Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

hasn`t got his parents on ,thankyou

2007-02-14 05:39:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I got married last november, my first mistake was marrying the guy who put me in the hospital and has hit me several times.
i thought he would change. he's been going to anger management.
now he's lying too.
i found porn on his email and asked him to tell me the truth about it. i knew he signed up for it, i'm not stupid. he denied it. i left it at that. last night after catching him in 2 other lies, i asked him to tell me the truth about the porn.
he fessed up and said he had been looking it up while i was at therapy. i feel hurt and betrayed! not to mention when he tells his mom and sister about our problems he makes it seem as if i'm the bad guy. so they totally hate me.
i dont know if i can trust him again.. he hit me last week. but i don't know what to possibly do to muster up the courage to leave him!

2007-02-14 05:39:27 · 4 answers · asked by ghosttigers85 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I find it so extremely weird that none of the relationships ive been in lasted.And that applies to my friends,boyfriends,and to even people ive just met! I don't know..i find myself getting annoyed at people easily.and when someone tries to get close to me,i find that im always trying to get him/her away from me..and i tend to hurt their feelings,unintentionally.But at the end of the day,im the one who ends up with no good friends.How can i change?

2007-02-14 05:39:26 · 14 answers · asked by miss diva 1 in Friends

I have been broken up with my bf for 3 years and we have remained friends. In Nov I went to visit him and he told me he still loved me and cheated with me on his current gf. After that I went to stay with him over xmas and we expressed that we loved eachother, however, we dont live in the same town which made it hard to start anything. I then found out that he slept with his ex. recently and I freaked out and gave him a peice of my mind. I dont know if he plans on trying things with her again or what. Is he worth forgiving for? I dont know why he did this after he told me how important I am to him and how much he loves me.... I'm lost..

2007-02-14 05:39:14 · 4 answers · asked by djembegurl 1 in Singles & Dating

im 16 years old but im not allowed to go out at all. my dad always makes me stay in and work to get good grades when im alreddy achieving good grades. if i do go out i have to be in by 4pm........

I hate it. If im late (say 5pm) i get told off for not being in on time. they only be nice to me whn i get the grades required otherwise im just... well treated like c-r-a-p. all i want to do is have a gud time but im not allowed... all i went out 4 is a swim.... im not thick i know what ive gotta do to achieve my grades but that does not mean i cant have fun as well... they tell me to revise yet they dont tell my brother anything when he makes noise purposefully
when im trying to sleep to absorb this revision ive tried talkin it doesnt help.. its bak to the same old thing next day....

what the h-e-l-l can i do? and im not going to be patient and wait two years till i can move out either....

2007-02-14 05:38:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I used to be a bartender at a friend's bar. The owner, Tommy, and i became really good friends. My husband has also known Tommy since Highschool, but was never very close. Well, during the last year, Tommy started dating a friend of mine, and lets just say that he developed some severe jealousy issues. He began to think that i was trying to sabotage his new relationship by bringing up things from the past. This was totally untrue. To the contrary i WAS ecstatic that he met someone and in no way did anything to hurt their relationship. His paranoia, however, got the best of him, and basically she is FORBIDDEN to see me anymore, he has spread terrible rumors about me and my character, and has banned me from his bar. He is certifieably CRAZY! Anyway, I asked my husband not to go into the bar because of the cruel way I've been treated. Guess where he went last night?? I have never felt so betrayed. Of course he doesn't see the big deal and thinks i'm being dramatic. Maybe i am?

2007-02-14 05:38:16 · 14 answers · asked by mstone375 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im doing a poll for school and need to no

2007-02-14 05:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by rob_m_wildwood 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-14 05:37:47 · 26 answers · asked by jazboz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 05:37:31 · 12 answers · asked by hidawallace 2 in Singles & Dating

that in the end made you just give up on the marriage?

2007-02-14 05:37:18 · 18 answers · asked by 2dog 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is trying to get married in two months. They are worried about rain so are looking for an inside wedding. They are also on a tight budget though and are having around 175 people. Where do we go for a low budget but lots of people in a short amount of time>???? Please-someone help!!!

2007-02-14 05:37:12 · 4 answers · asked by serina 2 in Weddings

like charlie browns v day, things arent going my way. all because i wont express my feelings for a girl and my dissapointment shes got another

2007-02-14 05:37:12 · 5 answers · asked by Scream Your Secrets 3 in Singles & Dating

everytime he picks me up from course.he always smoking in da car 'n i like 2 close my nose(hard 2 breath)..
I read in a science book it's not good 4 people who breath near the smoke.it will influence ur lungs..

2007-02-14 05:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by essaminstein-ER 1 in Family

do you think that women would be attacted to a guy, that posts a video, of himself having a bowel movement on his "myspace" profile? I want to capture live footage of myself Deficating, and allow women to see it.
ladies would you be interested?

2007-02-14 05:36:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 05:36:30 · 10 answers · asked by M-26 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm getting married for the second time and my sis is making me feel gulity for not having her kids as bridesmaid and page boys. i have my daughter as my bridesmaid and she piles on the guilt saying that her daughter has never been a bridesmaid and the boys would like to. we want a small wedding with minium fuss and she knows this. Its getting to the point we seriously thinking of going away on our to do it.

2007-02-14 05:36:21 · 126 answers · asked by womble 5 in Weddings

2007-02-14 05:35:54 · 32 answers · asked by allie 1 in Singles & Dating

and how it is bad to have an abrotion

2007-02-14 05:35:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did my best , i was always there for her.
I helped her many times, when she was alone, when she was in trouble, when she needed anything i was there to help.
I love her endlessly, but she seems to be either missing or ignoring this fact.
Should i give up and move on...or maintain hope???
It's hard to be alone, but it's lethal 2 c her without being able to make her c me as i want.

2007-02-14 05:35:42 · 11 answers · asked by Resonance 3 in Singles & Dating

My question is can you be 100% commited to a person now days? Is monogamy outdated? If so, why don't we value & apriciate who we are with anymore? Or is it that society as a whole has claimed it's independency in every sense, is it that peopel don't need love and commitment anymore to happyly exsist on this planet? Why is it that relationships have lost their value/meaning? I am 25 & I used to have casual encounters while single...since 2003 that has changed, I have turned into a very attractive, young professional, that is 100% commited. I love my Boyfriend with all my heart (1 1/2 years) I have never thought about cheating or tried to talk to anybody else, he on the other hand is very interested in other females & while yes I have thought about females in more then a "friends" type of way I am uncomfortable crossing that line & sharing my Man. He sees nohing wrong with it, claiming taht a3rd party would be there for sex only. I think love should be between 2 only. How do you feel?

2007-02-14 05:35:39 · 9 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Singles & Dating

that they have a selfless love for their spouse?

2007-02-14 05:35:34 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Humble Proclaimer♥ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

why is it when sometimes a guy first meets a girls he asks her out or the other way around? i never understood that cause ive never gone out wit someone i didnt kno as a friend first. girls, why do you say yes to guys u just met when they ask you out? (Im not saying all girls do but for those that do). is this really normal?

2007-02-14 05:34:15 · 13 answers · asked by PAISA 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 05:34:14 · 8 answers · asked by jillscowboys 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-14 05:33:39 · 2 answers · asked by jillscowboys 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-14 05:33:09 · 8 answers · asked by jillscowboys 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

wat to do wen love sick. helpless.hopeless

2007-02-14 05:32:43 · 1 answers · asked by Scream Your Secrets 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 05:32:06 · 3 answers · asked by jillscowboys 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

a girl i know just sent me a text message "happy valentines day kb!" (kb's like a nickname she gave me) i told her about a month ago that i had feelings for her but she gave me the whole 'i dont want to risk our friendship' line. ive gotten over it, but im confused. until today it seems like she was making an effort to not lead me on or anything, but do girls (well not really a girl shes 26) really wish a happy valentines day to 'just friends'? or does it mean she might be interested in being more then friends?? thanks for your answers and a happy valentines day to all!

2007-02-14 05:31:41 · 22 answers · asked by somedude 2 in Singles & Dating

So i have this girl whos justa friend. but shes the closest person in my life right now. so i got her a rose. and i put a note "For the girl who keeps my life interesting p.s lets go eat some food and get drunk" on it. Is this appropreate? what does everyone think? If u got anyother suggestions of what i should put on the note. let me know.

2007-02-14 05:31:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me n my friends were playin dare or double dare... were out of ideas and wanted to know if you wanted to help... both guys and girls... we do anything... 4 guys 6 girls... make it fun

2007-02-14 05:30:18 · 5 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating