2007-02-14 05:37:47 · 26 answers · asked by jazboz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well friend if can happen to anyone who is so wanting to have a perfect love as they are expecting too much ..and are well influenced by the show girls/guys...everyone wants to have a perfect in their life so as their love, over expectations and over ambitiouse leads lonelyness in love life.....as u have placed this question u must be desperate to find ur love and when u get it, u and that person will be very happy.
But carve in ur mind friend...NEVER EVER TRY TO FIND YOUR PERFECT LOVER INSTEAD OF CREATING IT...Yes you can create the perfect special someone by making him/her special to you..and only u and ur other half will be together all ur life...u won't be alone anymore..or else...u ll be...
Be happy and best of luck.
2007-02-14 05:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
It happens more often that u can imagine but theres so many people that don't bother to take a chance so they might as well b allone if they r too afraid to try. There's nothing wrong w rejection. It's just hard to accept when u do et rejected. But if u get rejected 9 out of ten then u have one chance to meet someone new. If that person is not the one then u keep meeting new people. It's all about looking 4 the one that fits u.
2007-02-14 05:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by castillo5247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly yes it can happen. I believe there is a set plan for everyone in their lives. Some peoples plan does not include being with someone forever. I know this is sad but it just goes to show that maybe there are greater things they were meant to accomplish. I think people who are alone have deeper friendships that last a lifetime because they are not so wrapped up in someone else. I see nothing wrong with this. A good friend of mine back home is in the same situation and he is happy healthy and always there to lend a helping hand to all his friends. Hope this helps and gives a little shinining light to the case.
2007-02-14 05:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by brookesingsalways 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in fact, it can happen. Too often people set their standards too high. They may like someone but don't like qualities about them, so they move on. Only to keep doing the same thing every time because they want everything to be picture perfect in a relationship all in one package. Eventually, they realize that had they lowered their standards a bit, then they may have found happiness. People get too wrapped up on what is socially acceptable by the public eye that they forget that they, too, are imperfect. They worry if their family and friends will accept their significant other. Will they be embarrassed by them in terms of their appearance, behavior, humor (or lack there-of), and financial status? All too often it is a sad, but true, scenario for a lot of people. A lot of people have become so shallow in their thinking that they forget they are only human and deserve to be happy with someone they just feel comfortable with and can be themselves with. I, myself, once was that way. When I realized that I had some of the same faults that I was being so judgmental on when seeking a relationship, then I re-programmed my thinking and started over. Only then did I find someone that I truly could be myself around and love. And have been married to that man for 11 years now and going strong.
2007-02-14 05:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, however, the problem may not be "you" it may be that you are looking too hard. Sometimes love is where you least expect it. If you stop looking for that special someone, they might find you. Have fun and be fun to be with and you will be on the way to finding that special someone.
2007-02-14 05:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how they look for that special someone. Like if you act like a weirdo and get all psycho with chicks, then you probably won't find her. But if you don't try hardly at all, I don't think you will find her. Try to look your best all the time and have a positive additude and you shouldn't have any problems.
2007-02-14 05:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Isaac C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If someone is unlucky, yep. It's easy to end up alone, no matter how hard you try to find that person. Even if you lower your standards, you still have to FIND someone that meets your standards and that feels that you meet their standards. So really you have to be LUCKY to find anyone. Statistically speaking, it's amazing that anyone gets together at all. I like Jerry Sienfeld's answer to this quandry. People get together because of alcohol.
2007-02-14 06:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you're no longer a foul individual. whether, it is clever to no longer make huge purchases or flow in with a boyfriend till you have gotten married. even with what you p.c. to do along with your relationship existence, bear in mind that emotions in no way stay the comparable; they are constantly changing. Basing a relationship on that "in love" feeling is risky provided that feeling generally fades and you're left with that deeper dedicated love yet no longer constantly those butterflies and fireworks. via the way - it form of feels sparkling that your ex- isn't the single for you. you probably did the ultimate difficulty via breaking apart with him. familiar undesirable tempers and keeping you via the neck are definitely no longer wholesome in a relationship. I choose you the final!!
2016-10-02 03:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you meet special people when you are not looking or least expect it. No you won't be alone just hang in there.
2007-02-14 05:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by seaturtle36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Most people who end up alone never started looking to begin with.
Eventually you will settle.
2007-02-14 05:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Work is for Busters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋