to see them, or should this be considered similar to a stranger danger case?

2007-02-14 05:47:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and daughters father whom I live with, bought me nothing for valentines day. He still has not called and say happy valentine day or anything else for the matter. I am not big on holiday's but it is the thought that counts. And my feelings are hurt because he is so thoughtless. Is he wrong, should I even be sad/mad?

2007-02-14 05:47:00 · 23 answers · asked by LESLIE 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm turning fifteen next month and i have no idea what i want to do. I was thinking of having a party w/ my friends from my swim team, but then I didnt know what we could do. I was also thinking of having a party w/ me and my best girl friends.

I also can't think of what i want for my birthday. I don't need anything for my room, i have a cell phone and an ipod.

Any ideass???

2007-02-14 05:46:11 · 4 answers · asked by sarahbabe315 3 in Friends

PLS HOW DO I KNOW THA MY GIRLFRIEND LOVE'S ME? PLS I WANT SOMEBODY TO TELL ME HOW TO TRY MY GIRL AND SEE THAT SHE LOVE'S ME REAL

2007-02-14 05:45:06 · 18 answers · asked by kwamekyereme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have been together for five years. Now let mr tell you what he used to be like. He would always make sure he was in tact with me all of the time when we were together---like touching me in some way when we were near eachother. Would ALWAYS talk cutesy to me ALAWYS. Now he NEVER does, and I am not exaggerating. Even in front of his friends. He would totally ignore everyone around us and not care what anyone thought. Now I feel lik that sometimes I am not even in the room. We don't have GOOD kisses anymore. It's just little pecks and nothing ever more. Is it supposed to be like this?? What can I do to relite the fire???

2007-02-14 05:45:03 · 14 answers · asked by girly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im in love with the father of my unborn son,even though its apparent that he is not interested in being apart of my life anymore,considering that we got into a very nasty argument last week and since then he has changed his number and hasnt called me.im devestated i mean i know that i been really bitchy during my pregnancy and done some crazy stuff,i mean i guess im just hurt.i want him in my life but i honestly believe he is trying to recincile with his ex wife and i want him to love me but instead of trying to be nice and help him love me i keep pushing him away and insulting him and just basically driving him up the wall with my jealousy,i know you cant make someone love you especially if they love someone else but is there someway that i can get over him since its obvious he doesnt want to be with me anymore?and why if i love him i am trying to hurt him?and will he comeback to me if i let him go?im so confused,but at the same time i want him out of my heart forever

2007-02-14 05:44:15 · 11 answers · asked by lovehurts 1 in Singles & Dating

I make eye contacts with them and smile. They expect me to go towards them and talk. But I don't do that. Next thing I know they are mad. When will they understand that I like teasing girls.

2007-02-14 05:43:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i go out tonite and get drunk, look for my valentines lover?

2007-02-14 05:43:24 · 28 answers · asked by mike 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend named Shelby. She kinda has a anger problem I think. She punched me everyday last year at school and touched me on the legs everyday at lunch last year (which was so weird). And at my 11th b-day party she tryed to strangle me or atleast was pretending too. When she isnt mad shes acually fun to be around but when she is mad... What should i do??

2007-02-14 05:42:53 · 5 answers · asked by ♠Manda♠ 1 in Friends

I mean should you really have to keep asking? We are supposed to be partners right? I give freely why shouldn't he? And frankly I feel that half of his is mine, that's the way I conduct my money. Why is he being so selfish? Everytime I ask him for help he gives me the third degree and even then it better be an emergency!
What is the deal with these butt clinching money hugging men?

2007-02-14 05:42:42 · 15 answers · asked by Tiffany W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a senior is spreading rumors that i went out with his dork brother, so he won't be called gay anymore. what do i do?
this senior is my sister's besfriend's boyfriend, so she doesn't want to stand up for me for fear of losong a good friend, so it is up to me but i am at a complete loss. i have no idea what i am goign to do, should i confront him using curse words to get across that i am angry that he is saying these things. i am a freshman btw.

2007-02-14 05:42:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he is one of my best friends and he hasn't asked me out but when i am around him he acts really weird!!!

2007-02-14 05:42:15 · 5 answers · asked by ally 2 in Singles & Dating

Does that mean she is funny?

2007-02-14 05:41:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if she can sleep in your comfortable bed tonight because it's so comfortable and more soft than hers? You guys live in the dormitory and neither of you have roommates.

What would be your reaction and what would you do if you were:
A. Taken(and his gf doesn't know about you and hers' affair together that only happened one time which brought you two closer)
OR
B. not taken

2007-02-14 05:41:47 · 10 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Friends

I'm size 12 right now. Im only 5'3 and have a tiny bone structure so Im losing weight for my health and also to wear clothes I like.
Im shooting for size 4. For most of my life (Im 30) Ive been size 4, but I balloned last year after surgery and intravenous steroids to recover.
Im still have confidence, but guys treat me different.
Im still getting compliments on my face and breasts, but when I fish with guys Im dating they all sheepishly admit to liking slender shapely girls size 2-6 , 110 -130lbs.
Im frustrated because I feel like guys should just like me for me, but thats not the reality.
There is one guy Im crazy about but I know thru the grapevine that although he thinks Im cool and have lovely face/chest that he likes girls who are in great toned thin shape.
Why do guys get so excited about thinner girls ? Is it cultural , media induced ? Or purely carnal ?
Should I wait to date until Im in the best shape possible or keep looking for guys who'll like me as is ? Argh !

2007-02-14 05:41:36 · 30 answers · asked by TigerRose 1 in Singles & Dating

I am kind of disgusted with how we treat our elders in this country. As far as I am concerned the very fact that a person has SURVIVED 65 years in this world is commendable by itself. What is disgusting is the conditions in which we expect our direct founders, (from a personal level inside the family, to a governmental level of overall impact, and then as to their economic impact), live out their days. Now in my personal experience with relatives mixed in with a slight stereotype of the depression generation, most don’t expect huge luxuries, they are content to live modestly even with the means for more, yet there are those that do not even have the basic comforts.

2007-02-14 05:41:32 · 2 answers · asked by dolphinparty13 2 in Family

My friend was asking this kid if he liked me ( idid not know she did that) and he said "a lil yyyyyyyy" does this mean yes "a lil"or no but i am tring to be nice??
please help me!

2007-02-14 05:40:24 · 16 answers · asked by green and blue knight 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend's mom died a few months ago after battling with cancer several times. Her dad left when she was young and no one has seen him since. She does not have any living relatives. She went to go live with a friend and her family. She had to move schools and leave her home and all of her friends. Now she is really depressed and started smoking. I want to make her feel better, but i don't know how. I could not even imagine the pain she is going through. I cannot just say to her everything will be okay...because it is not okay. How do I help my friend?

2007-02-14 05:40:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-14 05:40:17 · 1 answers · asked by ryan 1 in Friends