I did my best , i was always there for her.
I helped her many times, when she was alone, when she was in trouble, when she needed anything i was there to help.
I love her endlessly, but she seems to be either missing or ignoring this fact.
Should i give up and move on...or maintain hope???
It's hard to be alone, but it's lethal 2 c her without being able to make her c me as i want.
2007-02-14 05:35:42 · 11 answers · asked by Resonance 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everybody for the help and reallly appreciate the nice answers u wrote.
I wish i could choose all as best answer.
(special thanks 4 Butterfly)
2007-02-14 05:49:33 · update #1
You obviously really love her but you love yourself more, right? You seem to be doing everything right and she just doesn't see or appreciate that. I did the same thing for my EX boyfriend of 13 years. We just split up but I know I deserve better and someone who appreciates me. I can relate to the fact that it's hard to be alone but it's even harder to be with someone who just doesn't get it! I only wish there were more guys like you! Good luck and one day you will find someone who will do all those things for you!! :)
2007-02-14 05:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl, I suggest you express your feelings clearly for her without pressuring her or putting her on the spot that she should feel the same for you...After all she may not know why you're being there for her all the time, she may think you are just being a wonderful friend.
So yes... step one, and the most important it communication.
LET her know how much you love her.
The rest is pretty much up to her....you can't force anybody to love you.
all you can do is let her know how you feel, and ask her if she feels the same.
2007-02-14 05:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by kujiiiro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look mate ive had acquaintances via the years that have a self belief subject ok now before everything women human beings like self belief yet secondly and that i say this each and all of the time whats the worst difficulty that can ensue if u ask her out i propose come on if ur out in a nighttime club on the weekend u would get rejected some time in the previous ya pull no longer something ventured no longer something gaind look the experts u could en up with a woman u incredibly like the cons you get rejected and you progression on its a no-brainer
2016-10-02 03:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she know how u really feel about her i think you may need sit down and have a talk with her to sort everything out this way she will know for sure how you feel and then you will get to know how she feels so you know if its time to move on or not. Good Luck
2007-02-14 05:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by jus_teazen08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to move on. If she sees u are not putting as much importance as u used to she may end up letting u know know how much u mean to her or completely forgetting about u. Which ever way it's always best to know were u standing.
Good luck.
2007-02-14 05:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by castillo5247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told her?communication is what i feel is missing here.does she know how you feel? don't just guess it.If you feel it's been yrs you've waited and nothing comes up even those little hints that you give aren't working i'd say move on.You don't want to be waiting till your hair turns grey and still be alone.ppl move on from time to time b4 they actually found their true partners.don't be afraid to meet new ppl and explore the sea,there are millions of fish why hold on to one that is hardly breathing? i had a similiar problem a few yrs back when my best bud told me he is in love with me,like you he had been there for me, but i told him my feelings for him was like of a sister to brother and since we've been friends for so long i don't want to break it by being his gal and not having the same feeling he does for me.and till to date he is still my best buddy.
I really cherish my friendship with him for respecting my decision and he still continues to be there for me even though i have a bf.So come out and talk to her and see her reaction.if she is mature she'd give you a truthfull answer rather then say smtg just to make you happy.Love was never to hold ppl back but to encourage them to come willingly.
2007-02-14 05:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by nadienia864 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this girl doesn't appreciate you. If I were you, I'd give up -- if you leave, and she flips out & wants you back, tell her exactly how you feel & that things need to change in order for the relationship to work.
Best of luck! :)
2007-02-14 05:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her to see what you do for her then leave her and she will soon miss you and the things you do for her.sometimes people just need to be reminded
2007-02-14 05:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would not give up.
2007-02-14 05:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by Fidgit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told her how you feel? If not try that then if that dont work she is hopeless.
2007-02-14 05:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋